不安的爱,恋爱中的女生应该明白的那些事

 bukesiyideaiyoushenmeni？aiqingshijiqidexingfu，jianxinzhengchuzailianaizhongdeni，kendinghuichuanchuneiyangdegantan，youyuaiqinghaoxiangyoumofayiyang，rangnilanmandeqingjie，shouyuniqianxingdequdongli。dantongchanglianaizhongdenvshihuiyuelaiyuemangmugenfeng，suizhezheaiqingdetianmei，guniangmenhuibatanlianaifangdaoshengmingzhongdezhigaodian，rangquanbudeshidoujitanlianaituoxie……neimebuguyiqiedeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbuandeaidewenzhangba。

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第一件事：爱情与生活的比例

 xuduoguniangbaaiqingdangzuozishenrichangshenghuodesuoyou，zheikanqilaishiduiaiqingdejiqiqianjing，danshijishangganghaoshizaishanghaizishendeaiqing。youyuaiqingyushenghuoshiyoubilide，jinguanshuoaiqingjiezhuyurichangshenghuo，lingwaiyouzhuangdianhetianchongledajiarichangshenghuodejingcaifencheng，danwojuedeyiweizheaiqingxiangdangyurichangshenghuo。

zhenduiaiqingyushenghuo，nishibushimingbaiyouxiaodezhengtiguihuaxianghusuozhandebilini?

 chukaiaiqingzheiyierrenrichangshenghuo，niyeyouguishuyuzishenderichangshenghuo，jinigerenaihaosuocaozongdeshijian，bukesiyideaiyoushenmeni？niyeyoupenyouyouqinren，zheiquanshinirichangshenghuojiqiguanjiande，shijishangnichedimeibiyaorangzishenbianchengdanchunxingjiaiqinghuozhudenvshi，aiqingbukeyicaozongniderichangshenghuo，zhiyougouchengnirichangshenghuodejingcaifencheng，yinci youguanaiqingyushenghuodebiliyidingguihuahao。

第二件事：能够争执，但别随便说提出分手

 pengdaonantishi，chuxianmocashi，tangruowufazhaodaoshihedechulifangshi，neimaqinglvxianghukendinghuichuxianzhengchao，naizhihuichuxianzhengzhi，zaizhengzhishi，tangruonixintaishifenxingfen，nishibushihuijiangchu“tichufenshou”ni?

 zhenduizheileigerenxingweiwohenlejie，jiemeimenwangwangyaoshuotichufenshou，kendingbingbushidianjizhefenli，zhishiliangrenqueshibuyuanyizaizhengchao，yinci caihuiyong“tichufenshou”laidiyuzhengchao。

 yici2cinikeyidechangsuoyuan，dannishibushitingguo“langlaile”dexiaogushini，duizheiyinanhaizieryan，nidetichufenshouhuishitaganjuejinineiyangdezhunbei，neitadangranhuigangkaishiduizheiyiduanaiqingyouyidingdeyaobaibuding……yinci biesuibianshuotichufenshou，tashiduidajiadeaiqingchengdan。

第三件事：爱情中许多 事是沒有缘故的

 lianaizhongdeni，kendingburongyidanchunxingdexiangyouganqing，bidinghuisikaoyixieshier，yincizainidezuizhongchangchangyaoshuo“weihe”，danniyidingyingdangzhangwo，aiqingzhongdexuduo shi，shimeiyouweihede，aijiushiai，buaijiushibuxihuan，meiyouweihe，yinci congrongdeyingduiganqing，bubibaaiqingzuoweishijiedati，youyuaiqingshimeiyouzhengquedaande。

第四件事：谈恋爱并不是婚姻生活，搞清楚你喜欢什么

 buguyiqiedeai,chukaishangbianzheizhongniyinggaizhidaodeshi，tanlianaibingbushihunyinshenghuo，zhenduinilaishuohenyoukenengtanlianaihenzhongyao，nidenanyoujinizhenxingfu，yinci nifeichangxiangjiajita，danwojuedeyiweizhecongxianzaiqidajiajiuyibushitanlianaizhishihunyinshenghuo。

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