meitiandoushiqingrenjie,zheiyishiqi,chuguinanrendeshiersikongjianguanle,keshidajiahaizhenbukeyiyigaierlunchengzuoshizhiliangnanti。youshirenchuyuyigeteshudeshimenheziranhuanjingxia,dangwaibudenengliangtishengbenshendedikangnengli,bianhuitishengwaiyudegailv。youderenyibeizidouweicengmishangairenyiwaideyixingpengyou,shilaiyuanyutamenxinlidejiandingbuyi,danzheiyehetamenhenyoukenenghaoyundemeiyouzaoshoudaotaifanzadeziranhuanjingmolianxiangguan。neimemeitiandongyidianrenqingshiguyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanmeiyouganqingdeganqingdewenzhangba。
suoyishuozhibizhijibaizhanbaisheng,zuoweinvxing,duolejieyixiashenmezhuangkuanghuitishengchuguinanrendegailv,meitiandoushiqingrenjie, huiyouyiyunenggougenghaodihunyinjingying。
第一种状况便是夫妻两地分居
chengqianshangwanshijilizhengbiaoming,fuqiliangdifenjuzhenshishinanxingzaochenghunwailiandemiaochuang。
fuqishishenme?“jinbainianxiudetongchuandu,qiannianxiudegongzhenmian”,shiyaozaiyiqichaomuxiangduixing,zhouyexiangshou。
xiandaishehui,bansuizhetongxinchanyeliandefazhanqushiheshehuifazhanliutongxingdetigao,fuqiliangdifenjudeshieryulaiyuduo,danzaishizhishang,fuqiliangdifenjubufurenbenxingzhongdeqingganxuqiu,jielehunerbuzaiyiqidingju,budanmolianqinggandesuzaohechixu,bingqiezhiguanzhongyaodeshi,shiquhunyinshenghuojiaoweiguanjiandeyizhongneihan。
fufufuqiliangdifenjuhuirangnanshengnanyizaochengxingfudeganjue,tabukeyitihuizaiyiqiweilegenghaodiyigezongtimubiaoerqinfendeweidao,doubutaikeyiganshoulingyifangdandukeshoudezheileijianku。yinweizaoshoushijianhekongjianjiqidiqudexianding,liangrenzhongjianqianquegoutongjiaoliudefangshi,quefaxianghuderenshengmubiao。dangairenmeiyoushenpangdeqingkuangxia,nanshenghuiyouyuyigerendeshenghuodeqingqingsongsong,feichangrongyihulvelezishenzaihunyinshenghuodeyiwu,lengmolezishenhunwaiqingrendezhenshishenfen,zaipengdaoqitaqingganjiyudeqingkuangxia,bianhuiqingbuzijindishixianjinlai。
zheixiezhangqieryoumeifahuodehelichulidefuqiliangdifenju,zuifeichangrongyizizhangchuhunwailianqing。yixiebuqingchunanshengjihunerzaibujingyizhongduitamenzaochengganqingjiugedenvxingguishuyushouhairen,dannanshengyebuyidingquanshicunxinhairenbuqian。zhongjiuzheiyishidaisheiyebukeyizaiqianeshangcizishuozishenshiwanhundenansheng,dandancongjingshenmianmaoherongyanshangyenanyibianbienaweijihunde,naweidanshende。gangkaishideqingkuangxiahuoxuyebushiyidingyaohuaizhegangkaishihunwailiandemudixiangchude,henyoukenengbianshixiangzhaoxunyixiewennuanhekuanwei,dengfajuequeshifashengleqinggan,yiqiehenyoukenengdouwanle。
ziranbingbuyidingdefuqiliangdifenjudoushihuibaofahunwailian,danfuqiliangdifenjushifenmolianrendetilihepinxing,bixuzishizhizhongchixudeweichiheairendeshenxinjiankanggoutongjiaoliu,zishizhizhongchixudetishizishentishengdiyuyinyoudegongzuonengli,yaobizaiyiqirichangshenghuodefufuyeyaoduoxiaohaodalianghuolilaikeshouqinggandehedi。
laogongshisha,“yizhangzhineicaisuanshifu,yizhangyiwaijiubutaihaojiangguo”,minsudewanxiaohuashihenxinlashiwuhenairenxunweide。
第二种状况便是低品质婚姻生活
dipinzhidehunyinshenghuobudanhuijianshaonanshengdiyuhunneichuguiyinyoudegongzuonengli,bingqiezhenduinvxing,yeshiyouyiyangdegailv。
jiarubahunyinshenghuobichengyigeren,bahunwailianshuochengyizhongbingzhengdehua,neimawaibudeyinyourutongyizhongbingyuanti,tabingbuhuizaiquanbuderendeshenshangdoufabing,rentimianyixitongyiqiezhengchangyunxing,shenxinjiankangderenjiukeyihuidiyuyiwang,erzhenduishentileiruo,suyangjiaoruodereneryan,neizhongjiubianhuibianchengyizhongmonan。
hunyinshenghuodeshenxinjiankangxiangxizhenduifangzhihunwailiandezizhangjubeiyouweizhongyaodegongxiao。jiaruhunyinshenghuochongmanledouzheng、dachaodanao,liangrendeqingganzaibuduandesunhaizhongchixuyuelaiyuelengmo,hunyinshenghuosuoyuanyoudetuanduideningjuliheduirenneixindefuweigongxiaobianhuibeijianshaohejiangdi,hunyinshenghuodebuchenggonghecuobaiyehuicongyigerendexinlingshenchuyanlidajidaotadexinxin,tahuicaiyizishendegongzuonengli,bingshenxianyizhongjiaozaohezaodongbuandechujing。cikerangzheigerenyizhijianchiduiairenzhongshi,wulunqingganruhezhuanbiandouburongyi“zhutihuodongxinyaner”,neishibutaishijideshier。zirandajiakeyishuotashiduiyigeyoushehuidaodeyoubiaozhundenanshengdejichuguiding,danzheizhongjiushiyigegaobiaodiguiding,bingbuyidingdepingchangrendounengzuodao。
shibenren,jiuhenyoukenengrouruo;shiyigeren,jiumingbaixunzhaowennuan。dangtazaihunyinshenghuozhongwufadedaozheizhongdeqingkuangxia,jibian lixingduitashuobuneng,tadeqingganyehuiqingbuzijindifensan。yinci ,minsubieming“meiyoujiazeiyinbudaowaigui”,danghunyinshenghuozhongdeyifangzaoyizaochengleyanfanhesongxiedexinlizhuangtaiqingkuangxia,meiyoureqingtahuijijiquzhaoreqing,youjiannanyaowaiyu,meiyoujiannanzaojiujiannanhaiyaowaiyu,gengbuyaoshuozaiyouxierensonghuoshangmendeqingkuangxiale。
yixieyouyuhunwailianlaidaosiludehunyinshenghuozhong,keyifajuezaimeiyouhunwailianyiqian,liangrendehunyinshenghuoyezaoyijingbao。hunwailianjinjinyigefabingyuanyinbale,bingbingbushizhenshicuihuihunyinshenghuodezuikuihuoshou。danghunyinshenghuozaoyishiyizhongjiweishusongdegouzao,dajiadoubuqingchufazhanqiantuzainaer,buqingchuhunyinshenghuoyaomaixianghechu,zaiyihuohekumenzhongjianshehuidaodedehedihuibenkui,meiyouxiangxiangyinei,quezaiyiliaozhizhong。
disanzhongzhuangkuangbianshigongzuodedichaoqi
nanshengfeichangrongyibagongzuodedichaoqibianweihunyinshenghuodehuatielu。
youyunanrenshineixinshenchugengzihao,meitiandongyidianrenqingshigu,yegengmingandeyizhongren。nanshengbinvxinghaipabubeishehuifazhanrenke,erbubeishehuifazhanrenketongchangjiuyiweizhebubeihunyinshenghuorenke。zheizhenshibianshiyizhonglianshifanying,dangnanrenzaigongzuoshangzaodaolaidaocuobai,shenxianledichaoqideqingkuangxia,tatongchangbianhuidabuqijingshenshizhilaihunyinjingying,huibijiaoyanzhongyingxiangtazaihunyinshenghuodangzhongdeyiqiezhengchangqingkuang。zaitadezaiqianyishizhongdangzhong,huidanyoulaoposhifouhuiyinererbiandita。eryigenanrenyidanxiguanmouleibuweihejingzhundingwei,jiunanyijienazouxiapodekeguanshishi,beizheileixiaiqiangchengzheshiyanxujiafanrongdexingqingweihaizhe,tabinvxinghaiquefarongrushijidegongzuonengli。
yinci nanrenzaizaodaogongzuobuchenggongdeyanlidajideqingkuangxia,tongchanghuilingyunzhizhidiluo。tamenduobijieshouxianshi,yikaobiedefangfalaipaijiezishenfalidanfubuchenggongdehaipa。liruyoudenanshenghuimilianduqian,lixiangnengyixiaziyinghuilai;youdenanshenghuishijiu,yitiandaowanjiuqixuntian,wuxulengjingxialaisisuoshijinanti。
hunneichuguiqingganyeshinanxingtuolixianshideyizhongfangshi。youdeqingkuangxiazuolaopodebujianxinzijidelaogongzaigongzuodediguqiyeyouxinxiangaohunyinchugui,keshizheizaitadexinlizhuangtaifangshishangshiyongyou nenggoulejiedeyibufende。gongzuoxiaochenle,choumeibuzhande,huijialexifukuxiaohaichoude,meigejiaorengaoxingdedi,geyigebutinghuadexifuhenyoukenenghaihuijixumatabuqizuoyong,yalida。meiyouganqingdeganqing,jiulianrenzheihainengxunzhaokuaijingtu,lianrennenggoukuanweita,lejieta,jianqingkumen,yiwanggongzuoyali,heqingrendexiangchushiweiyinenggoutuolixianshidefangshi。
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