爱情与婚姻 单身生活的女性是怎样的体验？

 aiqingyuyoushenmeni？tichuwenti：danshenshenghuodenvshishiruhedeganshou?neimeaiqingyuhunyinyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiqingyushenghuo,dewenzhangba。

 huiying：“leisijiukeyile，baguifanjiangyijiang，zheigenianji，niyaoxiangdeneileibiaozhundenanshengzaoyibeitarentiaozoule。”xiangjindehua，woyijingtinglehaoduobian，keshihaoqiguai，meiyiciting，huanshineimayoupohuaili;meiyiciting，qingxuwuyiliwaidiedaodigu;meiyiciting，wohaibeitongyujueyuyuhaixiu;meiyiciting，wohaijuedezuoweiyigezhongguoneiludalingdanshenshiyushengyuwenyiqingnian，zheishijieduidajiasuotouyingdenongnongdeguyi，congmeizhongzhi。

qianjirishengengbanye，nvpengyouhuranzaiweixinshangxiangwoyifentianyingdichuanchuduozhangtahexiaobazideliaotianjietu，dagaineirongyixia：

xiaobazi：jinimubiaolemeiyou?

女朋友：没有

xiaobazi：e……neimeniquzhengrongba，nikankan**，lalegequanqieshuangyanpizheibujiuzhaozhemubiaolema。

女朋友：滚

xiaobazi：nizhebuzhejiwanhun?

nvpengyou：buzheji，zheiyounaxiekexinjide?

xiaobazi：neibuyinggaia，nigaibiwoji……

 nvpengyou：gun，nijuede，woshigenvde，meiyouwanhun，meiyoumubiao，jiugaixinji，aiqingyuyoushenmeni？jiugaisiqu?queshi，banyesangeng，woningyuangentarenliaoyiliaorenshengdaolu，liaoyiliaowenxuelei，liaoyiliaozhengye，yebukenpeizhenizheiyishaguawuqu!

xiaobazi：niguozhenbingdehenzhong，gankuaizhaoduixiangba，haoziweizhi……

 xiaobazihenvpengyoushizixiaowandaodadelaotongxue，tayinggaishizuizhangwotaweirenzhengzhide，kejibianruci，xiaobazirengranzhuguanyiduandijuede，yi，nvpengyouzhaobudaomubiao，bingbushiyouyuzhouweinanshengbuzuchuse，zhenghaoxiangfan，shiyouyutabuzuchuse，huoshiguoduangengliji，shiyouyutabuzuhaokan(fouzexiaobaziburongyirangtaquzuozhengrongshoushu);er、tajuedenvpengyougentanianjifeichang，yiyangdanshen，queyingdangbitagengxinji，youyutajuede，nvshitianshengbianshiwanhunyanghaizide，yejiushishuo，tayanlidenvshi，yejiuzai20—sanshisuizheiyiduanquduanzuiyoujiazhi，daonianjimeiwanhun，zheijiushibuchenggong，wanghoumianbianshijianjiajiejue，woyizhinandoujichengneiyangle，niyaobuhuang?zenmekeneng?zhuangniba?san，nvpengyougentajichulilun，taquejuedetashidanshenhenjiuzaocheng dexinliniuqu，benlaixinji，haifeishuobuhuang，wojiangjijushuoshihua，niyejiugenwoji，benlaibianshixinjima!ca!

 juwozhangwo，xiaobazichushengdushurenjiazhong，985yuanxiaodequanrizhijiaoyuyanjiusheng，qieyeyouguo2niandebeipiaoyizulijing，suocongyedeyeshirencaibeichudewenmingxingweilingyu，keshiniantouquerengranzheibanqianlouzheibanxiaonong，zaixiangyixiangzaiwoguoneiludiquzheixiegengpianyuangengluowudeshanqudidaixiangcun，nanzunnvbeiguannianduinvdanshentongbaomendeyizhi，haipaxiangxiang，danzhanxinjing。

zheijiushizuoweinvxingsuozaidexiongxianziranhuanjing，erzheiyiziranhuanjingduidajiadekeze，congmeizhongzhi。

 1、dudaxueshi，wodedaxuejiaoshi，huanshiyiweiwenxueboshi，zairangwomenpouxiyanjiushengkaoshihedaxuebiyezhaogegongzuodeliyubishibiaoshi：“nvhaikaoguoyan，diyijianyaozuodeshibianshizhaoyigehaomubiao，gankuaizhanzhuyige，fouzedengdajiakaoboshideqingkuangxia，jiuwanquanmeiyourenyaole，dajiajingguonvboshigongyulou，quanshiduozhezou。”miaoshihuoweijuyouxiunvxing，zishenbianshinanshengchuziyuduizishenruanruowunengdewuzhugandebuzixin。

 2、yiqianyouyigexinaidenansheng，xianghuzhijiantanqizuidanxindeshishisha，woshuowozuidanxinde，shigenqinglvzhengchao。nanshengshuo：“haipa?e，patashuaileni，yeshi，nvhaima，ziranxinjile，yizhengchaojiuzhuyilibujizhongle。”haha，dajiacai，wozhihouyoumuyougentazaicixiangchu?

 3、pengyoujinlezhongjianmoubuweijuzhaopinmianshi，houchangshiyigegongzuoyuankanlekanpengyoudegerenjianli，wenta：“nidoushenglexiaohailehaixiangwaikaoganshenme?”kuiqianhuanshizaizhongyangjiguanrenzhide，yishunjiannaozilichuxianyibianti“nidelingdaoganbushishaguayaobuyaogaosuta”。

 4、yishushidenanxingpengyoujiaoleyigexiaonvyou，wenzhixiaitanaxie，tahuiying：“youyutahaoguai。”pengyoubianshangdacha：“kan，nanshengdouxiaiguaide，kanzheni。”wohuiying：“duia，kanzhewo，woyibandouxiannandebuguai。”wenrouhaokanmeinaomomaobaoyibaojiaoshangpin，genyangtiaogouyounaxiegezi?gongpingdihuihua，erqiewuyijiandifajuelingyifangjianzhilihaishanyaodaihuohua，caikeyishirenzhiaichabieyudongwuzhiai。

 5、wodequedianshixiantianxinghehoutianxingxiangbei，jianyiliji，zilidandu，yincizongjirenqianghanlingrendejuede，buzhiyigerenquanguowo：“bubineimaqianghan，feichangrongyibananhaierhetuile。”aiqingyushenghuo,hehehe，woyebuzhidaowozhaoyigeneimafeichangrongyibeihezhedenuofuganmaoyong。

 dangshimaweiweigangbaohongshi，zaiwangshangjiuyouyizhongshengyinyouqizhizhisheng，“lihun，haineimeqiangda，nayigenanshengyadezhuwa?”duia，dajiayoubushizhexueboshi、guobian、caihuahengyidewuhandaxuezhoujiaoshou，dajiazirandingbuzhu。

 6、woshenpangchangchanghuichuxianzheileixiangsheng，“nishengaozaoyihengaole，ganshenmeyeyaochuanneimegaodegaogenxiezi，rangzheixie175xialiedenanshengqingyihekan?”“nvxing，yaoxiangshuiyiyang，bubiyizhitaiqiangda，yingguonanshenghuirangtamenhendiumianzi。”“nansheng，doubuyuanyizhaobizishenwenpinggaode，zheixieshuoshixuelidenvhaibieganjueneishizishendeyoudian。”zheijiufangfozaishuo，weimimotedajiatuitaizhangleshiwomenzheizhongduantuihairuhehuokuaijuduanxie，boertenipaotaikuailuodiermingneimayuanhaiyoumeiyouyouqingdiyidesaishijingshenshizhikuaitaomanyidian，bierendoutaikongmanbuzhaoxunyuzhoukongjianxinshengmingdedanshengyiqunzongjiaoxinyangkuangrezhegaohandiqiushangcaisuanshigennitamakuaidiankuaidianhuijia，yiyangyumei!

 7、cengyouhaoxinrenbangwojieshaonanpengyou，wocengxincunganen，jinjinzaiwowanzhuanbiaoshulegensuowennanshengbushihedeqingkuangxia(wangwangshuowanzhuan，shiyouyucinanshengzhiwuqujiushiwodaxueshidaikandouburongyikanyiyandeneileiren，yaobushiyouyuyouxiangqinyuehuizheileidutedexiangfengfangfa，wohuoxuyibeizidouburongyigenzheileirenxianliaochaochushifenzhong)，benlaiyoushandedajiehuafengtubian，gangkaishiyijianshihengjiazhize：aiqingyuhunyin,“ni2020niandou27le，niyaotiaonaxietiao?youyigexiangyaonidenanhai，niyaobugankuaibawozhu?nayouleniyaoxiangdeneibandenanshengdengdaijinitiaoa?”shide，dajie，wojinnian27le，2020nian28，yihou29，wushuhounianzhihouwojiang35，zhaowozhei“tiao”yanger，henyoukenengneishihouwoyijiudanshen，ruhe，neimejiumorilailinlehuanshininyaoyaowoa?