异性交往指南 父母的爱是支持

 fumuduihaizideai，tangruobatanlianaizuoweishifengexian，neidanshennvshinenggoufenweierzhongzhonglei：lianaizhonghejiangyaotanlianaidenvhai。queshishineiyangde，xianzaidenijinguanhaimeiyoutanlianai，danwoyexiangjiangnichengzhiweishi“tanlianaizhubeizhe”，youyuwojuedezainidenaozili，yidingchuaizhezheduiganqingdeqidai，nidenghoudejinjinjihui，yeyouheshinideneigeren，yinci wobanichengzhiweishi“tanlianaizhubeizhe”，jiangnizuoweishijiangyaotanlianaidenvhaibusuanguoba?neimefumudeaishishenmeni？younaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanfumuduihaizideaidewenzhangba。

 tangruorujinnishizheiyiqingkuang，neirangwolaicaiyicainishizenmekandaiganqingde：henyoukenengnijinjinjingjingdedenghou，denghouzheganqingdelailin?huoshizishenjiabeinulimeiyicijihui，yaoshipengdaoshihederenjiuhuijinjiaoda deqinfen?

 danlinxijiaoshixianggaosunideshi：renwuyuanlvjunziheerbutong，xianzaidenihenmeihaodeaiqing，danxiangguoruheyinglaijijianglailindeganqingma?weiheyouxierentanlianaizhenxingfu，danyoudenvhaiyidantanlianaijiugezhonggeyangmaiyuan，shuozishendeganqingbuxingfukuaileni?youyulianaizhongyouguoduodeshier，fumuduihaizideai，yidanchanshengjiuhuijinicubujifang，yougongzuojingyandehuogaoqingchutanlianaijiqiaodenvshihuimingbaijiejue，jiangxiaoshihualexiaoshihuawu，danbumingbaitanlianaijiqiaodenvhai，kenengyuelaiyuechuxianyichangchuyubeidong，erzaichuyubeidonghechiyizhongjian，ganqingdewentiyuelaiyueda……

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第一件事：别随便表露自身的详细地址

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第二件事：高收益不是你的大大加分新项目

 liangxingxiangchuzhong，nanshiyongyou jiaogaodegongzishuiping，queshinengweizijijiaxuduochengji，dantangruonvshiyougaoshouyi，shibushinengweizijizaixiangchulijiafenni?

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第三件事：多聆听，适度的交谈

 zaiheyixingpengyoudexiangchuzhong，youqishilianggerenhaichuzaibuzulejiedehuanjie，yibandenvshihuichuzaibuyiyangdeerzhongshejifengge：yizhongshizaixiangchuzhongkankanertan，haipameigongtongyuyandaozhinankandejianmo;erlingyizhongshibuhangsheng，baquanbudezhudaoquandoujiaodaonanshi，zheizaiyidingshuipingshangshisheqizhanxianzishendezhipeiquan。

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第四件事：碰到告白要理智

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