恋爱的法则,婚姻契约里的距离与界限

 lianaidesigejieduanyoushenmeni？womenzaizhuaidezhongtujileideaiyuyangyuen，jiushidajiasuoyuanqudejingshu，chusuoyouyaomoguiguai，pingquanbujianxin，duyiqiekue。neimelianaidefazeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaideweidaodewenzhangba。

 dalishidajialaotongxuequanzhongdenvlaoda。shenglaiyifudianxingxingshandongshengdaaidejianzhuangshenzigu，youxingqinghaoshuangxiayitianxia，beidajiahaoduogemianseanhuangdedouyaweiraoshenpang，beishouyongdai。

biyezhihoudalijiufanhuidajiajiaxiang，zaixiaozhenshangxunzhaoyifenwendinganwendeguojiagongwuyuangongzuozhong。

 dalijinnianlaowo2sui，quezaiquqishengzidegaigexinzhengchengshangzaoyuwowunian。jiehunshiwomenqutajialijuhuihuodong，xiaofuqibaojianlouyao，tianmeiyangyizhe。

 lianaideweidao，eryinianhoudemouyitian，dalihuranshuolihunle。tazaiqqshangbangwoliuyanbanliuyan：zheigeyuewoshouleshijin。queshibuyuangentaguoqule。dengpengmianzaishuoba，payishuodiaolei，zaiqiyeni，buyuanrangpengyoukanjian。

woyishibuzhisuozhong，tounaoluanzhuan：waiyu?jiatingbaoli?chuxianyiwai?poxiguanxi?lihuncaichanjiufen?

zhihouwohuozhi，bingbushisuocaixiangdejiduanhuaexingshijian。

 lianaidesigejieduanyoushenmeni？jinjinreqingtunqu，tianmeidaoqi，tianxingyaohaodedaliheyibannvxingbingwuerzhi。shenghuobianweiyidiwuguanjinyaohou，chijiuchudewuyandefenqijuyu，yazuibacipengchanshengdeyiluanfanxinsuoyoubaofa，zhuanbianchengzhengzhi、nuchi、dazhan。

nvrenxin，daduoshushisizaixiweimojiejishaochengduodexinhanshang。

zongsuanzaimouyidachaodanaohoudeshengengbanye，nanrenlanzuiruni，shuayitongjiufenghoushuaimenerqu，dianhuabujie，duanxiaoxibuhui。

guinvshangzaibaobei，gonggongpoponianyuguxi。

 takanjianjuebuzhiqingrendeshuishudeguinv，leiliumanmian。nageyiqianxiniruzhuaizhenirubaodenanren，xianrujinlingnixinzhuidiguhuntianheidi。

ertianhounanrenjiuxinghuigui。dalimingquetichuliyi。

jiapodiyigebengchulai：dajianaonaxienaoa，jiubukeyitingzhiguoshenghuoma?jiubukeyiranglaonianrenshengxiaodianxina?

zaizushangmenlaikan，zheiyidianshishishenme，nanrenshuadianjiufenghenpingshi，nvxingshoudianbiequgengyiqiezhengchang。

zhihoudequanguochengwobingbulejie。suiranyouwanbanbaoyuanqianbanbumanyi，huanshianqiguliupomenchangshuo：zuibuzhiyuli。

 womingbaidalizenmehuibangwoliuyanbanliuyan。neiyangdeshi，shuojifumushitianmafan，shuojipengyoushixiaokan。zhiyouzuiqinmiwujiandehaoyou，nengrangtagekaibiaocengdeshangkou，zhanxiancanburendudeyingxiang。

(二)

 sannianqiandexinchunjiajie，dalibanlexinfangzi，yaoyuedajiabaifang。erzheishi，wozhengzhengtuozaitianliangzhiqianzuiheiyindehuanjie。dongzeweixiaohaishiniaopigennanrenduqilengbaoli。wodasuanduziyirenjianmian，jianghunhougezhonggeyangzhengduobumanyiyituweikuai。wonaizhixiangxiangchujiuguosanxuncaiguowuweihou，dalilazhewoshou，yiyoujingyanrendezhenshishenfenyanchuanshenjiao，congnaxiangpianyidangniangangkaishi，jinjinweiraoyangwadejianxin、nvxingdetouru、nanrendelengdan、poxizhijiandebuhemu，jinxingfenbugushendetuantiqianze，yitadangchujiquanbuningdechennianwangshizuojingdiananli，jiangfenbienanrenyiduntongpi，huiwangdangshizheixieleiruyuxiadeexingshijianguanjianhuanjie，zhaodaozaocheng fuwuzhiliangquefadeguanjiannanti，jiaoworuhexunmaoxungouxunnanren，anquanfangfanfangdisanzhe，zuizhongyitadecanzhonggongzuojingyanweiwozhichugaizhengfangfancuoshi，weihunhoudepdcagaishanhuayigehebideyuan。

 danshi，wodediaokangangganggangkaishi，jiubeidaliquanzu：“nizheixingzia，degaiyigaile，biewuyuanwugujiudanshile，naonaxienaoa!”

yi?zheijuhuahaolejie。baxiangduinishuodegongyingyelehuilai。

 dalilazhewozaifanzhuojinjundaoshafashang，tazhangfutiexinyouyinqindizhenglibeipan。woshitanzhetidaodangchutashenyetongkuliutibangwoliuyanbanliuyanyishi。zheihundanjurandadalieliedixiaoqilai：“yeyouneiyangdeshi?wozenmebujidele，hahahahaha……”

 kantagaoxingdehuazhiluanzhan，woxiangxintashiqueshiwangjileyijianshi，zheixieliuyanbanliuyan，nageanyeliliudelei，nagelingtashiluodehuanjie。

 henjiuyihou.woxianggaoqingchu，zaidaliyongchanglingsuidehunyinshenghuoli，ruguomeiyouneiyangdezishenhuifu，neimarujindeta，juebushiyanxiadesuiyueanhao，jiyoukenengshigelihundedanshenpofu。

wangque，zishenbianshiyizhongkuanrong。shihaohaoaiziji，yeshikuandailingyifang。

sheiweicengjinglineiyangdechangjing：nizhengwochaozhengzhibuxia，yajianzuilizhanhuofenfei，lianaideweidao，chaorangyihoulangjiyipian。

 sheibucenggaibianzheizhongshiluoyishunjian：zaizhengzhihouyeshenrenjingfenbiebeiguoshenqu，zaichanshengfenqishitabingbuyunizaitongyihaogouli，nidejianxinlaokuwufadedaodalianglejietengxihetxu，nifahuoshitazhituzishenkanshouji，nipijuanhuiguifajuetazaiyinchawangshangdayouxi，niqipanxiangyongquezhizhidaotatouzhanzhenxinjiurushui……

 lianaidefaze,hunyinshenghuoliyouguoduobunengmanzudajiaqidaideshike，shiwomengudan、cuozhe，shiwomentichuzhiyidangshidetiaoxuanshibushiqiadang，rujindetourushibushifeichangzhide。