诠释爱情：女人应该多偶吗？

 quanshiaiqing,bansuizhejinqibannianchupengdequanshinvxingqiuzhuzheshili，yulaiyuduoqiangsisuo，zaixianrujindeziranhuanjing(qimashizhongguoziranhuanjing)xia，zuoweinvxing，youduoouquxiangyingdangma?neimezenmeyangcaishiaiqingma?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanruguoaiqingduoyidiandewenzhangba。

 fenxixia”duoouzhi“zheiyidingyi，kaiqibaidusousuo，jibenshangbaifenzhijiushijiuquanshiduiyunanshengde，“feichangshaohuichuxiannanshengbuyuanyiduoquhaoduogelaopode,zheishiyouyunanshiyongyou zhuiqiuwanmeiduooudechongdong。”duoouzhishinanrendetianxingzaoyishitiejinjibenyuanlixingdeyigejianjie，bukedongyao。danzuijinjinian，dajiahaitingjiandaliangde，neigesheisheisheiyouhuanlenanyouni;tabeihouyidapiguanyinbinggensui;weilegenghaodifangzhiwoduinanpengyouguofentouru，woxiangzhaobiedenanxingpengyoujunhengxiaxinlizhuangtai(ziran，womingbaitazhishishijuxianxingzaixianliao，bingbuhuicunyouchugui);

q1:zaiyouzhudeqiantitiaojianxia，wolejiebiedenanshengxingma?

 jinqiyouyigezaizhiwotichuwentiwodemimingqiuzhuzhewenqi“jiaoshi，wofaxianlewolaogongyouduoouquxiang，worenweihenbuheli，jiujinggaibugaiyeyiyangzhaobiedenanshenglaijunhengxiazijixinlizhuangtai。”

 “buyinggai”。youyuwojuede，tabingmeiyouzhenshidequyingduinanti，zhishigenjukaobeilingyifangdebuzhengquelaizuodaozishenxinlizhuangtaidejunheng，danmeiyouxiangqijieguohuishizenyang，tanaizhimeiyouxiangqiwanyibeilaogongfajueleruolingyifangmingquetichuliyizheiyinvrenshimeiyouyiqieyoudianketande。yinci ，wojianyitaquyingduinanti，quanshiaiqing,ruokeyiyonggoutongjiaoliudiaojieshi，ruobuhao，shixuanzedian。tashishidefangfa。

 youxierenhuitichuwentiwo，woyiqianyouyutouruguoduozuizhongmeibeiaixi，rujinwochukaihenanyoujiaowang，danhaiburongyinongduangenbiedenanshiyixingpengyoudelianluo，worenweineiyangjiuburongyiduitazijintourutaiduole，yingdangma?woxunwenta“lianluo“zhideshi?tashuo“weixinliaotianya，haiyoujihuidehuahenyoukenenghuijuhuihuodong，danfeichangshaohuiliangrenyurenxiangchu，tayelejieshiwonanyoude。”woneishihourentongletadezheilei“fangfa”，danqueligaozhita，neiyangjiuhaosixingzouzaigaochubuxiugangsishang，yidanchucuo，daozhidejieguokenengshizaihuojide。yihouzenyang，woyebutaiqingxile，danwomingquedeshi，nagenvhaiyexuhuiguodehainenggou，danlizhenzhengxingfukuailehuanshihenyuan。

 rujinderengengweixinfuqizao，naizhibatanlianaixingrongchengyizhongshaguaibaozhuang，haoxiangnipengdaoyigegaoshuaifuhuoshifujianverqiexiyinta，nidelianshangjiugengjinyibu，wojuede，zheiertigaodezhishishiyizhongxiangjinrenjijiaowangjiqiaodepanduanli，jiuhaosichouyandenanrenzaishejiaomeitichangsuoxiayishipaiyan，nvxingxiayishidizanmeilingyifangfuzhuangyiyang，daduoshubenzhibingmeishenmedadegenggai。eryiduanzaiyiduanqingganshenghuozhong，ruodajiazhishikaolvdeshijiaowangdeshenglixuqiu，qingchulegudu，jiusuannengyiqizouneimaliangnian，danneiyangdeguanlianzuihouhuanshinanyizouruhunyinshenghuo，youyubicizaiguanlianzhonghushileyingduibenshennantiyufazhan。youxierentiyibasuoyoushengjidandoufangdaotongyigezhulanli，danshengjidanzhongguishishengjidan，nizhongguishini，erzhemeiyouduibixing。zhangqixingguanlianshiyigeziwojienadequanguocheng，nijieshoulelingyifangyuzishendebutaihao，erqiemengfalexiangyaoqugenggaideniantou，jiusuanzuizhongxuehuile“jiazhiguannianbuyiyang，wuxudaobutongbuxiangweimou”，yeshizhongfazhan。

q2:xianzaiwodanshen，neimewogaichupengxuduo nanshengma?

 zuoweipingquanzhuyizhe，woshishiyongzheiyiniantoude，yeshiyongnvquanyundongdefazhan。dannvxinggennanshengcongyichuanjiyinshangjiubuyiyang，buguannvquanyundongruhefazhanqushi，nvxingzaineifenmixitongshangrengranshaoxunyunanshi，nvxingzaiguangsawangbuyusuochengdandefengxianxingshinanxingkendingbutaikenengpengdaode，zuijiduanhuadejieguoshi：nvxinghuiyiwaihuaiyunle，dannanshishikendingbutaikeneng。cizhi，yinweirenleishehuidaoxianrujinquanshichengxifuquanshehuidejiazhiguannian，shehuifazhanhuiyong“lanqing”laixingrongduoouzhidenansheng，danyongdao“lang、luan”dengcilaixingrongduoouzhidenvxing，yigerenpinyouwentidenvrenshiwufayoudaliangjiyupengdaogaoxieshiyongjiazhidenanshengde。tashinvxingtiaoxuanduooufangweishideqianzaixingfengxianxing。

yuqishuoshizhaodaliangbeiyongtai，burushuoshishitigaodeziji，kuozhangenggaodeshejiaoquan。

 beiyongtaizheigecishimiaoshuzhutaidouhaimeideqingkuangxia，yonglaiyuliude，danyouyushibeiyongtai，shiaiqingma？duogongnengxingyuxuhangnenglidoubugou。beiyongtainengtianchongdajiayidingshuipingdekumen，danshizhongbubianshijinaxie。yaozhao“beiyongtai”，qimashizhaotongtexing，tongpinlv，tongjiazhiguannian，tongxiangderen，erbushibangniweixiudiannaodexiaozhao。ruoguoranyaoxingrong，neiyinggaishixiangdangyu“nanerhao”ba，erzheileinanrenshijuticunyoude，niyaomeiyoushiyouyuniconglaimeiyouxiangyiwangzhao。runixiaizhudongxichi，neimanenggouzaizheiliyixingquaihaoshangchixuqutigao，yigerenlejiexinpengyoudefangshidaduoshushixingquaihaodexiangjiao，niyizhizaizheiyixingyelizuodaoyigenaxiedegaokuanbibianhuijinipengdaoshenmeyangderen，jijiqufazhanshejiaoquanhuijinichupengdaodalianggenniyiyangchenggongderen。

dajiaweiheyaoquxunliantanlianaijiqiao?weilerangzishenzuodaoganqingsuiyi。

 ganqingsuiyi，genjingjidulishiyiyangde，bushishuozishennenggousuiyisuiyidixiaiyiqieyigeren，zhishizaidajiajuedezheigerenbuzhiqurangzishentourudeqingkuangxia，zunxunzishenqutiaoxuan，queburongyiyouyiqiedeshidiao，tashiyizhongyouyongyoumouderenshengjingjie。nvrenweishenmeyaoyouduooutiaoxuan?ninengyoudaliangjiyugenjugenbierendechupengzhongchajueziji，jienaziji，youyujiaowangshiyigehuxiangdequanguocheng。ruguoaiqingduoyidian，ruguoniburongyichiyiyouyufangqileyigeyouhunhouchuguidefushuainanpengyouerdanyouburongyipengdaogengqiangdenanshengdeqingkuangxia，niyejiuzaoyifeichangzhideguoshangxingfudeshenghuole。