爱上怎样的人?为什么中国女人急于嫁出去？

 aishangzenyangderen？《shizhoujiachuqu》yichulong，jiuzaochengjudaguanxin，shouhuanyingdelebude。neimeaishangbugaiaiderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangtaderendewenzhangba。

 woxiangqidediyigeyuangubianshi：youyuquanbuchujiadenvhaierzuijiaolvqingxudeyijianshi，bianshiyaoxiangbanfabazijijiaren，bujinyaojiadehao，bingqieyaojiadekuai。

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 nantiqujueyu，weihezhongguonvrentongtongshirentongcixinxintongcili，qitaguojiaderenyezheibanma?bbcdexinwenjizhezaiguankanleyigezhongguodexiangqinhuodonghou，ganleyigeyouguanwomenzhongguorenlianaiguandebaodao，xinwenjizhechuanchuleneiyangdegantan：

“yijianshibenrenlaijiang，hunyinshenghuojinjinyizhongtiaoxuan。

erzaizheier，hunyinshenghuozeshimouleizeren。”

 zheiyijuedekeyishuoyizhenjianxue。zaibenrenbaoshouzhuyideshehuifazhan，wanhunjinjinyizhongtiaoxuan，erzaijiazhongbaoshouzhuyidezhongguojingji，aishangzenyangderen？wanhunqueshiyizhongzeren，shuobaile“nandadanghunnvdadangjia”。yidingyaozhuyinage“dang”zi，zhenduiwomenzhongguoreneryan，wanhunshibibukeshaode，bingbushiduozhongduoyangtiaoxuanzhizhongdeyizhong。

 zaiouzhouguojia，jinyouguobanshurenzouruhunyinshenghuo，qitayibanjinjintongjushenghuohuodujushenghuo，bingbuxiangjiehun;riben，danshenquntiyezhanlaidaorenkoushuliangde40%;zaiguowaihehelan，danshenquntizhan30%;zuijiduanhuadeshujulaiyuanyuaodili——jiehunduixiangzhizhanrenkoushuliang12%。suoyishuo，zaizheixieshehuifazhan，wanhunjiujinjindajiaduozhongduoyangtiaoxuanzhongdeyizhong，eryibushiweiyidexuanzexiangle。

 duiyushuodaozheileichabiedeyuangu，neishiyouyuzaibenrenbaoshouzhuyideshehuifazhan，zuibeizhuzhongdeshiyongjiazhishibenrendehuanle;erzaijiazhongbaoshouzhuyideshehuifazhan，zuibeizhuzhongdeshiyongjiazhishijiazhongdefanzhiheqinziguanxi。

 zaijindaizhongguo，jinguandanshenquntiyoutishengfazhanqushi，keshizhuliuwenhuahaihanyoujiazhongbaoshouzhuyidenonghouyanse，yinci henzaobazijijiarenhuanshizhongguonvrenjiaoda deyuanwang，jiaoda dejiaolvqingxu。zheiyeshi《shizhoujiachuqu》zheidangzongyijiemudahuoqudechenggongdeyuanguzhiyi。

sisuozhier：jiageiaihuanshijiachuqian?

 zai《shizhoujiachuqu》zhizhong，anyouqigongbushengming：“woxuanzedenghouzhenzhengdeaiqing。woxuanzelaibaomingcanjiazheiyizongyijiemu，xiwangnenggoubangwozishendaliangdejiyu，haikeyilejieyixiehenfeichanghaodenanhaizi。jiaruhaiyoujihui，nenggougentashizhijinkouzouwanhoubianderensheng。”zaizongyijiemuzhizhong，tadezhuyaobiaoxianyoumugongdu，yongyantanjuzhiweitade“denghouzhenzhengdeaiqing”zuochulezhushi。biru，zaiwanbiyuyigefurendenvhaixiangqinhou，anyouqichizhiyibidishuo：“tachukaisonglixuanyaoyiwai，qishiwoshenmedoumeijiandao。henkong，jinjinzaisongdongxi。wobuhuizhangwota。”

zaixianrujinwoguo，dajiazaitiaoxuanjiehunduixiangshiyulaiyuzhuzhonghuaxuewuzhi，buzhuzhongjingshenshizhi;zhuzhongqian，buzhuzhongai。

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 bukeyifouding，jinqianyouhuolishijidade，bingqiezaixianrujinwoguoqixiyinliyouyuelaiyuedadefazhanqushi。zaishangshijiqishiniandai，zhongguojingjikaoliangpinfuxuanshushuipingdejinixishujinyou0.2，shiquanqiucaifuzuigongpingdewoguozhiyi;laidaoxinshidai，jinixishuzaoyibiaozhangdao0.5，dajiadeshehuifazhanzaoyijinrulepinfuxuanshuzuibijiaoyanzhongdewoguodeduiwu，yaoyuanchaochuyinqishehuifazhandongdangdejingjiexian(0.4)。zaihunyinshenghuobianchengyibudengtianhuoshizhuirudiyudetupokoudeshiqi，rangdajiahulveqiancai，neishiyigetaiguolixiangzhuyizhe、taiguolangmanpaideguiding，renjingbushangjiaoshenshuipingderenhaishizuobudao，huangluntianxiacangsheng。

 ciwai，ganqingzheigedongxigandaowoguoyecaidanshiyibaiduonianbale，zaizheiyiqian，hunyinshenghuodaduoshushimeishuozhiyan，fumuzhiming，menbudanghubudui，fanyanhoudai，chixuxiangzhu，ganqingcongbubeizhuzhong。youyuxiangtuwenhuadewoguoshiyigejiazhongbaoshouzhuyideshehuifazhan，congbushibenrenbaoshouzhuyideshehuifazhan。dajiashenghuozhongdeguanjianshiyongjiazhishishengyunzisun，jibaixianzu，fazhanzhuangdadajiazu，rendingxingwang;benrendekuaileshiyigehenbuzhongyaodeshiyongjiazhi，jingchangshibeibierenhushide。

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