年轻的爱情是什么？异地恋怎么维持？

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1.为大家的外地感情制订标准和要求

lianrenjianyibandoushihuizhidingyixiebiaozhun，birushuangfangdouyuanyibukeyisuiyidegenduizishenyouhaogandeyixingpengyouyouhuizheixie。

2.信任相互

 bubirenweizishenshikenandaoer，yaoshiyouyidiandiandezhenxiangjiugangkaishisuiyicaiyi。caijishiqingganzhongdejiaoda deduishou，yidingyaochedixinrenganlingyifang，yiguoliancaiyouzoudaozuihoudehenyoukeneng。

3.每日都沟通交流沟通交流

 keyifangzhaoyiqiezhengchangdeguanximoxing，zaiqizhongzhiyibianshinengmeiridegoutongjiaoliu。**、duanxiaoxi、shoujiweixin、xinlangweibodenggezhonggeyangjishitongxinshoujiruanjiandounenggoukaolvzheiyiguiding。

4.别主观臆断

 yaojianxinxianghujiandeqinggan，bubizhuguanyiduandejuedebierenlejienizaixiangshenme，yaohelingyifangduogongxiang。wulunshihaoshihuai，duidajiadeqingganbukeyimolengliangke，ranglingyifanglejienidelixiang、haipa、xintaiheqipan。

5.按时碰面

 qidaiaiqing,changchangpengmianduiyiguoliandequdechenggongshishifenguanjiande。dingxiashijian、duozhangshijianjianyici、heshijian。yuehaolashijianhouyaobaozheng neiyitianbuhuishoudaoyingxiang，ruguonichexiaopengmiandeqingkuangxia，nijiushizaijilingyifangshuozheiyiduanqingganduinieryansuanbudeshenme。weilegenghaodijianta，yingdangchexiaoquanbudefenpei。jiarunirangbiededeshieryingxianglepengmian，neimahenyoukenengyaoshenzhongkaolvweiheyaozaiyiqile。

6.表述自身的情感

 jiaruxianglingyifangle、xinqingyumen、qipankuanweizheixiedounenggougaozhilingyifang。ruguonibiaoshuchunideqinggan，bianhuiranglingyifanglejieniyizhizaitouru，huiweihubaoyanghaodajiadeguanlian。

7.生产制造意外惊喜

meiyigerendouxiaiyiwaijingxi，yinweitalaidehuran，bingqieyounengfanyingchushengchanzhizaoyiwaijingxiderendetiexinhefengqu。

8.万里寄相思

changchangnenggougesanchawudejichuzaiwaidideairenjiyixiewupinyiwang，biaoshunideqingsiheguanzhu。

9.共享热情

 jiarunengshuirujiaorong，ninenggengzhangwonidelingyiban，youqishizhishenwaidi。yihouniyejiuhuigengweideqingxilingyifangdexiehereqing。nenggouxiangyixiangdajialiangduishadouyoureqing，suihouyiqigongxiang，huifeichangdadetigaodajiadeguanlian。

 zongjie：yiguolianxiangduixingfeiyiguolianeryangengweimolianliangrendizhiyouhuodegongzuonengli，huashigoutongjiaoliudegongzuonengli，jiejueganqingweijidegongzuonenglideng。jinguanzaoyuzhuduomolian，keshiyiguolianqudechenggongdelianrenyeshixuduode，xuduo lijingwaidimoliandelianrenzaiyiqihougengweiaixizheiyifenyiqizouguodeqinggan，pengdaonantigengxiangyaoquyingduinantijiejuekunnan。yinci bubiqujiaolvqingxujianglaideshier，nianqingdeaiqing,guohaodangxia，zuozijinengzuodejiuxing，chengshizaitian，moushizairen，zheijuhuayiyangnenggouyongyuanweiguanxinyiguoliantongguolvdeggmmmen。