这就是爱吗？如何做一个情商高又有智慧的女性?

 zheijiushiaima？qinaidedejiemeimen，youhaozhangshijianmeiyouhedahuoershuohuale，pobudeyifeichangbaoqiandezaiduqingdahuoerkuanrong。yinweiyixieyaoqiu，rjiezuijinhuiqiyongyigexindeweixingongzhongpingtai“rjiemiyu”，zheiyixinweixingongzhonghaohuitishengyixiexindepindaohexindejingcaiwenzhang，ziranyehuichuxiangezhonggeyangjingmeijingmeilipindechoujianglaixiexiedajiayizhiyilaiyijianshidemomodishiyong，yeqidaidahuoerhuizaicizhichiwo，xiexie!neimejiuxiangaizheniyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanjiushiaizhenidewenzhangba。

 zaizheierxiangduinishuoyiliangjutiwaihua：xiangxinxuduo xiaojiemeimenyijianshidejingyingqingkuangshiyoujianyide，naizhiyixiexiaojiemeimenbangwodianziyoujianyuwoliaolexuduo tamendehuamiangan，woqueshihendadongyebaoqian。wobuyuanyizaizheierguoduodediaokanyigexinxiangmuxianggaohao，xiangwanchengzishendelixiangyouduomenan，youyuzhongjiuxiangxinmeiyoubuchenggongjiumeiyouqudechenggong，zuibaoguideshiyouyikeganyuchangshihejuebufangqidexin。yinci ，jibian zaijiannan，yinweiwoyidinghuijianchidaodi。jinjinzhongjiuluomabushiyiriwangongde，zheijiushiaima？zheiyilushangdajiahuilijingxuduo womenwufayuliaodeshi，keshidajiayidinghuijianjiandidebatamendouyiyibaituo，xiwangyejianxinzhongyouyitian，wonenghedajia(zheizhongshanjierenyizhenxinshiyixingfudenvhaimen)yiqigongxiang“luomadiguo”dechengxiao。

 shufaganqingjieshu。jinrixianggenxiaojiemeimengongxiangyipianjinguan“su”keshiyoujubeigaokuanbichouxiangxingdewenzhangneirong。rangdahuoergaoqingchuzenyangzainannvguanxizhongzuoyigegaoqingshangyouconghuidenvxing。guanjianbaohanxialieshidian：

一、训男之术取决于“忍”，你不仅要可以忍得他的“酒肉朋友”，也要能忍得他的暧昧对象。

 nikeyibatadexiongdisuoyoufazhanqushichengnidexiongdi，liantamengongzuofangmiandekunao、fuqixingshenghuochenggongshifoubixuduinishuo，shangzhoutouhuanyeyaolaiyuenilejieshanhoushiyi，niyaochouzhaobuzhenineiyiyeweiguidezhangfuma?wuxunizhua，tadexiongdidoushihuixianjiangnizhangfuzhuaqilaiqinzisongzhinishouli。

 duiyunanshengshuobailede“qinmeimei”，qinaidede，nanrenhenvrenconglaimeiyoushuobailedechunzhenguanlian。nvrenhenanrendeguanlianzhihenyoukenengyouerzhong：yizhongshiqinshuguanxi，yizhongshixingxingwei，chuleerzhong，jiuzhiyousuanmeishier。ershuobailedechunzhenguanlianyezhiyouyouerzhong：yiqiehuodeshoudequanshi“chunzhen”deliangxingguanxi，meihuodeshoudebianshi“gengchunzhen”deliangxingguanxi。

 shijieshangmeiyoubutouhuandenansheng，quanbunanshengdoushiyouchizhewanlikanjianguozhongdexinlizhuangtai，nixuyaozuodebianshikuaizhunhendebatadeaimeiduixianglierushouxia，biekububinaobubichao，chongfenfahuiniquanbudetiexinwenrouhetongqingdaliquduitahao。

 chucizhiwaishizhongbubichuyubeidong，nanshengnenggougenqitanvxingxianliaonuanwei，nandaoshuoniyejiubukeyishangxipinweiqitanansheng?dajiexiaoxiangdeshuainan、youzhinan，weiheyaozhijiandaonibianshangzheigenanren。shidudeshitachidiancu，shinannvguanxilijiaoda decuiqingyao。cikexinjideshita，niyaobixuneimebeicuideqiangrencujingqiangzhuangxiaolianbaichuyifuhuodazhengqiyangme。

feijinxinjideguannansheng，haibibushangxiaosaziruderangnanshengguan。nvxingyueaiguan，nanshengyueaitoushi。

二、男生始终是容貌协会理事

 ‘nishizuimeilide"，tashinanrenaishuodeyijupianrendehua。qinaideguniangmen，yaoshinanshengyeyouyikouqizai，wuluntashi17huanshi70，tadeshuangyanjiushizhongfangdaozheixieshencaixiuzhang，datuigenbuguanghuadepiaoliangdenvrendeshenshang。

 qinaideguniangmen，wobingbushishuonanshengchukainvxingdebiaomianjiuquandouwulun。keshiyigebenzhizaimeilidenvxing，yehuanshibixuhaohaodiqingxibiaomiande。tajiushinidebibeipin。biaomianhaokanjingzhinvrenbianshijiaoweizhuanqian，feichangrongyidedao nanshenghaogandu，yaoshimeiyouhaokanjingmeidebiaomian，cankudexianshihuiduinishuo：nidebenzhiyenanyibeibierenfajue。youjugaoxiaodedianyingjingdiantaicibingbushineimeshuodeme，jiusuanpengdaofengxianqingkuang，meilidenvrenbeibierenjiudegailvyegenggaoyixie。

 yinci jibian zainimenguanlianpingwen，taruhunyinshenghuoyihou，yeshizhongbubixiangxinnanrendezheijuhua。qianwanbieyouyikeguoduganyufengxiande“shengmuxin”，shizhongbubiganyuanzuoyigerenlaozhuhuang，pianzhezishenzaitaneixinwowulunruhequanshizuimeilide。

三、做一个小家子气的女性

 jiushiaizheni,nanshengyizhihuichizenvpengyou“niluanxiangshenme，wobuguoshisongqianrennvyoudexiaogouquyiyuan，wobuguoshihexuejiechigefanshuoshuohua，danshibushitaibianjiexiangxijieshaonilejie，zhihouyoujihuiyidingdaidajiapengmian..nihekuneimexiaoxinyaner."

 yincinvhaimenjiugangkaishibuduanduizishenshenducuimian，gaozhizishenaiqingjiushiyaohuxiangxinren，aitajiuxuyaozhongshita，yaodaqimingshili。xuduo nvhaiyegaoqingchuyiduanshenxinjiankangyouliangdeqingganbixutouruyudenghou，bixuxinrenganyuzhongshi，naizhijianxinzijidenanpengyouqueshichuse，renyuanrenpintaihao。

keshinvhaimen，nidenanpengyouyoumuyouwukuiyunidezheiyifenxinrengan，wukuiyunidezheiyifenzhongshihebaorongni?

 zaitayuqianrennvyou、xiaoxuemei、yibannvxingdeyilaierquzhongjian，jiuyibushidanchunxingdetongxueguanxile，chizhechizhejiuchidaochuangbianlaidao。yixieshierbingmeiyouzheimejiandan。guoduodexinrenganbianhuibianweifangsi，guoduodebaorongbianhuizaocheng panbian。

 youshidajiaqueshibuyongneimejiechu，buyaobeicuidezhuangdaqile，jiaruyiduanqinggannengjiyunidebuguoshishishikekedebiequzishen，yayiganzishendeyaoqiu，neimazheiyiduanqingganjiujuebibushinidezhenzhengdeaiqing。yinci jiutatashishidangyigexiaojiaziqidefunvba，jinjinbubimanbujianglijiuxing。

jiarutazhenxinaini，jiuxiangaizheni,tahuixiankaolvdaoshibushinikaixin，tadiyigezhongshidehuijiushini。