情感驿站:恋爱中怎么才能做到包容彼此？

 qingganwentiyouneixieni？tanlianaishigengububiandehuatitaolun，danganqingzhongdenantiquebansuizhehuanjinghedajiadeluojisiweiyishisuishisuidibiandongzhe。wojuedezaiganqingzhong，nihaowuyiwenyongyou zishenjixujiejuedenanti……jinqidexinjianhezixunzhong，jiandaoxuduonvhaizaimaiyuanzishendelianrenhuihezishenzhengchao，naizhiyaoshuo“tayagenjiubuyuanyikuanrongwo，wolveweiyoudianerxiaojiaozongjiugangkaishibuduandizeguaiwo，zhizhizhengzhidebuxiangwanglai”，tashiyuanju，wojuedezaizheileixiangshengdeshenhou，yidingyongyou xuduodenanti。neimeqingganxiaowenzhangyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqingganyizhandewenzhangba。

 ciciwangwangpaochuquzheiyihuatitaolun，bingbushishijiangzhengchaodenanti，zhishixiangshuoshuo“zailianaizhongzenyangcainengbaozhengkuanrongxianghu”denanti——

lianaizhongdenanhaihenvhaichangchanghuichuxianneiyangdejuede：lingyifangyaowodouhuibumanyi，zheishishenmeyuanyinni?

 shijishangzheihekuanrongdehuatitaolunyeyongyou lijidehuatitaolun，lianaizhongxianghudemaiyuanzhendeshiduixianghubuzulingrenmanyima?shijishangqueshibingbushi，tangruonikeyizhanweizaizishendeshijiao，xixindexiangyixiangzheigewenti，neimawojuedeshijishangniyekeyigaoqingchuzheigewentideyagen：bumanyi，tongchangyuanyuyuzishendeshushouwuce，shiyizhonghenrouruohenwanbanwunaidezhuyaobiaoxian。

 tanlianai，youqishitanlianaideganjuebuzufengfuduocaidenanhaihenvhai，qingganwentiyouneixieni？zaiganshoutanlianaideshihouhuichuxianlveweidechuxianyichang，youyuzainiderichangshenghuochuangjinyigemeishenmeqinshuguanxi，danzaiweilaideshenghuohuichuxianzhangqixingjiaowangguanliandegongzuorenyuan，zheibidinghuizaochengnilveweidebushigan，erzaiweichizheiyiguanlianshi，zaimeiyouyiqiebiedefangfacanjiadezhuangkuangxia，zhiyougenjuzishendejingjishililaichudonglingyifang，wanquandeanzhaozheileifangshilaiweichixianghudeguanlian……xiangqizheiernishibushihuisangshizishendexinxin，naizhizaiganqingzhongmishifangxiang，tashiyizhonghenbuxingdeshier，danyouyumitulezishen，yinci huiqingbuzijindexunzhaodaodezhigaodian，dangzishenlizaizheiyifangxiangshi，dangranhuigenjuzheileicaozongtarendefangfalaijushu，buduandiyanlidajilingyifang，weicilaizengjiazishendeguishugan。

 zaizheiliquanguochengzhong，youyuzishendeneixinlikandaiganqingdeqidaimeiyouzuodao，eryoubuyuanyijiangruanruowunengchedidefanyingchuqu，yinci gangkaishibazheileiluojisiweijiadaolingyifangdedeshenshang。

 qingganxiaowenzhang,ke，zheihaowuyiwenduiganqingyouyingxiang，yinci henlijideyigefanyingbianshiranglingyifangjuededaobuzuzhongshi，naizhishibuzulingrenmanyi，duiwobuhuilingrenmanyiganshenmehaizaiyiqini?

pengdaozheileinantizenmejiejueni?zenyangcainengbaozhengchongzudekuanrongni?

 shijishangkuanrongdenantifeichangrongyichuli，ruguoninengxunzhaonantibingduizhengzhiliao。nantidezhongyaozainaerni?shijishangjiuzaixianghudeluojisiweiyishili，ni/taxiangdeshigenjudexianghushiyadefangfa，laizaojiuzishen，shijishangshuogaoqingchudianbianshibaganqingzhongdeyiwuwanquandetuituochulai。

 kewojuedegenwoshuonideshi，yiwushixianghudanfude，ganqingzhongweiyouniheta，yinci zaiganqingdedanfushangburongyichediyouyigerenlaidanfu，fanfudetaobizerenbidinghuidaozhi。yinci qingbianhuanideyishi，zhaodaozishendeyoudiansuoshu，gaoqingchuzishendecunzaidebuzu，yishidaonantibingbuxuehaoduobi，xuehaogaixuedegongzuonengli，lirucaozongzishenqingxu，xuehaojiejuekunnandegongzuonengli，bamengziwobiaoshudefangfa……zheikanqilaiheganqingbuxianggan，danshijishangyaoshinengxiezhunitigaowo，neizhenduiganqingquanshiqiangyouguande。

 qingganyizhan:lianaizhongzenyangcainengbaozhengkuanrongxianghu?huanshicongnidexinlichuli，ruguoniyishidaozishenzaiganqingzhongdejingzhundingweishi，dajiayekenenghenqingqingsongsongdekuanrongxianghu。