情感沙龙之女人“逆求婚”的技巧

 danshi，qingganwanhuizenmezuoni？jiusuannvrendouqiangjingle，shuodaoniqiuhunzheishiqing，yexujinshenerxing。neimeqingganshalongyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqinggansanwenba。

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 zheibushixiaogushidezhongdianzhan。dayueyejiuyinianhou，zaiyicipuchuzheiduilianrenhuanshitichufenshoudexinxi……xiangyixiangneinanhaiziyiqiandeyiliancouhe，zheijieguoyidianyebuchuxianyiwai。

 nvrencuihun，nanrenduohun，yishizheiyishiqidehunlianjiaoyouyijing。xuduonvrennaonu：“tangesanwuniantanlianai，haixiangrangnanrenlaiqiuhun，zhenshigengongzhanwaixingleisidenanyidu!”

xixidilaikan，yingdui“kafukachengbao”，nanrende“tao”youtamendeyuanyin。

 congshehuixisukanlai，hunyinnantishang，nanrenyaodanfudeqiyeshehuizerenxianeryijiandaliang。qingganwanhuizenmezuoni？tiji“wanhun”，nvrenxiangqideshiqinggandeguichu，wendingdeshenghuo。ernanrenzehuixiangqiyoucheyoufang，hunyanhuaxiao，yigehaizidezhangda。yuefayixianchengshideshangbanzunanyueyoubuxiangjiehunxinlizhuangtai，jingjifazhangongzuoyalihaowuyiwenshiyaodianyuangu。qici，nanrenguangfanbinvrenchishu，congliangxingxinlikanlai，tongnianlingnanhaihenvhaixiangxiangduieryan，nanrendezhishangqingshangyaobinvrendisanzhezhiwusui，qiegengdanxinyingduiyixiefanzadeshenghuonandian。——tashinanrenbikaihunyindeguanjianyuangu。

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zheixiehaimeiyoukeyibananrentuoruhuitangdenvrenyaozhuyile，“niqiuhun”dequanguochengzhong，yedezhuzhongfangfa。

liru，nenggoujingchangnizhetaxiangxiang：“nijuedejinhouwomenzhuangxiuyongjianoufenggehuanshixinzhongshifenggehao?”

haikeyijingchangwenqi：“nijuedezhihouwomendexiaohaixuexigangqinhaohuanshiminzuwudaohao?”

hainenggougaosuta：“dengwomennianjidale，haibianyouwanmaidongfangwu，liangrenjingjingdiduguowannianshiqi，duomeile……”

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qinggansanwen,nvrende“niqiuhun”，qiuquqiao，caikejiadehao!