不安的爱,女人到底在想什么

 bukesiyideaiyoushenmeni？changyandao：“nvrendexin，haidizhen。”nvxingdeyuyanjingchangshiwanwanququde，jiaruzaiyunvshengdexiangchuzhong，dandancongyuyandebiaocengqulejietamen，neijiangdacuotecuo。yiner，niwubiduojiuhaoduogexinyaner，shanyucongnvshengdeyuyandeshencengcinaizhibeimianqulejie。jilao，genjuyuyandeneihanzhuyaobiaoxianmouleixianwaizhiyin，shinvshengdetezhang。neimebuguyiqiedeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbuandeaidewenzhangba。

xiabiantaolunyixiaguniangmenchangshuodeyixiexinkoubuyihuoshikanqilainanyizhixindehua，nikanninengcaidaoshiduoshao?

•观色思情•

nan：“daihuiwanbiyihoudajiayiqiquyongcanba!”

nv：“erwowubishidianyiqianhuijialede!”

 zaigennvhaierdechupengquanguochengzhong，nixuyaoyijunvshengneishihoudetanxintanhuaneironghegoutongjiaoliushenqingquganshoutadezhenzhengrenzhen。kanyixiashangbiandehuihua，jiarunijuedetashinvshengzaiweiwanjujueni，yexuyemeiyoucuo，keshiqingxiankanyixiatazaishuozheijuhuashidexiaobiaoqing。jiarutabunaifan，fuyansaize，bukesiyideaiyoushenmeni？huozheyibuwenbuwendeshensetongnitaolun，neishuomingtaduinihenlengmo，zheishihouniyingkaolvdaoshiquertui。fanguolai，jiarutamuguangzhongyouyizhongyuyuhaixiu、haoxianghaiyoudianerxiawendeyisi，neimejiushuomingtaduinideyinxiangbulan，tatongnijiaowangshikaixinde，qidaiyunijianchixiaqu，fazhanqushixianghudeqingyi。zheigeshihouniyejiuyingdanggaoqingchutadehanyibianshiyaoshizai10dianyiqiansongtahuijiale，tahuanshinenggoujienayaoyuede。10dianzhiqianwubihuijialedemmyidingjiajiaolaoshiyouliang，tademamabangnijiangtakandehaohaodide，niyoufuqile!

•听言意会•

nv：“nijinqishifoutingmangde，ruguobijiaomangjiuwuxuyouqijishijianlaipeizhewole，woyigerenshijishangdoumeiyouduowuqu。”

男：“你真贴心。”

 dajiachangshuo：“ganqingzhongrujingjichang”，nanhaieryingshende“bingbuyanzha”dedadaoli。zhenduinvhaierdeyuyan，shishidiyingyongyidianfanqidaoersizhidefasansiweifangshi，zailaiyigezhenghuahuifanyi，zaiganqingzhongshangjiukeyiqudechenggongdi“zhanfu”nvhaierdexin。lirushangbianzheiyimm,takanshangquhentiexinni，buyongnidezhuanyeshouhouleba?keshiliuyitadecuoci，ruguo“bijiaomang”jiuwuxu“youqi”jishijianpeitale，tayigerenyebuhui“duo”“wuqu”。qiaoqiaozheiyixilieyuhuiyongde，bangnipouxiyixiaba，niruguoyibanmang，jiushihuanshihetajianjianmian;yaoshimeiyoushijian，yewuxuyouqidulichuquyouhui，jinjinyiqichigefanyeba;nibuzaitashenpang，tabushiganjueqingqingsongsong，zhishihuiwuqu，bingqiebingbushiyibanwuqu。kanmingbailema?dixiong，nixuyaoxuehaoa，neiyangweilainidedaerzizaigennishuo“fuqin，shijishangyinweiwobingbushitebiexiangyaoneiliangbanlinanshengdoushiyoudexinxingdeyaokongxiaoqiche，gailiangcheyijianshiyebushineimaguanjian。”niyejiunenggougenju“yebushitebiexiangyao”、“banlinanshengdoushiyou”、“xinxing”、“bingbushineimaguanjian”tingchudaerzidehanyi，erbushigantandaerzizhentinghua，quehushitazaikantarenqicheshijueqidezuichunle。zongeryanzhi，zheiyizaoxuezaohao!

•听声品位•

nv：“zenmebuqizixingchefandaolazhechezoua?chelianghuaidiao?”

nan：“meiyou，huranxiangtubuzouyizou，shifangyalishifangyali。”

nv：“nizhenlingrenzhuomobutou。”

 “nizhenlingrenzhuomobutou”zheijuhuanizenmejiangjie?biaomingtaganjuewoshigeguaiwu，biaomingtajuedewohenhuisenandong，biaomingtajiangwokanzuoyigebanshouren?no,no,no,dacuotecuole，niyinggaineimelejie，taweiheyaocaitouwoya?zhuomobutoutaweishenmehuineimaxinhana?tazhunbeiruhezaicicaitouwoya?nikanyixia，zheicaisuanshizheijuhuadeshenhouhanyi。jiarutaganjuenishigeguaiwu，jiarutajuedenihenhuisenandong，jiarutajiangnikanzuoyigebanshouren，takanjiannishoutuichezoudeqingkuangxiayidinghuizaixinzhongxiang“zheiyiguaiyingguozhenheguailuntaizuipeida，nikankanmomingqimiaoluntaibaotaileba。”suihouyiliuyankuaisuyunibaochijuli，sheiyeyouxinxianlaiwenniweishenme。

 yuanxian“congming”yeshiyimendaxuewena，nijuedefanza?jiarunidelingdaoshuo“nijinqizhuyaogongzuoyejibucuoa，bingqiewokannigenqitadanweilingdaoganbuyedadehuore。”nikendingnengmashanglejietabingbushizaishuonirenpinhao，zhishizaijiechuannishibushizhunbeilingpangaozhiba。yinci ，buyaoshuotaifanza，shijishangjinjinnimeiyouhaohaodirenzhenbale。jilaoa，jiehunqianlaozongshilaozong，jiehunhouxifucaisuanshilaozong，yinci rujinhaohaoxuexizhechuaicejianglaidelaozong，duinijianglaijiazhongzhiyeshengyadeyichujidadi。

•无声胜有声•

 henyoukenengnixuyaowenle，youshitajiuzuozheneibianyiyanbufa，jiuyongxiaoshaojiaoxianmokafei，woyagenmeijiyuhetashuohuaa;huoshi，yaoshiyihetajianghuawoyexinchaopengpai，yagenganbujifanyingtashuolexienaxie。zheiyinggaizenmeban?fangsong，yaolejieyigerenyaoxiangwaibuchuandixiangxidexinxineirong，buguyiqiedeai,danchunxingdeyuyanchengfenzhizhan7%,yindiaozhan38%,ciwai55%dexinxineirongdoubixuyoufeikoutoushangdeshentiyuyanlaichuandi，bingqieyouyushentiyuyanyibanshiyigerenbuyouzizhudexingwei，yinci feichangshaojubeiqizhaxing。bunankanchu，jibian nimeiyoujiyugenjuyuyanlailejieta，xuduo zhibixushuangyanlaibaozhengdeguanchayekeyibangnizhitongtadexinli。

 youyiweinanxingmanhuaixinxifeijinxinsixiangtadenvpengyoulangmanqiuhun，tingshuogangbazuanjienachulaijiuanbingbudongle，gennvpengyoushuochengpengyouchanshengdezuanjie，tabutaidongpinxiangxiangrangnvpengyoukanyixia，haoxiangzhihouliangrenhaizhentaolunledabantianluozuanxiangmutouzidenanti。zheizhenshishilangmanqiuhunkongjuma。jieguotashuodao：“dajiadongnaxie，takandaozuanjiedeqingkuangxiayagenbingbushiyiwaijingxi，jinyoujingmeiyidianerxi。”dajiayoujingxiangzhizetataiguoduan，jieguotayoushuo：“dajiashikanbudaotatingwenjinjinrangtakanyixiapinxiangdeqingkuangxianeibaiganjiaojidemoyang，jianbudousongle。”guozhenbujiulianggerenfenshou。buandeai,zheijiushijuedinggaoshou!