恋爱的法则,欲去其痛必令其通

 lianaidesigejieduanyoushenmeni？zhongshi，qianjiu，goutongjiaoliu，renshou，jiqichensushenghuolidexixishuanshuanfengfengbubu，buyishushizhuanwayaopingpingguanguan，zheizhongquanshihunyinshenghuolizuijibendebixiukecheng。neimelianaidefazeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaideweidaodewenzhangba。

zimeixiaomiaoyuewochuquyongcan，yidunfandeshijian，jibenshangquanzaixuanxieduitazhangfudebumanyi：

 “tachunsuishibeitaniangguande，yifukuzizongshirengquanzidongxiyiji，huanxialaidexiecongbulejiebaiqizheng，tuodiaodemianwashizhongshibeimian，youpingdaoledoubufudeyapo!”

“xiaohaidouyisuile，daoxianzaihaibawobutaihaochongnaifendewendu，bingbushilianglebianshirele，baxiaohaiedewawadaku!”

“wodeyipingfanclxiezhuangshui，juranbeitadangzuodaoqixishouxiaoduyejirengle!”

“zongeryanzhibianshigeshenghuoshazi，wozenmejialeneimegewupin!”

 lianaideweidao，wokanjiantazhabazhebiequdeshuangyan，jidetonghongdelian，lianaidesigejieduanyoushenmeni？meishaoningchuyigedarougeda，zhenshibianshiqianliangniandeziji。

 woxiangdaodangchuzheixiewuxiuzhidebaoyuan，youyutabujuyouyixieshenghuojibenchangshi，buhuizuofanxichuangdan，burongyidaiwa，fenbuqingchuniaobushidezhengfanliangmian，pidadianshidounengbianchengzhanshideyinbaodian，zuizhongwuyiliwaidishenggaodao“yagenjiubuaiwo”he“meiyoushiminggan”degaodu。

zuoweiyoujingyanren，wohenqingxijiaruzheishiwohetayiqiqianze，zongshihuoshangjiayou，rangtayelihuijialegengweimengliedichaoyijia。

 yinciwofanwendaota：“neinidongdezuqiuduima?kexueyanjiugupiaoxingjijinma?kancaijingzixunma?zhangwodangjindangqianguojixingshima?sisuoguodiaoyudaowentishenhoudebenzhima?”

xiaomiaoyileng，jiezhebianbo：“woguanzheizhonggansha!wolianzishendougubuguolai，meishijiancaozheixiexinxian!”

zheibushicaoxinxian，zhuyaoshimeixingqu。

 nvxingdetedianzaocheng dajiayushengjulaiduiyixiexingyeyongyou wukebinidejineng，lianaideweidao，liruganqing、shishangchaoliu、pengrenjishu、yanger、hufumeirong、yulebagua……ernanrenhenganxingqudexingye，qiahaoshinvxingdemangdian。

相反也是。

 nanrenyushengjulaiduiyangeryunvdeshiniaopibuganxingqu，duichufangyongjuyouyanjiangcumeixingqu，naizhiduixiaohaideai，yeshihoutianxingxide，zhujiansuzao，lijingyigeyouzhangdexianjiequanguocheng。

 dannibunengyouyutabudongjiulesita，bukeyiyouyutasitibuqinwugubufenjiuyibazhangbatashanyun。sheiyaoqiutafeiyaoshiyibenbaikecidianni?

nanrenbingbushiwubiyaobinigengcaihuahengyi，gengwanshanconghui，bingbushifeidewenkexiabidingtianxiawunengshangmadingtianxia。

 tabuhuizuofan，buxihuanxichuangdan，bumingbainidepingguan，nonghunangelababyhelinzhilin，burongyijihaizixianzaozuoyingerfuchu，fenbuqingchumamiaiyuheshengyuannaifen，gaobudongniweishenmeyiliantieshanghuangguaqiepian，bulijienizaochenduiyushijingzidaotengsanshifenzhong，buqingchuzheiyijideliuxingyuansuheliuxingshishang。shizhongqianqueshenghuojibenchangshi，shizhongfanyingmanyipai，dantarengjiushinidangshiqianlinwanxuantiaozhongdeneiren。

 nidangshiaita，zhenaitafeibendeyingzi，xiongjiandejiaobu，qianeshangxinishanyaodehanshui，yangguangdixiachaoqipengbochongpeideqingchunhuoli。nixuandeshiyigegaokaoyishu，erbushiyigetierenbaixiangquannengxing。lianaidefaze,tazaizhuiqiunidezhongtu，zhanshenglezhuduojingzhengzhe，lizaihunyandelingjiangtaishang，nijitamenderongyujiangshiqinkoujiangchuwoyuan。nishouyutacihoujinrunixingmingdesuochi，shouyutayunigongchuyishirongruyugongdequanli。