爱的语言 所谓爱情不是倾家荡产

 aideyuyanshishenmeni？dajiayizhishuo，wanhunyiqianyaoxianghao，buranjiehunhounantiduoduode。danjiaoda denantishi：xuduo nantiwanhunyiqianyagenjiuyixiangbudaoa!neimeaideyishuyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyonghengdewenzhangba。

 shijishanglingjiehunzhengqianwoyexianglexuduo ，liru：quanshijieheshiyongyouhunyinshenghuozheileiwupina?hunyinshenghuoyounaxiecunyoudebixua?hunyindeyiyizhenduishuangfangeryanyounaxiebuyiyanga?shinageyaoqiuyigerenzhizhunyouyigezhangfu(xifu)a?ganqingduiyuhunyinshenghuojiujingyouduoguanjiana?

yifuyiqizhidefazhanlicheng

conggudaojin，yifuyiqizhidefazhanqushidagaijinglilexialiewugehuanjie：

nanhaihenvhaihunzhong、xuehunzhi、huohunzhi、ouhunzhihezhuanouzhi。

1男孩和女孩混种

laoshibajiaoshuo，zheiyihuanjiedenannvjiaowangfangshihaibunengchengqiwei“guizhangzhidu”。

 youyurenmenyuanshi、shengchanzhulijiweibugao，dajiaduilunlidaode、shehuidaodedouhaimeichanshengyishi，aideyuyanshishenmeni？jiashangdilihuanjingyushenghuobiaozhunjiduan，shenmehongshuila、mengshoula、bingzhengla、aiela，renfeichangrongyijiugeerpile，yinci neishirendesuoyourichangshenghuomudibianshiqiuqucunhuohefanzhi，ermeishenmexiandingdehunzhongkeyixiandudifanzhirenmen，yejiushigenjufangkaishengchanzhizaobiaozhunlaixiangdirenkoushuliangdesunhai，quebaohuozhuderendezongshuchengchixushangshengfazhanqushi。

 neimazheiyi“meishenmexiandingdehunzhong”shiyizhongnaxieqingkuangni?bianshixingshenghuomubiaobugudingbudong，xingshenghuomubiaodezongshuhenianjibugudingbudong，erqiemeiyouqinshuyoubiezhifen。huanjuhuashuo，xiongmei(buguanshiqinde、biaodehuanshitangde)zhongjian、babamamaernvzhongjian，naizhiyeyenainaihexiaosunzinvzhongjiandounenggouyouxingxingwei。asri，xiangxiangyixianeijiemian，tingbiwuzhelian，yaowolizhi2fenzhong……

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zongeryanzhi，yaoshishihuodenandehehuodenvdejiukeyixxoo。renjianzhiyigebiyeshouyeyaoyeshoudezhongqun。

2血婚制

 renmenzaizheileihunzhongqingkuangxiahuanlelefeichangzhangyiduanshijianhou，yuangushidaijingjifazhanyongyouyidingdefazhanqushi，dajiamanmanfajue，buyiyangxingbie、nianjiheshentisuzhiderenzuoqihuolaideqingkuanghegaoxiaolvshiyouqubiede，yinci zailaodongzhequanguochengzhonggangkaishiyoumudediannianji、xingbiehuoshentisuzhigaodibuyiyanglaizhizefengong。

 lingwai，dajiahaifajuebuyiyangnianjiderendaoshenglixuebiaozhunshangshiyouchajude，lirupapadeqingkuangxia，guangcongjinglizheiyixiangeryan，laodejiumeinianqingdeguanyong。zheiyifajueshidajiadeziwoyishifashenglexiweidezhuanbian，buyiyangxingbeijiashujiandenannvguanxigangkaishizaoshoudichu(wojuedezhuyaoshixiaodemenbuyuanyile)，jianjiandizhizaitongyirenqundexiongmeijiankaizhanliangxingjiaohuan。

 yongyouxianzhijiukeyishizuoyizhongxingweizhunzele，zheiyeshirenleishehuizuikaishijianlideyifuyiqizhi，danshizheileihunyinshenghuoshiduogedixiongheduogezimeidehuxiangtuantilianyin，tanduixiangdedafanchoubianxiaole，danzongshurengranbuqueding。

 zainanhaihenvhaihunzhonghexuehunzhijieduan，renmenjichujiezhubennengfanyingzaicunhuohefanzhi，nanhaihenvhaiyingxianglifeichang，yejiushishuo，zaisuishisuidijiejuerenkoushuliangdedilihuanjingheshengcunhuanjingxia，nanhaihenvhaidoumeishenmeyingxiangliketan，dahuoerzhiyoubaochengyituanlaidiyuziranjiedeweijiao，shijingpa，shijingsheng，shijinghuo。

3伙婚制

 zaixuehunzhiyoufengmileyiduanshijianhou，dajiafajue，feixueyuanguanxidajiazudenanhaihenvhaishengdezisunhoudaishencaihuola、junxiugaoting、shentibeierbang，xueyuanguanxidajiazudenanhaihenvhaishengdezisunhoudaiyoushishoubeituierduo，youshishoubeituiershao，henshiguaiyi。

 haojiuhaojiuzhihou，yiweiquanmingshiaiyinsitandetongxuemenhuizongchuyigeguilvxinglai：“ziranxuanzexueshuoshishikekedouhuimanquanqiudihechazhejiusuanshizuiqingdudemeiyigejiyinbianyi，xiaochuhuaide，chucunbingleijihaode，gaishanzhemeiyizhongweishengwugenyoujihuaxuedeyuwujiwuderichangshenghuobiaozhunzhongjiandeguanlian。”

 yincizaiziranxuanzexueshuoguilvyanqian，renmenyifuyiqizhimaikailebaoguierzhongyaodeyibu：dichuhexiandingxueqinpeihun。qingnianrennanhaihenvhaidehunyinshenghuobianchenglemeiyouqinshuguanxideyiqunnvhaieryuyiqunnanhaierdejitixinghunyinshenghuo(liuyishi“yiqun”)，chengzhiwei“huohun”。

 huohunzhidechuxianyezaocheng lechushishengtaixitongxiangshizugongshedebianhua。zaimuxishehuishehuifazhan，shengchanzhulibufazhan、fuqiguanxibuqueli，nvshicongyehenduodelaodongzhe，bingzuoweishipudemingquebiaozhun，aideyishu,yincizaoshouguangfanzunzhong，danzheishinanhaihenvhaihaibuhuiyoumingxiandeyingxiangliqubie。