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爱的错觉,不要请求他关注你

 aideditushishenme?“huai”nvrenxiyinzhunanrendediququjueyu,tabuyikaota。dangnanrenhedandudenvrenshenghuozaiyiqideqingkuangxia,tajuededaozishenyouzheyigegongpingdeairen。dangtasheqizishendepingshizhutihuodongshi,tabianhuijianjiandiduitasangshixingquaihao。zheishi,tayibujuedezishenhuodedeshiyijianzhibao,zhishigangkaishibatashizuofujiadeyali。neimeaidecuoweiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaidecuojuedewenzhangba。

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爱的错觉,不要请求他关注你 xiabiandexiaogushinenggouzhengshiwodejianjie。luobushiyiweijuyoufengcaidechenggongnanshi。tayiqiannenggouxuanzeyiqieyigetayaoxiangdenvren,danzaizuizhong,quebeiyigetazuibutaikenengtiaoxuandenvrenxiyinzhule。tabalaolaxushuweiyigeshenchuanbaizhequnzhanglianyiqunde“chuantongde、chenniyujisuanjishijiedeshudaizi”。zaiyouhuijihuiyihou,taqingtachulaiquwan。luobuxinxinshizu,haipansuanzhejiaolaolazenmecainengwandekaixin,tajuedezishennenggouyaobaibudingtadequanqiu。kelaolajiushuo,tabukeyiqu。aideditushishenme?weihe?yuanxiantazaoyifanganhaoyaogaoyicitebaihuijuhui。

niyuefabuyikaota,taduinidexingquaihaojiuyueda。

 luobuxushulejiexiaqudeshier:“woyizhiqidaitanenggenggaixiangfa。jieguo,wohaishiyigerenlaidao,bingqie,wozhiwanleyitianjiufeihuile,youyuxiangyaozhidaotajiujingzaiganma。jubantebaihuijuhui?neishibutaikenengde。woshibukeyijianxin,taweilegenghaodiyicijuhui,ningkesheqigenwoyiqiquxiangyoutianmanyiguoqingdiaodejiaqilvyou。wocaice,tayidingshiqujianlingyigenanrenle。wowubiqinzigaoqingchuzheijianshiqing。”

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 rujinhuiyiqilai,luobuyiranganjuenanyixiangxiang:“wohaizaineibiantingzheyibangnvrengegegeditanxiaofengsheng,kanjiantamen‘shanlizhishou’,sichuchakanyixiesuliaofanhe。wojiuyongyigehenxiaodexiaoshao,hezheyigeyangzidutedebeizilidexianmokafei。womeifajianxinyanxiadeshier,wozaixiang:‘bu,butaikenengshineiyangde,nandaoshuowodouburuneiyangyigejuhui?’”

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aidecuowei,jiaruguoduxianzhudizhuyaobiaoxianchutanyu,jiuyidinghuiyouxierenzainiyanqianyaohuangyuer。

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