爱的永恒,loser类型及如何摆脱

 aidoushiduidema？yixielosersbisuoshudezhongleigengweibijiaoyanzhong，henyoukenengweixiedaobierendeshengminganquan。jiarunishenxiangenyigebijiaoyanzhongloserdelianaiguanxi，nihenyoukenengbixuzhuanyerenyuanhefalvfaguibangzhulaijiejiuniziji。neimeaideyonghengyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyuyandewenzhangba。

暴力虐待者：

 baolinvedaizhehuizailianaiguanxidegangkaishizhuyaobiaoxianchubaolixingwei——tuituisangsang，pokoudama。aidoushiduidema？zheizhongjiqiaoxunsuhuizhuanhuachengkoutoushangweixie，suizhezhebaolixingweishoushi——yongshouzhizhixiangnidelian，zainidelianqianhuidongwoquan，yeyoukoutoushangdebaolixingweiweixie，liru“nirangwozhenshixiangzainilianbuhenhendizouyiquan!”zuihouzheizhongzhengzhaobianchenglezhenzhengdebaolinvedai——dajia，shanrenbazhang，tiren。dajiazhihoudiertian，loseryizhibaoqian，danbujiuyougangkaishixinyilundelingnve–tiexindexunhuanxitongquanguocheng。

 congbaolinvedaizhongbaituojingchangbixujiaren，falvbumen，huoshiminsudejiabaobimian zuzhidebangzhu。nvshiloserjingchangbaolixingweijingongtadeairen，baituowupin，yizhitadeairenpobudeyiyongfeifashouduanbaohuziji。jiarunvshiloserzaidouzhengdequanguochengzhongyuxueleyikuai，biruzaitadeairenshanzhangyazhizhutadexingdong，fangzhibeitada，tahuibazheizhongyuxuejiaojitarenkan，zhengshitadeairenshigehuaidan，zailianaiguanxizhonglingnveta。

心理状态凌虐者：

 aideyuyan,zheileizhongleideloserszaixinlizhuangtaishangbijiaoyanzhongwaiqu——bianshiyingpianlixushudeneilei“zhimingyouhuo”。youderenhenyoukenenghuiduinishuoyixiexugoudexiaogushi，changshishuodongnishishishangtagenheidaohuoshitegongzuzhiyoutuolei。ta/tahenyoukenenghuizhuangzuozishendelebuzhizhizheng，huaileyun，huoshibingzhengyashen。tayoushihouhuijiangchujiniquruhehaipadehua，biru“wojuedeshasheijiushashei”huoshi“meiyourennengxuanzelikai”。jiarunichangshitichufenshou，tahuizuochumengliedefanying，weixieshuoni，nidepengyou，nidejiarendoushihuiyouhenyanzhongdebubian。dajiajingchangyouyudanxinshanghaijiarenhezishendezhimingduerningkeliudaolingnvehecaozongdeguanlianzhong。beitazhangqixinghuyouhou，ninenggaosutademeiduanhehudoujianxinbuyi。

 xinlibujiankangdeloserhaihenyoukenenggenzongni，gensuini，huoshiweixieni。tahuoxuweixieyaokongheweixie，quchuwuqizhuangbei，huoshiweixiejiarunijingganliqutadehuatahuishaleni。jiarunigenbierenyouhui，tahenyoukenengzhuizongnihuoshiweixienideyouhuimubiao。nideyouhuimubiaoyehenyoukenengpengdaosaoraodianhua，caichansunhuai，weixie，naizhibaolixingweijingong。jiarunijinqiliyi，liangdifenju，aideyongheng,huoshiwanbiqianyiduanlianaiguanxi，loserhenyoukenenghuikeyipaoququrunideqianairen，haiparuguobujiangnideqianairenhetuininenghuidaotadeshenpang。yidingyaojilao——loserduibierenzuodeyiqieshierdouhenyoukenengzuihouluozainideshenshang。losertoupaizhaopianni，nixiaohaihuoqinrendetupian，batamenjilainizuoweihehufangshi——anshizhetanenggou“yingjichuzhi”nizuiaideren。nixuyaofalvfaguihejingchadebangzhulaijiejuezheixieren。