经营爱情的技巧：恋爱SVR理论

 meihaodeaiqingyoushenmeni？s•v•rsanhuanjiejichulilunjuede：congliangrenlejiedaowanhundediyijieduanguanjianguanxindeshilingyifangderongmaodengkeguanchadecijixing(stimulus)，jishuanjie;dierjieduanshizhangwolingyifangguannian、xintai，bicidebenzhimanmanzhanxianchuqu，jiazhiguannian(value)deleisibianchengguanjiandian，jivhuanjie;disanjieduanshirenwujiaose(role)fentandegailvhuanjie，jirhuanjie。neimejingyingaiqingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankankaoyanaiqingdewenzhangba。

•第一阶段<相遇>刺激性环节←高度重视表面•

 diyiguanweicijixinghuanjie，shitanlianaiqianqi。diyicijianmianshidecijixingyibiemingbiaomian，jiangshijueceliangrenguanlianshibushihenyoukenengzaicifazhanqushideguanjianyaosu。lian、shenxing、fushidengyitaijixiaobiaoqing、zishidengxingdongtediangengweizhongyao。yigerenhuicongbiaomianfenbianlingyifangdepinpaixingxiangyuzishendelixianghuaguifanshibushifuhe，juecejianglaikefouxiangchu。

diyijieduanguanjianzi：naxiequanshiliuyun，biaomiancaishiyingdaoli!

•第二阶段<情侣>价值观念环节←高度重视相似度•

彼此攻克第一关后刚开始宣布相处。第二关为价值观念环节。美好的爱情有什么呢？这儿的管理决策要素来源于感情的一致性、对同样事情的爱好等价值观念上的相似度。在这里一环节两人的共通点、一致点越多，再次发展趋势的概率也就越大。 和男友吵架闹分手怎么办？

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dierjieduandeguanjianzishi：dangwomenhenizaiyiqi，zhenggeshijiejinyounihewo。

•第三阶段<完婚>人物角色环节←高度重视多样性•

 jiaruliangrendejiazhiguannianleisi，shuciyouhuihoudoujuedehenkaixin，dierjieduanjiangyaojinyibufazhanqushi，jiexiaqukaolvdaodeshikefouyutahuandujinsheng。

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