不完美的爱情,这个姑娘又作又懂事

 congaiqingkaishi,shijishangworenweibushizuocaihuisi。taitinghuatiexinbianhuiranglingyifangganjuemeiyouxiyindechongdongle?neimebuwanmeideaiqingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbuzaixiangxinaiqing,dewenzhangba。

 zhishangshinantixushu，youguanzheigewentiyiqianyeshiyounvhaisiliaowenguowo，jinrihedahuoergongxiangyigeyinanhaizijiaodudechudehuiying，gonggeweicanzhao。

 nijiandaodezhuangkuangshi，nvxingyouqihuizuo，youqihuimaimeng，congaiqingkaishi,nanrenjiuguanhuaibeizhidiweizhuzhuan，jitataoqian，meitianhuafeigezhonggeyangxiaoxinsirangtakaixingaoxing，niyouqixianmujidu，zaihuitouqiaoqiaozishenneibule(cun)qi(zai)denanyou，keshinixuyaolejie，zheileizuoyeshiyouchengbende。

晓听我详尽道来。

“zuo”yiweizhedeshiyiziwoweizhongxin，er“tinghua”yiweizheyinanrenweiguanlizhongxin。

renkedeshi，yige“shanren”tongchangshiganqingzhongdekuaichuanpaohui。

 lirunanrenxiangnila，yigedianhuadarangni，niyejiupidianpidiandadeyiwang，shijianzhangletayagenburongyizhongshini，hushinizijidefanganheshijian，jinisuishidaiming，zuobudaohaiguaini。tashizuicuqiandeshili，zhihushangdeyueduzheyingdangdougaoqingchuzheiyidiande。

 yinci dajiatiyinvrenyaobitchyidian，yejiushishuoyaozuoyidian。zheileitiyiyouhenduo，youdeshulihuiquanbenzhengdangdixiezheizhongwupin，suiyijuhaoduogeshili：

不必：

 bubirangnanrenyiyanjiukantouni，yaojitazhuomobutoudejuede，kendingbukeyirangtamenyijuhuajiujiangnixushuwanhou。nixuyaozhuomobutou，bukeyisuishidaiming，yaoshitatizaoyuding。

nibuyaobaogaonidouzuolenaxie，jiarutawen，ninengjianduanshuoshuo，bubishiwudaxiaoshuoqilaibuting。

bubiwennanren：nizenmebubangwotongdianhua?huoshi：niganshaqule?gengbubizhugepenyoutongdianhuazhaota。

bubijietaqian，bubibangtabaituoexjitamendeheiying，shitazishenjinxingzheizhong。

索取：

 xuehaoyongmaimengsuoquchongni，shitabangnikaipinggai，bangnibanjiaju，bangnichuxiangfa，bangnijiejuekunnan，yaoxiangtamaimeng，“zenmeyangma”，“nile”，“bierenyaoxiangzheiyima”。bangzhulezaihetashuodao：“zhenbang”，“younizhenxingfu”。

zhengqueyindaotahongren“niyoumeiyouxiangwoya”，“neimenikuaidaiwochimeiweide”。

shitazhuomobutounidexintaizhuanbian，chennu，shangxin，jiduanhuawuqizhuangbei——ku。quanshiweilegenghaodishitahongren。

 keshizheiyizuoshiwubiyouchengdude。rutongkaishichangshuo，nijiandaoyuezuoyueshouchong，keshinisuobuqingchudeshi，nanrenzaichixumanzunvrende【zuo】deqingkuangxia，shifeichangleide。youshihouzuoyixia，xiaohaotadiansixu，shitalaiquyueni，quyueniyihounizaijitamenyidianjiangshang，neileijuedeniliangdouxiai。nixihuandeshitalaiquyueniquhongren，taxihuandeshitahongrengaoxinghuodelechongzudehaowuyiwen。

liuyi，shangbianneiyiduanhuayoulianggeguanjiandian：

关键点一：有时候。

 nibunengmeitianzuo，meishimeikemaimeng，zishenquandoubugan。“zhangfu，nilaizhufanbei，bierenxiangchinizuodemeiweide。”“zhangfu，nilaishuawanbei，bierenchidehaochengma，douguainizuodetaimeiweile。”“zhangfu，nibangwoxxxxxx”“zhangfu，ninengbunengxxxxxxx”

 zheizhongyujusuiyilinchuquyijuquanshifeichanghaoyongde，nanrentingzhewenxin，keshinibunengbamaimengdangquannengle，bubirenweizishenzuibiansagejiaojiukeyi，jiuquandouwuxuzuo，suihouzaikuayikuazhangfu，nimeitianneimegan，jiufangfoqiyelibianzongshigenlingdaoganbuayufengchengnaxiejutidehuoyebugandezhigong，meiyourenduiniyouganjue，lingdaoganbuyongbushangduozhangshijianbianhuilejienidezhenzhengshuizhun。

关键点二：奖赏。

 guohouduitachongzudekendingshiquebaonanrenxiayicihaixiangyaoquyuenihongrendeyagen。tabangnijiejuelenanti，yidingshuoqi“nitailihaile!”naizhiguangshuohaibugou，ninengjitamenchuishifenzhongbei，huobangtazuoyizhuojiachangcai，huochuanshangtaxiaidegongzuozhifu，zixiaojiangshangdaodajiangshangdounenggou。keshidabufennvxingdenantishi，nanrendiyicikaolvtamen，tamenkuayikua，diercikaolv，youkua，disanci，….，dincikaolvdeqingkuangxia，tamenzaoyibazheigeshizuolisuoyingdangdele。nanrenyoushihouyibuzuo，fandaogangkaishizuo：nibianle，shibushinibuaiwole，zhiqiannibingbushineiyang。zaibijiaoyanzhongyidiande，weilegenghaodizhengshi“laomahuanshiyoufengcaide，laomahuanshiyouxierenyaode”dangzhongquzhaoqitanandenuanwei，youyiqizishendenanyou。。。hehehe，wonengchengdanzerendiduinishuo：youtryyoudie.

nihuoxuhuiganjue：womeidiea，wofandaofajuetagangkaishijiaolvbuanwoleni!neileijuedezhenhaokan!

 keshi，zheileishier，nanrenyibianjiaolvbuanni，yibiangengqiangzhuyaobiaoxian，neixinyibianganjuelei。youshihoujihuidaobuhuilei，pinciyiduo，pilaoganjiujileiqilaile，pilaoganyiqilai，jiugangkaishicaiyi：“wozheidaodishitugesha?”“haibibushangzishenguoni。”“rujinjiushizheiyang，zhihouwanhungaizenmeban?jishinianyizhineiyangwokeshoubule。”

 shijianyizhang，taduinitaileile，niyejiuhuifajue，niyidalian，takanqilaihaoxiangqueshixintengnileyidian，keshixunsu，jiuxiufulebuzaiyinideqingkuang。nichixudalian，tayuelaiyueyulaiyufama，nifajueshenghuochengbuxiaqule，gangkaishiyongtichufenshoulaizuodasi，tayougangkaishijiaolvbuan，gangkaishiwanliu，keshifantiaohuibuzaiyinideqingkuangdesulvbiandeyuelaiyuekuai，zuizhongnacinidalianmeizuohao，tajiumanzuleni，yibuwanliule。

 buzaixiangxinaiqing,suoyishuo，xiaozuoyiqingyangxing，shouyoudazuoshangshenti。niyoushihouxiaozuoyixia，erqiejishizhisun，dequekeyijiqinggannuanchang，keshinijiandaodezheixieshouyoudazuodenvdezaoshoudatengxide，neidoubingbushipingwenqingkuang，quanshibukechixufazhanguande，tamenyibianshouyoudazuo，tamendenanyouyibianzaixinzhongduijianglaidezixinxinchixujiangdi。

nihuoxuyaoshuo：erwojiandaodequeyoudenvhaiyizhizuo，nanyoujiuyizhihong，zuizhongyechenggongjielehunya!

 nanrenhenanrenbuyiyang。youdenanrenjiexianbuqiang，renshilanhaoren，benshenbuhuishoudaonvxingreliehuanying，buxiangshiqunizheixie，zongeryanzhijiushitadequeqiangrenleijiqilaidepijuanrenlehaozhangshijian，naizhirenlaidaojiehunhou，naizhijiehunhouyourenlehenduonian。keshi，youyitian，dangtafajuezaiyiqidepijuanzaoyichaoguoshiqulenidehaipadeqingkuangxia，taduifunideqingkuangxiajiulaidao。

jiehunhoudenanrenruheduifu?

自然是出轨了。

 erjianqingzheileizhuangkuangkaodebianshitinghua。nitinghua，niyejiunenggoujiangdinanrendepilaogan。zheidadaolishinanhaihenvhaihutongde。yigetiexindenanrenhuijiniganjueshifangyalihewenxin，yiyang，nidetinghua，nide“shanren”，yehuishitajuedeshifangyalihewenxin。

 buwanmeideaiqing,tinghuazhuyaobiaoxianzai，nilejienanrenmangqilaishizhenmang，ninengjitamenchongzudeshijianhekongjian。nikendingbuhuimeitianchazhengtadaonaqu，burongyimeishimeiketongdianhuajianguanta，burongyiyouyutabulijihuinierfahuo，burongyiwuyuanwugudixiwangtajilaozheixieguaiyidejieri，burongyiyaotarangnimaitajingjifazhanshangyaliqilaiyixiefeijingdewupin，zheileiyeyouxuduo ，zuizuizhongyaodeshi，nikendingbuhuibatashishikekedegerenxingweihezhuyaobiaoxiandouhetayouduoainilianluoqilai。