什么才算爱?把控男人泡男人才是正经事

 shenmecaisuanaini？weishenmeshuonanshengbukeyipao?xiangyouzheishengshidebingbushijinyounansheng，nvxingyeyiyangnenggougaozitaizhuixunzishendezhizunbao，tuxianzhaoduixiangquan。neimeshenmejiaoaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshiaidewenzhangba。

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大家为什么没有在一起

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关键点击败感情，过多的争执与矛盾

 shenmejiaoai？wokandaoguoyigeyouguanqinglvfenshouyuangudepaimingbang，paimingdiyideshi“guoduodezhengzhiyumaodun”，shenmecaisuanaini？sifenzhiyizhishangderendouganjueguoduodezhengzhihemaodunshiganqingdeyihaoxiongshou，shifensunhaibiciqinggan。

 nanrenlaizihuohua，nvxinglaiyuanyujinxing，liangrenrichangshenghuozaiyiqibixurangbudeshierguoduo：niqidaiganzai11dianqianshuishanghuilongjue，ertayiranhaizaiwangluoyouxidequanqiuliquanliyifupinsha;nixihuanchisichuanhuoguodefanhuameiweikekou，taquexihaokuaidaozhanluanmadebeifangmianshi;nirenweilibaitiandelanmanbianshiyiqiguangjiegouwukandianshiju，taqueningkezhaizaijialikanqiusairushuiwanyouxi……wuqiongdezhengzhi，xiaoqianzhexianghudexixinhezuikaishidelanman。

 shijianyuezhangmocayueduo，zhengzhiyezaichixushengji，zuizhongjiubeibilaidaowufawanjiudechengdu，zhinenggantanyiju“renshengdaolurenshengruoruchujian”。

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沒有心有灵犀，三观不合

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 chuanyanjinmayingdiliangchaoweizaipaixiyiwaixiguanxingmenbuzuosheng，xingqingshifenneixiang，jichupaiwanxijiuhuijiale，huijueyiqiejiaoji，shiyanyiquanzhimingde“feichangzhainanzhainv”。erliujialingnianqingdeqingkuangxialianguoticaoyundong，kuaiyankuaiyu，aihaofanhua、shanyurenjijiaowang，zuoshengyizuodeyeshishunfengshunshui，shidangzhiwukuide“wanrenmi”。zheibandexinggejiongyi，zennengjiechengfufu?ketamenquexiangyaoyongjiangjin20niandemoheqilaishouweizhenzhengdeaiqing，zongsuanzoudaozuihou。

 ganqingyuanbenbianshiyigebaizhuanqianhuidewupin。aideqingkuangxia，hebaikaishuiquanshiqiongjiangyuyejueshiwushuang;ruguobuaile，zaihaodejianiangzhenniangdouhaosifensanyuchunchizhijianjiandemanxingduyao。shuobailexinyoulingxi，buguoshizhuguanxingjuedeeryi。

太年轻，不懂得珍惜

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 tainianqing，budongdezhenxishenpangdeta，dayueshihenduorenzuochudewufawanjiudebuzhengque。yixiangxiangguanchulianqingrendeshujudiaochabaogao，lianrennengcongchulianqingrenyitongxieshoubingjianzouruhunyinshenghuodejilv，zhiyou1%。

 richangshenghuo，dahuoerchangchanghuifajueneiyangdezhuangkuang：xuduo nianjichabuduodelianren，congyuanxiaolibiankaishileganqing，dantongchangdouaobuzhu28sui。zheishiyigelingrenaihenjiaojiade“27suidinglv”：28sui，zhenduinvrenhenanreneryanshiyidaofenjiedian，yingdangbianshidajiagangkaishidongdezhenxidenianlingba!nanshengcong28suicaigangkaishizhenshidefazhan，shubuzhinvxingdeqingchunnianshaorongmaoquezaimanmanxiaosan。

 xuduo nvshengyichuxuexiaomen，jiukeyixunzhaoxiangduixingguangxianlianglidegangwei。ernanshengtongchangyaoxianniansanshi、tundiaolezhinenyihou，haodegangweijiyucaihuiqinglaiyuta。danbianshizai28suiderenshenglianjiedian，xuduo nvxinghuitiaoxuangennanpengyoutichufenshou。tashougoudenghou，shougouyicicixinhandecuican，yiqiedourangtakanbujianjianglai。

 zhongguotaiwanyinlezhizuorenchenshengjiuzuoleyijianhencuirenleixiadeshi。tatizaoyinianyugoulezishenxunhuiyanchangdemenpiaofei，zhixianlianrenxuangou。yirendejiaqiannenggoudedao 2geminge，shuangfangfenbiechucunguishuyuzishendeneizhangquan，yinianhou，erzhangquanhezaiyiqicaikeyijinchang。henduorendouganjue，yinianshishenme?womenyaoyongshengyongshizaiyiqi!shubuzhilaidaodiernian，chenshengsuoshedelianrenminge，jingkongchulexuduo。tayingduizheneiyigegekongdengzi，lianbudaizhuguguaideqianjiu，changlezuihouyishouge：《babeishangliujiziji》。erzheicixunhuiyanchangdexingmingchengwei：2020niannihaiaiwoma?

時间和间距

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爸爸妈妈不同意

 zainannvlianai、wanhunzheiyijianshiershang，woguodelianrenmenshijishangconglaimeiyouguochedidandudejuecequan。gudaijibian qufuyumeishuozhiyan、fumuzhimingjiechengfufu，yefashenglexiangjiaozhongqingheliulanzhi、luyouhetangwanneiyang，beilaorenwanbanhuihuaihunyinshenghuodeaiqingbeiju。errujin，babamamaernvdejiehunshangyiranbawozhewuyongzhiyidezhudongquan。jibian henpengqiaojianchibuxielezishendetiaoxuan，jinhou，sheiyounengtaolidelelaiyuanyufansudezhengyihelaiyuanyudajiazudegongzuoyali?

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 enaiquemeiyouzaiyiqi，younengruhe?buguoshiruyedeyishengtanxi。ermeimeixiangdaozheizhong，caisuanshiyouguanyunshizuifalidepengzhuang。

 shenmecaisuanai?guoquchemahenman，xinjianhenyuan，yishengzhigouaiyigeren。rujin，dajiaqueyaolijingduocixiangfeng、enai，eraiyiyibu……