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不分手的恋爱,一块糖的分期付款

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不分手的恋爱,一块糖的分期付款 ·绿灯代表着回绝。

·xinhaodengdaibiaozhejiena。

·dengliangledaibiaozheniyizhizaizhuonongta,tishitakaishui。

 yexunizaoyituolaidaoshangyiwaitao,huoshidajiazaishafashangyibianqinwen,yibianyouyixieliaobodezishi。shiduofenzhongzhihou,tajuedenizaoyigaohaoletiqianzhunbei。zaizheigeshihou,nikeyibunengshuo:“bu,wohaimeiyouzhunbeihao。”gentacikeshuoneiyangdehua,jiuhaosinizaiyuanyiyigehaizichitianzhihou,youbatangcongtashoushangquzou。

jiarunidaozuihouyikecaihuijueta,tahuijuedenishizaizhuonongta。

 nibunengbataliaobozhijihouyoushuo:“bu,worenweibukeyineiyang。”tahaowuyiwenhuixiang,“zenmedaocikele,niyoujuedebunengneiyangleya?nizaoyicuicanlewoyigexiaoshi,bingqienidekukoumingxizaoyijiechuleya?”

 zaizheigeshihou,gengshitajuedezuiweixinshenbuningdeqingkuangxia。dangtayibu“xing”qingshangzhang,tahuishifenxiaochen,bingzaodaoyanlidaji。tajibenshangburongyizaisheqiuzaiyouxilimianhuodeni,youyunizaoyiduozoulezaiqizhongdequanbukuaile。tayibujuedenizuoshizhangmianjiazhi,tacongduinide“xing”zhiangran,jierbianweiborandanu。jiarutaganjuezishenbeizhuonongle,tachediyouyuanyinsheqiduinidezhuiqiuwanmei。

 gouxiangyixiazheileichangjing。nibunengrangyizhigoudingleyixiaoshidedabangguyihou,zhidiujitayigenwosun。jiaruniyaorangyigenanrenzhongshini,niwubigongzhengzuoshi。

zunxunyixiatiyi,jinenggoubaozheng nijiangxingshituohou,youbuhuishitazaihuodeniyiqian,juedeniyizhizaizhuonongta:

·zaigangkaishideqingkuangxia,shibubiduliqutahuonidezhusuo,youqishitianhenwanshi。

·congyeyixiezaiqunzhongchangsuodezhutihuodong。huozheshitalaisongni,suihoujinzaoquqitadiqu

 ·jinkenengzaibaitianfenpeiyixieyouyisideshi。jiaruniliangqidanchewaner,neibianshishanshuolvdeng。danruguoshizaiwuyeshifen,nimenliangyibianguozhemaotanzuozhehuoluqian,yibiannazheyipinghongjiu,tahuicaixiang,nihenyoukenengzaoyishanshuolexinhaodeng。

 ·jitamenxingganmiren、wennuanderewen,danyidingshiyaozainiwaichudeqingkuangxia,huozhezainikendingbuhuitingliuhenjiudediqu。suirandajiahenyoukenengzaidimianshang、chuangbian、shafashangxiangyong,danzaidajiadulijiaowangdeqingkuangxia,bubishitadexingdongshengji。

 ·zaizuikaishidechumenyouhuishi,fenshoushizaoyishishengengbanyele,tahenyoukenengxiangqunidewuzi。jiarunipanduantashiyouyidingdewangtu,dannizheishibingmeiyougaohaochongfenzhunbei,jiuyidingyaorangdaobiexingdongzaidamenkoujinxing。jiarudajiatongzhuyichuanggongyulou,yidingyaozaitingtanglishuoyishengzaijian——“taibangle,dajiaduguolezheibanmeilidongrendeyigeyeli。”

 ·jingchangxiaorong,duitajiangdechaoxiaobaozhiyibaoshangdexiao,nijiushiyigehaobanlv。niliyingshitajiangnijidangzuopenyou,lingwaiyoudangzuolianren。jiarutaxuxutaotaoditaoluntaziji,youqishitayouyidiandianjiaolvbuandehua,bianshiyigejihaodeshujuxinhao。jiarutaxihuanni,tajiuxiangjilichangkaishitaziji。

 ·shidangditiaodou,shenzhongdikandaihunduanzi。xuduo qingkuangxia,nanshenghuiyonghunduanzilaishitannidekerongren。bubidianzuozhengerbajing——tingtarenshuoxiaohuashininengxiao,niyenenggouwanxiao,keshibubizhiliuzaixingdeneirongshang,neiyangdehua,tahuiwurenweixinhaodengshanshuo。

 ·zhuishidikuazanta,shitalejietajiushinidexinshangren。biru,dangtabaojinnideqingkuangxia,baojinta,wentadeshenshangnanshixiangshuideweier。huoshiduitashuo,takanqilaitingshuai。niliyingqiadangdibiaomingchunijinjindengdaijihui,erbushiyiweihuijuetadeguiding,

 ·xianshixinxichunishizhongqingyi、keaidenvren。yutashouqianshou,huojiangnidetouyizaitadejianbushang,neiyanghuishitajuedezishendeshenshangdenanshifengcai。dajiakandianshijudeqingkuangxia,huanhuandechupengtadetui,danbubiliaobota——zheizhidaibiaozhe2gexiguanjieaijin。bubipengchutadesimichu,yifangtarenweinishanshuolexinhaodeng。

 ·dangtasongnihuijiadeqingkuangxia,buyaozaitadechelichijiudifumo,burantahuizhaojiabuzhude。jibian zainizuoshangtadexinbaomawuxiyiqian,zheiyihundanhuikoumendixiangyaonixijingxie,tayehuiguoduandizaichelizuoyixie“shoujiyouxi”。

 ·tangruoshijianhenwanle,buyaoshuo:“xingba,jinqu……zhiyihuier。”bubiqingtajinqu,bubishitajinqujiandaonidemaomao。bubijitamenzhukafei。bubijitamenpaocha。bubishitakanzhenizaicishineizhuangxiudewuzi。zaishenyezhihou,burongyiyou“zhiyihuier”neimarongyideshi。

 ·bubiliuluniyouyubudingdexintai,jibian niqueshizaipanghuang,yebubizhuyaobiaoxianchuqu。bubibuduandiduitashuo,tabixuzaidengyigeyue。bubimingshuotashibushizaoyijidongqilai,bubitizaosantianduitashuo,niyejiukuaizuohaozhunbei。jiarunibingweizhunbeihaozuoshashi,jiububijitamenshengchanzhizaozuozheichongshidejiyu。

 ·tashuodao“dajiajinjinqiangbao”dehuashi,buyaoxiangxintajibian dajiaxiangshiyijiu,jibian tashiyigeyoubufanzikongnenglidezhengzongshenshi,haiyaozheiban。nicicidemudi,bingbingbushizhuonongta。

·gongranpapa。neiyangzuoyibanfeichanganquanxing,chuzhongshenglianaiyouyutabukeyiyoujinyibudezishi。

 wopengyoupamudelijing,zhenshibianshixingtaiduaimeidejingdianjiaoxuesheji。shangniandongji,zaiyiciyouhuiyihou,taqingtagandaozishendezhusuo,youyutadecheneiqueshishitailengle。taqishangreqiaokeli,huandiaoshufufeikuandefalanrongshuiyi,suihoutamengangkaishiqinwen。tajuedezheitiaofeikuandefalanrongshuiyikanqilaihenchuantong,buhuishitayouxingtiaodoudehuanjue。huirangtajingyadeshi,tachedixinyouyuji,duireqiaokeliyagenmeiyouyiqieguanxin。

 zhenduiyigenanrenlaijiang,shuipaodanshiwofanglideyifukuzi。chuanzheshufudeshuipao(naizhishibuhaokandepingjiaokuhuoshuiku),daibiaozhenixiangtashanshuolexinhaodeng。

 jiarutaduiniyouganjue,jibian tahuiqiadangdirangnishijiagongzuoyali,zaitadexinlingshenchu,tarenghuixiwangnishitazaidengyideng。taqidainishi“butongxunchangde”。taxiangrangniliuyouyazhi、lizhiyusatuodeyinxiang。taqidainikeyilingwutajiangdechaoxiao,bingjuedetashiyoumode。tayaodeshiyigenvwang。tayaodeshi……bufandenvren。

 neima,bufenshoudelianai,nizenmecainengjitamenliuyouzheileiyinxiangni?feichangjiandan,shitazhuiqiuni,qingbietaisuibiannachuniderenti。

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