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 aishijiandadanaonaogenghaoxiangchangyanchu，guanjiandebingbushisheishusheiying，zhishirangbicidoushiyoucanyuxing。neimeaikuderenbuyidingliuleiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaikudewodewenzhangba。

neimeyixiang，turanganjuezhengchaoyehuranyongyouyixietaorenxihuan。

“bubiminganduoyi!bubilengyanlengyu!neixinyouhuo，jiuxiaoxiaosasachaoyijiaba!”

yingduizheixiexunzhaoqingganzhiyuandezimei，wojingchangneiyanggentamenshuo。

zhengchaonenggouchulixuduo nanti。naizhi，zhengchaoyoushishijiejuekunnandeshifangshi。

 jinguanwoyiqianshuoguo，wanshandeguanjianbiaoshibingbushixuehuile“biaoshu”，zhishixuehuile“tunyan”。yinci ，aidelingyigexingmingshi“ren”，kanyigerenaizheniduoshen，jiukantarenleniduozhangshijian。

 danyouwubirenke，zainanhaihenvhaidexianghuguanxizhong，yifangdeguoduorenshou，fandaoshiqingganzhonggenggaodexiongshou。quanbuderenermeifa，quanshiyizhongfumianqingxudeleiji，laidaoxiandu，douhuibaofaduijue。shidudezhengzhi，yeshiyizhongxintaideshentipaidu。

 shuodaozheier，henyoukenenggenyixiechuantongshideyishiyixiebufuhe：lirudahuoerguangfanxuanchengwenroushinvxingzuilihaidewuqizhuangbei，renruhewangdaodenanshengdoushihuitandaozaiwenrouxiang。

 meiyoucuo，wenroudenvrenshihuixiyinzhunansheng，aikudewo,danxiangguanhaoyigenanren，guangrouqingwanzhongshibuzude。niyaodeyoubiaohandeyimian。

 kanyixiadajiashenpangzheixiechenggongnanren，huoshinenggoubamuguangbaidezaijiuyixie，conggudaojin，suiwendiyangjiandeduguhuanghou，fangxuanlingdefapiqihanqi，chenjichangdehedongshiliuyuee，hushidejiaoyafurenjiangdongxiu……zheizhongdingguaguadenvxing，yongzishendexingzibananshengguandeyibeizibuqibuli。tamendexingziqifubuding，zongeryanzhidoushiyouyigetexing——ganchao。youxingzijiufa，youganhuojiusa。buhanshasheying，bujiansuankebo。neiyangdenvxingguoqishenghuolai，shijishangmantanlv。

xiangbizheixiesuansuandelengyanlengyu，yidunshiliaoweijiquenengzhangwofencundexingzi，gengyouliyuchuangjianqingganzhongdezhudongquan。

 rentongrenyaoyouxingzicaikeqinkejing，jiusuanshinvxing，yiweidirangbuherongrenyehuijinidetouruyuelaiyuemeiyoushiyongjiazhi。xingzizheidongxi，chuanchuqushipinxing，quhuilaishigongdi。ninengbunengzhangwofencun，jishizhisun，zheijiumolianyigerendeqingshangzhishanggongzuonenglile。

zheixieaifapiqi、queyongxingzibazhangfuyueganyuezhangdenvrenyaozhuyile：nidexingziyoumuyoushidangdicaozongjishi?

 wobuhuijuedezheileigongzuonenglinenggouyishibankenenglikeyouzhe，tabixuzhangqijingyandepeiyanghexinlizhuangtaidecaozong。nanyi，dandequeshinvxingfazhandebixiukecheng。

为何这样说呢?

 hebujidahuoerbiaolugemimi：shijishangnanrenshiqipanbeiguande。tamenxinlicanyudexiaohaibenxing，wulunfazhandaoruhedenianji，douqipanshenpangchijiuyibandenvxing，shitamenyigexinlizhuangtaishangdemama。zheihuirangtamengengyouchijiupingwendeguishugan。xuduo nanrenzaiwaibianaixiangjiarenqingtuhunyinshenghuozhongdebushunxin，laopozenyangdeqiangdabutiexin，danzheibingbuzulantamennianfuyinian、rifuyiridimeitianwanshangfanhuitadeshenpang。

 yuefachenggongdenanren，yueqipanyoudianerlajingtoudenvxing。tashiyizhongtiaozhandeqipan，yeshiyizhongyikaodenengliang。nanshengdewaizaizhenshishenfenjiusuanzaiqiangjing，xinlidexiaohairengzaifazhanqingkuangzhong，tamenzongbixuyigeqiangjingeryounengliangdenvxing，laijinxingduirichangshenghuoquanbudecaozong。yinci，qiangjingdenanshengdouhuitiaoxuanqiangjingdenvxingwanhun，buguanzenyang，zheiyinvxingyidingzaimoucengmiannengshitazaochengjingmudechengfen，zheicaisuanshitamenganxinqingyuandetiaoxuan。

 yinci，nvxingnenggouqiaobanrouruo，dannibunengqueshirouruo。jiusuanshizaifahuozheijianshiqingshang，zhijiedijiejuenidehuaixintai，yexianeryijianbizhuanwanmojiaodifapiqidouqiyaogaochaodeduo。

hebukanyixiadajiashenpangdeguanlirenyuanmen：xianshuoxuanzhandeshitamen，zuizhonggongbutinghuodeyiranshitamen。

 zheijiushiqingganzhongzhengzhidejiqiao：yaoyongnidenuqiduitashuonidebumanyi，danlingwaihaiyaoyongnidezhinuduitashuonibushixintaidenupu，jinigongzuonengliguanlifangfahaofahuodexintai。

liaodezheili，xiangduinishuojijuhua。

 diyi，taitinghuadenvxingdaduoshumingku，tajuededeaiquanshiyibiequzishenweichengben。jiurutongshihuikudexiaohaiyoutangchi，xingfukuaile，youshibianshijiaozonghuilaide。

 dier，aikuderenbuyidingliulei,nikeyiduokuaicaozonghaozishendexintai，aikuderen,jiunengduokuaihuodequdechenggong。wulunqinggan，huanshigangwei。