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船家耸耸肩回应道：

 “jiaruneiyangdehua，zongzhiyemeiyoutanjiyaowanhunzheileideshi，dangranbuxuyaofunaxieyiwu。lianggerenzaiyiqiyiduguoleyigexingfudexiaji，nandaoshuozheihaibugouma?yaoshimeiyouyudaowo，denghoutadezhiyoushiyigewuliaojimodeshujia;erzhengyouyuyongyouwo，xianghucaihuichuxianduomemeihaokaixindezhuiyi，zheiyidianwojuedetayeyingdanggaoqingchude。”

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