经营爱情的技巧：女人征服男人的六个最佳时机

 meihaodeaiqingyoushenmeni？duixinaiderenbiaodaaiyibuzhishinanshengdezhipeiquan，zuoweinvxing，niyenenggouzuodehenmei。danshizhangwozuijiashijicaisuanshizuizhongyaode。ruguo“xianshen”buzuliji，yexushibaixiaohaoqinggan;jiaru“chuchanglv”taigao，youshitajianguanbujing。zaishenmeshihoucaiyongjiji，zheiyaokaoconghuidenilinghuoyingbian。neimejingyingaiqingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankankaoyanaiqingdewenzhangba。

一、当他“失算”时

 hanshengzaoyuzheyigezhongtedatiaoxuan：xiangzuozou，guanyunshunchang，zaiaoyinianbanzai，guanzhizhengchu;wangyou，penyouzhaohuanjiamengdaili，danshayidanweizongjingli，xinziyufengxianxingtongyanggao。hequhecongzuoyouweinan，xuanzemiwang。yezhikanjianlaogongdiaonan，quemeiyouweita“hongtubaye”，tayiqingkongwanlidechangtaihuabiaomingleduilaogongjiaoda dexinrenganhelejie，tayaoranglaogongganjue，“tiaoxuan”zishenbianshirichangshenghuodeyizhongfangshi。zheiyitianhenwanle，hanshengshuibuzhejue，zhanqidaoshenghuoyangtaixiyan。meihaodeaiqingyoushenmeni？yezhiweitasongchapiyi，hanshengwen：“jiarudangguan，youkenengsipingbawenquefapoli;jiaruzuoshengyi，henyoukenengshuchengqiongren。

 zheiliangzhong，nixuyaonayige?”yezhishuo：“zuoshenmebingbuzhongyao，guanjiandejiushinibenshen。wulunruhe，wohaizhichini。”diertianxinglaihou，fajuezaofanzhuoziheniuru、tusimianbaoyiqiyazheyezhideliuyanbanliuyan：diyi，duosikaohaodeyimian。dier，xuehuifangxia。hanshengzuihouchuhaile，yinianhoubianchenghuanbaozhuangshicailiaoxingyedexianfengrenwu。dantabeiyezhidianhuadexinzishizhizhongjizhe，dangtachuzairenshengdeshizilukoushi，shilaopoweitaninghuiliangxingyuzhidejiaotongxinhaodeng。

评价：在男生含糊不清、瞻前顾后、进退两难的左右为难之时，女性的鼓励有四两拨千斤之作用。实际上汉生在潜意识中中现有了自身的决策，但他必须不断、猜疑来证实其恰当是否，而获得老婆叶芝的点拔，毫无疑问是给了他力拨千钧的变大了的动能。 和男友吵架闹分手怎么办？

二、当他“认知功能障碍”时

 sunjuntaoyoushuodahuadewenti，naizhinenggouqiangguobushedixugouchuqianyitianhenikesonggongjinwancandexinwenbaodao。buguanzhenbuzhenzheng，dahuoerlejietajinjinweilegenghaodizhaolezi，sheiyebuhuihetajiaozhener。

 youyitianjiapolaideshihou，sunjuntaoyougujizhongyan，nayimeijiajinglianhonglaopopokaixin，chengzuochunjin，meixiangdaojiangfapiaoluozaidimianshang，laopopozhangyan，suishoushiqiyiqiao，lele：“zheichouxiaozi，daxiaojiuxihuanhongwo，rujinhaibianxiahua?”sunjuntaoxinlibushufu，lusique“kuajiang”shuo，naer，tabuyongshuohuanghuade，wojuededouningaoxingma……

 pingjia：nanshengdahua，qianpianyilvquanshihaogaowuyuanzhixurongbaduanjiazi，ke“renzhigongnengzhangaichengxing”shi，gengshinvxingmiaoshouzhuabuzhishi，guanjianshilusiconglaibuchuochuan，shitashunganpafengding，xiabuquzaidibaruanti，jiwushiqingmian，youyizhenjianxue，zaishitalaolaoshishidiqieshiluoshi。

三、当他“失察”时

 jinjunzhixingyunquleyigehaoqizi，jiaojiaodedaqi、haokan、caikeyibansuizhejiehunhoudeshenghuodejinxinggengshitalingyanxiangkan。buguanzaijiali，huanshizaiwaimian，jiaojiaodoumeiyangneixing。jinjunzhixinqingyukuaixianxia，youfajuejiaojiaodouhuiyidezhiyudizhanshichugengshitachayideyoushihuozhuanzhang。jinjunzhiyixiangzishiweidiannaozhuanjia，zheijitiantayijingshejifanganfanzadegerenzhongxin，baozhengyibanshi，tatingchunfengdeyi，xiangjiaojiaoxianbai。jiaojiaokuatayiliangju，quezaisuibianzhongjianjianquanlejigeribendongmanshijixiaoguo，shuizhunxianzhuzaitayishang。jinjunzhimudengkoudai：“heshiyeyouzheiyishou?”

 pingjia：jiaojiaodebiaodaxiaoguoqujueyujilaogongbuduanyiwaijingxi，buyinlengjun、yafuqusheng，shudubawodehenjishi，zheijiushi：zaiweilaogongnuanchangshihualongdianjing，shitagaoqingchu，qishiwobiniyiliaodehaixing，gengqiang。

四、当他“失帧”时

 hongjingligaokuanbipengzhangdefachunqi，jinyibushijiaoaozida，tuiyibushikuangwangzida，zongzhiyixiegerenganjuetaiguoyouliang。youyu2~3pianqikanlunwenzoushanglexueshuqikan、jihuijishuzhichengshengzhiyilutongguan，tabianyixiejiaoaozidaqilai。liuxinshigejinxiaoshenweidelaopo，duilaogongzheibanlengaomianbuleyoulv。

 youyici，tahelaogongyiqizaichufangzuofan，dahoudajiaodihaipashayu，laogongduofangbuhuilaidao：kaoyanaiqing,“jinkai，yeyoubiwoniude?”liuxinyangzhuangjingjushuo：“zheiyutexiongmeng，butaihaonong。”

 hongyeshidiyicishayu，ziyiweishixiaocaiyidie，danqixianzhuabudao，daozhenshixiaxiaodaoshiliangshoufadou，kaiguotangdeyufeiersibule，shangcuanxiatiao。honglangbeibukanzhizhe，shouli、deshenshangjianmanzangxue，rengxiashuiguodaotaoyi。yifanxiazhetengchulai，liuxinbianguayulinbianshuo：“zhangfu，haiyounigaobudiandeshi?”hongyizhuangkuangwang：“heng，taniu，yeyoubitagengniude。”liuxinnairenxunweidida：“duia，sheidoubieniuguodule，renwaiyouren，tianwaiyoutianma。”hongyileng，bantianbuhangsheng，shayudequanguochengbianchengyingshengshengderenshengquanyu……

 pingjia：zigu“shagouquanfu”dexijubiaoyan，liuxinjinjinmingzhengyanshundiquanjielaogongshoulianxingguangmang。nanrenzaidingfengshifeichangrongyixingbianshizhen，shuobailejiaoaoziman，bijiehouyizheng。liuxinzhishayuyizhaokanqilaijidongrenxin，jingyingaiqingdefangfayounaxie？shijishangyihuankouyihuan，mudexingjiqiang，zai“canburendu”dejingyanjiaoxunzhongdiandaoweizhi，buchoulaogong“wuwang”。