美好的爱情,怎么提升自我成为他的最佳选择？

 mianbaoheaiqingshishenmeyisi？tangruobadanshendanyouzaitanlianaishilingqingniandenvhaiguilei，neimawozhixiangyaofenweierzhong，yizhongshiyijingchenjinzaiwenrouxiangdangzhong，xiangyouganqingyuyuedexingfukuailenvhai;erlingyizhongzeshiqinfentishengziwo，yijingganqingzhuiqiuwanmeizhidaoshangdenvshi……qianmianyizhongshixingfude，houmianyizhongjiangyaohuodedaoguishuyuzishendexingfukuaile，tangruoxianzaideniqiaqiaoshihoumianyizhong，nishibushiyouxiangguozenyangcainenghuodezishengongzuonenglifanchouyineigenggaodexingfukuaile?neimeneijiushiaiqingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanmeihaodeaiqingdewenzhangba。

 yingduijijianglailindeganqing，daliangdenvhaizhishishidenghou，wangshangtianqidao，daogaozheguishuyuzishendeganqingdelailin，qianjingdeyaoqiulaotianyeshangcizishenyiduanxingfukuailedeganqing……dannishibushiyouxiangguo，shijishangxingfukuaileshibushikeyichaoguonideyugu，daliangdeyaosubawozainideshoushangni?

 meiyoucuo。neijiushiaiqing，niyaoxunzhaoshiheqiechusedeyixingpengyou，nanshiyedouxiangyaozhaochusedenvshironghe，tangruodajiabahunlianjiaoyouzuoweixiaoshoushichangdehua，nisuodapeidelianren，gengshiniziwojiazhiyejiushishuonidefengcaidedingxingfenxi，neimazenyangcainengtishengziwo，rangzishenzaihunlianjiaoyouxiaoshoushichangzhonggerenjiazhikuaisubiaozhang，zaojiuyiduanmeimanxingfudetanlianaihehunyinshenghuoni?benwenlinxijiaoshijiangdaizhuzhuweikanyixiazheixiekeyibangnitigaoziwojiazhi，chanshengxingfukuaileganqingde“guanjianzi”——

谈恋爱关键字一：尤其

 dui，meiyoucuo，diyigeguanjianzibianshiyouqi，xianzaideniguangjiegouwuhuiguanxinshenmechanpinni?wojuedechulegangxingxuqiudeshangpinyiwai，mianbaoheaiqingshishenmeyisi？nigengxiangyaoguanxindeshizheixiekanshangquhenyouqidewupin。

 “youqi”zheigecihenyouqu，tabuyidingyiweizhezheyouduomededehaokan，danbidingshiyuzhongbutongde，shiyouchusediande，erzaihenanhaizidechupengzhong，dangtajiangchu“woganjuenihentebie”neiyangdehuayushi，shijishangzaiqianyishizhonglizaoyijuede“gennizaiyiqironghe，dajiayidinghuishengyunchuyouqidezisunhoudai”。

 danzheiermingji，youqibingbushiyilei，bingbushitaiguofukuadequxiyinrenmuguang，zhishixunzhaozishenjiaoda deliangdian，xunzhaozishenhezhoubianrenbuyiyangdediqu。

谈恋爱关键字二：工作能力

 gongzuonenglizheigeci，yibanshihenanshiguagoude，zheierjianggongzuonenglishishuangcenghanyi：yishitishengziwozailianaizhongdeshuizhun，youyuduinieryantanlianaibujinshiyizhongxiangyou，lingwaihuanshiyizhongyunying，younaxiedeshuizhun，caikeyiyouzizhixiangyounaxiedeganqing;erlingyizhongshixuehaorangnanhaizidegongzuonenglituxian。

 xuehaobiaoshuzishen，genjubiaoshuzishenrangzheiyinanhaizixunzhaozishendegongzuonenglisuoshu，takenengchajuezijidegongzuonenglihexinxinchediyuanyuyunishi，tagenghuijiandaonideliangdian。

 danzheileifangfashijizenmecaozuoni?shijishangbukeyi，ruguoninengfangkuanzishen，shanyufajuejiukeyi，liruzaitaxiezhunixiudengpaohuoshibangnideshoujishuaxitong，nizhiyaoyongyizhonghenqinpeideyudiaoshuo：“nizenmeneimeqiangda，zongjuedezheiyiquanshijiemeinikendingbuhuide，jianzhiquannengya!”

jiusuantazhidaonishizaitaohaota，danduitaeryanyequeshihenshiyong!

谈恋爱关键字三：关心自身

 henyoukenengnigengzaiyitanlianaidezishen，guanxinzhezishensuoxiwangdetanlianaimubiao，yinci yizhizaitiqianzhunbeizheyinglaitanlianaidelailin。danwojuedezaiganqingdaolinyiqian，nigengliyingguanxindeshizishen。youyuzainidedeshenshangyouguoduonenggoutishengziwodediqu，youguoduoliyingguanxindexingye。youshihouninengsikaofanshengziji，kanyixiazaizishendeshenshangyoushenmefeichangzhidetigaode?youshenmeshibulitanlianaijinxingde……tangruonizijikanbujian，zhaozhaozhoubianyoulianaijinglidehaoguimi，huoshizhaoyigejiaowangdefeichanghaodeyixingbangnizhidaozhidao，xuduo qingkuangxiayixiewupinjiugezheyicengchuangzhi，yidianjiupo，danzishenhennengchuopo，yikaobierendexiezhu。

谈恋爱关键字四：学好用“第一次”

 zheiyidiyiciziranbingbushiniyaodeneiban，neizhiyouhuirangnanhaiziganjuenijiaoqing，naizhixinjibiao。zaizheierlinxijiaoshijiangde，shijishangshixuehaolinghuoyunyongzheiyicijulaizhuyaobiaoxiannideshehuizhengnengliang，liruzaizheigenanhaizidainiqulvxingshininengshuo“wohaishidiyicilaineimehaokandediqu”;zailiruyeyou“wodiyicijiandaoneimehaowandedianying”“diyicilejieyuanxianneimequwei”……

 zheihuifanyingnizhengchuzaiganqingdetansuojieduan，bingweiyouguoduodefumianxinxisixu，qiezhuyaobiaoxianchunifeichangrongyikaolvdeshizhi，bingqiehenchunhenmeng，henfeichangzhidenanshixiai。

 meihaodeaiqing,ziran，tishengziwodefangfabudanshijinyoulinxijiaoshijiangdezheizhong，bingqieyixiefangfayebieyankeanzhaowenzhangneirongzhongdefangfaquzuo，buranzunshouguizehuirangzishenyuelaiyuebuzizai，huanshiyijuzishendexingqing，sisuoyunyingzishenfengcaizhifa，tishengziwoshiyongjiazhi，bianchengtadedexuanzeba!