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恋爱33天,精明的谈判高手

 lianaidesigejieduanyoushenmeni?rujinzheigeniandai,nvxingdadouyongyouzijidezhichangshengya,nanrenhenshaoyoujihuigandaozijibeirenxuyao。jinguantamengongzuodeyijiufeichangnuli,danzuowei“yijiazhizhu”,tamendedaodeganjibingmeiyouguoquneimeduo。zheizhengruailika·qiong(ericajong)suoshuode:“yidingyaotifanggaochangfunvjiefangdenanren,tayidingshixiangciqugongzuole。”neimelianai33tianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaidefazedewenzhangba。

 zaishenghuoqitalingyuqudechenggongdenvxingchangchanghuishuo:“wobuxuyaoweizijiguoyuqianghandexingweidaoqian。”erzaijiexialaideyigexingqi,tamenyourenbuzhuyaoxiang:weishenmetamen“zhaobudaoyigehaonanren”?henjiandan,haonanrenyaodeshiyigehaonvren。shenwei“huai”nvren,buyiweizheshiqunidenvxingwenrou,yebuyiweizheniyaozaijialichuannanrendekuzi,henanrenyizhenggaoxia。zuowei“huai”nvren,zhiyiweizhebunengrangrenherendaimanni。

恋爱33天,精明的谈判高手 ruguoyigenvrenbiaoxiandewusuobuneng,neimetajiushenmeshiqingdouzuobuhao。

 dianxingdechaojinvrenxiangyaodeshiyizhongnannv“pingdeng”deqingaiguanxi。zheishiyigehenhaodelilun,lianaidesigejieduanyoushenmeni?danzaishijishenghuozhong,tahenkuaijiuhuibianchengmouzhong“yibiandao”deguanxi。

 chuyuzheigeyuanyin,niyidingyaojizijidinghaojizhun,kaiyigehaotou。nibuxiangjixuzuoxiaqudeshi,jiuyongyuandoubuyaokaishi。ruguonibuxiangmeigewanshangdouzuofan,congyikaishijiubuyaotiantianzuo;ruguonishizhongbuxiangqushipindian,jiuzishizhizhongdoubiezuochuzheiyangdezitai。nibixurangtaxiguannidefangshi。

 zailiangrenxiangaizhichu,nanrendoufeichangyuanyijinvrenliuxiahaodeyinxiang,zheijiushitamenzaineigeshihoutebieyinqindeyuangu,erzheizhengshinibangzhutapeiyanghaoxiguandeshiji。cihou,dangyiqiedouchenailuoding,tahuiyinweixianruweizhuernanyigaibian。

 liru,zaijiciyuehuizhihou,nifaxianzijizhanzaigongmenxia,gentawenbie。zheishiyigemeihaodeshike。xingxingshanshanfaguang,yuesemiren,nimenliangrenyangwangzhetian,zhaoxunneikeshanliangdexingxing。nichufanglidelajijiuzaitadeshenpang,dantajihumeiyouchajue。zheishijiushinibangzhutapeiyanglianghaoxiguandeshiji。

 ruguoyigenanrentiyidainiquchiwufanhuowanfan,youtaqu;ruguotazhengzaidingwaimai,wennixuyaoshenme,nikeyitichuyaodanjuan;ruguotawennixuyaozaishipindianmaishenmedongxi,jiurangtamaiyigenixihuandeguozhibinggao。zheimezuobushiweilerangtaduohua3meiyuan,ershirangtatongguomanzunidexuyaoergandaozhideyiman。zheimezuohuirangtagandaofangfoshita“jiashizhezheiliangche”,napashinizaishijikongzhizheyiqie。

 duiguaiguainveryan,zuinandegongkemoguoyuxuehuiruhequjieshou。rangnanrenjiyuba,yinweinanrendemouxieqigaishitongguozerenganlaishixiande。

 zhuanglongzuoyadehulibuhuifangqizijidequanli,tazhixujiandanzuogezitai。tongshi,zheiyefeichangyouliyugonggutadediwei,yinweitadedaoletaxiangyaodeyiqie。

 qingkanyizedianxingdeshili。zaimixieerheyigenanrendierciyuehuishi,zheigenanrenwentanengfoukaichequtadezhuchu。tagandaoshifennankan,dantacaiqulezhuanglongzuoyadexingdong。tajiazhuangmeitingdaoduifangdeyaoqiu,tianmidifanwendao:“nishixianggaitianzaijianma?ruguojinwanbufangbian,meiguanxide。”

 mixieerwanquanzhuanyilehuati。tameiyoubiaoxiandexinfanyiluan,yemeiyouzhizeduifang。tajianmingeyaodijiletayizhongxuanze:qiyi,takeyibugentajianmian。qier,jiujinghequhecong,tarangtazuochuxuanze。

 zheilidegaomingzhichuzaiyu,zhuanglongzuoyadehuliwenrouerdeti,bingqiezongshibinbinyouli,suoyi,zheihuishinanrenrenweizijiyijingkongzhilejumian(jinguanshishiburan)。jishizhuanglongzuoyadehulixiandefeichangjianwang,danqishitaxinrumingjing。zheiyishiliyuchenggongdeshangyetanpanhaowuqubie:

1.tabuhuibiaomingtadexiangfa。

2.ruguotiaojianbuliyuta,takeyisuishikailu。

 zhuanglongzuoyadehuliyishengbuxiangdizuodaoleshangshuliangdian。tayutazijideyiyuan(huozhebumandebufen)dachenglexieyi。ruguotadetiyitingqilaibucuo,tahuishuo:“henhao,woyezhengxiangzheiyang。”ruguotadetiyibushineimehetayi,tahuihuida:“woyexiangzheiyang,zhishiwotaileile。”ruguotabiaoxiandexianggeshenshi,tajiuhuiwanzhuandihuidata;ruguotalishubuzhou,tajiuqiaomiaodibikai。

gennanrenxutaoshimeiyouyongde,nizhiyaobulitamen,tamenmashangjiuhuitiaoqilai。

 xianghuliyiyangzhuanglongzuoya,lianai33tian,yenenghuajieduifanglveweishilideqingxing。biruzainimendiyiciyuehuishi,dangnimendengdaiyongcandezuoweishi,tabashoufangzainiyaobuyixiadedifang——zaizheigeweizhitashenzhinengmodaonideneiku。ninengzuodejiushizhuanglongzuoya,ranhoumengdishankai,jiuhaoxiangzheiwanquanshiyiciyiwai,bingqieyaoshuo:“wo!qingyuanliang。”

 wodepengyoutuoliyayudaoguozheiyangyijianshi。zaiyiciyongcanshi,shizhebazhangdannadaocanzhuoshang。tadenanyougentakaileyigewanxiao,shiyishizhebazhangdandijita,bingxiangkankantadefanying。tabatouniudaoyibian,kanshangquyiliankunhuo,haoxiangzaishuotayiqiancongweitingshuoguozheizhongshi。suihou,tazhazheyanjing,fangfochanshenglehuanjue。

 lianaidefazezhuanglongzuoyadehulibuhuibatadexiangfashuochulai,danguaiguainvwangwangyucixiangfan,jihusuishiyaobatadexintaochulai。yigemingjiaobaoluodenanrenshuo:“nvrentaixutao。ruguoyigenvrenxinfanyiluan,tajiuhuimeiwanmeiledixutao。lianaidefaze:woqingyuanzoushangquantai,tongmaike·taisendashang6gehuihe,yebuyuanyitingnvrenmeiwanmeiledizhongfutadegushi。”

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