爱的永恒,该死的爱情倦怠期

 aidoushiduidema？meiyigerendouqipannengxunzhaoshandaizijiyiwannian，daizishenruchujiandenage“mrright”，danshiaiqingheermengshiyoubaocunqide!xiangbiaoshishicaidebaocunqiyiyang，zhuanjiazai“ganqing“debaozhuanghezidinggaiyigechuoer：18geyueyiqiandeganqing，xiannenduozhi。erguoqule18geyuezhihoujinguanhainengchi，keshikouweiquegangkaishishoudaofeichangdayingxiang;zhidaosannianzhihou，ganqingjiudaoqile。zheishiweishenmenanrenzailianaihuanjiehuiyuniqinmiwujian，yinianbanzaihouqueyunihaosiyoushoumozuoshou，ganjuemeishenmiganledoumeiyoureqingle。yinci ，zenmerangganqingbuduanlengzangni?neimeaideyonghengyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyuyandewenzhangba。

第一：生产制造紧迫感

 niyoumeiyoujianguoyuminbayudiaohuiyuganglihaifangerliaode?aidoushiduidema？nvxingrutongnanrendiaohuijiadeyu，doutiqianzhunbeixiyixifangguolile，haitoushenmeerliaoni。nanrendehuolishibijiaoyouxiande，ganqingdexiongxingheermengshitazairelianbahuolihuazainideshenshang，jianjiandide，dajiadeguanlianmanmanpingwen，nanrenganjue“niquanshiwodenanrenle，yefeichubulaiwodeshouxinle”。neiyang，tajiuhendangrandibahuolifensanhuazaibiedeshiershang，liru，tahuihuashijiandayouxi，yaohuahexiongdiyinjiukandatian，naizhiweigongzuozhongpinbo。nanrendouduijiunimeiyoujinpoganle，dangranjiuburongyibaguoduohuolifangnideshenshangle。

 zheigeshihouyixienvxingbianhuiganjue，neimewoshifounenggouheyixingpengyouyouhuiaimei，youyishitalejiewodouxuduo yixingpengyou，tabianhuiyoujinpoganle?yidingyaozhuyi，jinpoganheguishuganshiyoujiexiande!suibianheyixingpengyouyouhuiaimeineiyangdezuofahuirangnanrenjuedehenmeiguishugan，nanrenyidanquefaanquangan，tabianhuikaolvdaochechuzheiyiduanguanlian。erqiadangshengchanzhizaojinpoganbianshi，nixuyaojitamenguishugandeqiantitiaojianxia，wuguantongyangnenggouroulindianxiaojinpogan，rangnanrenlejienihenyouxierenqi，keshinishiguishuyutade。liru：ninengyouhenduoyixing，youzishenderichangshenghuoheyiqiezhengchangdejiaojiquan，zainidejiaojiquanli，nishihenshouyixingpengyoureliehuanyingde。

第二：维持层次感

 weichicengciganfeichangjiandandefangshibianshi——guzuogaoshen，bukeyiliangdipai!youshihoujitamenyidiantayaoxiangde，zhengqueyindaotaqutanxunni。wodeyiweixueshengyiqiangenwoshuo，tayouqixiaijiangfangzhou，aideyuyan,weilegenghaodinongdaohanhandianyingshouyingdepiaofeijinxinji。erzaishouyingdangri，tayijingweikanbujianjiangfangzhouergandaoshiwangdeqingkuangxia，tanvyoubaerzhangshouyingpiaoliangzaitayanxia。tahuanhuqueyue，wennvyou“nizennengnongdaode?”dangtanvyoushenmiyixiaoshuo“wobugaosuni!”deqingkuangxia，tazhenshibeiyanxiazheiyixiaomonvjishenshendixiyinzhu，yishunjianjiuganjuezheiyinvshengyoushibuwandefashu!

 weichishenmihaikeyichuxianzaipingshixianliaozhong：lirudangtayuxiongdizaitantaojiarumadeliheacmilandayichangsaishi，sheihuiying?zheigeshihouninengzhuangzuomanbuzaihudishuo“ziranshimadelila”。tahuiganjue，yi，jianzhiyixiangbudaoniyigenvhaizijiahaikeyihedajialiaoqiu!yinci ，yaoshitabawobuzhunidedian，wufagenshangnidejiezougan，tabianhuishizhongzhuizhenipao。cizhi，zainannvguanxishanghaikeyishengchanzhizaocengcigan，rangnanrenhuanlesong：liruhuanyigewanshuadechangdi，zailaiyigejiaosebanyanyouxi，zaitaobaowangyijianzhuanyeyongyusipodeshuipao，jiexiaqudeshier，nidong。

第三：坚持不懈单独

 aideyongheng,dulirengedenvshengshizuinengxiyinzhunanrende!yiqieyaoyouzishendekanfa，youzishendexintai，chuangjianzishendejiagou。rutong《lihunlvshi》denvyihaoluoliyiyang，suzaozishenduliderengehedandudejingji，buyifuyubieren。zaijuli，dangtafajue，zishendenanyoushigeyouqishidenanren，tahaobuyouyuditiaoxuanhetatichufenshou，yingyongdigangkaishigenghaodeshenghuo，youyumeiyouleshei，tazishenyekeyixiangshourenshengdexingfukuaile!ernanrentongchanghuibeinvshengneiyangdandudefengcaisuoxiyinzhuqieshangxi!dahuoernixuehaolemeiyou?