什么才算爱?不秀恩爱才死得快

 shenmecaisuanaini？kaixinkuailezheiyijianshier，youderenshaijiuyouderenshang。yijuedude“xiuenaisidekuai”bahenduo xiangshaienaidelianrenbiechengweihai。kewojuede，zheienaijiuwubishai!buxiuenaicaisidekuaini!neimeshenmejiaoaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmeshiaidewenzhangba。

秀恩爱=具有爱

 xiandaishehuihenduorendoushihuimamudimouchuluqiupingwen，zheijiuhaosishizaigebizhongjiankudixunzhaoshuiyuan。danshidajiaquewangjile，shishishangshuiyuanbingbingbingbushizuizhongyaodewujian。haosi《lianqingdezhongjie》limiandeyiduanhua：“womenzaitongyipiangebili，zaixunzhaodeyexushitongyiyantianranshanquanshui，danquexianghuzhijiankanbujian，yizhigulinglingdeyigeren。wotongchangneimashuo，shiyinweijiaruwomenzaiyiqidehua，gebijiuyiburongyishigebile。”

 xianrujinhenduorenjiejueqinggan，doushihuiquxianghenduo nandian，runianlinga，caichana，weilaia。shenmecaisuanaini？qingganbianweihoushidewujian。wodaoshijuedeliyingzhenxixianzai，zixinxindi，nonghoudi，chongyudijuyouchuduixiangderoumeiganjue。erxiuenaini，burongzhiyijiushijuyouqinggandezhongyaojutibiaoxianzhiyi。

 nikanyixia37suixinyirenxibanyazhongguoshangwubuxiaobiandehelanfaguomakelong，shencaikuiwu、huopokailang，dantarenjiushiaishanglebibenshendaershisuidefayulaoshibulijiteweiyouzhe3gexiaohaizideliyimama。shenmejiaoai？aijiushiai，meiyouqita。

 liangrenyaoshishiaidaoshenchu，sheibukengongxiangziyuanjiquanshijie?zaichuduixiangderenyanli，quanshijiedoushiqianfensede，guannifanbufanyan!guoqiaowangkeyan，weishenmeyourenyaoxiangzaigonggongchanghefuqishenghuo?guigenjiedi，nanhaiziweilegenghaodinenggougenghaodixuanshizhuquan，nvshiweilegenghaodinenggougenghaoditigaoxinrengan。

 neimajiangba，bingbuyidingxiuenaiderendouyidingshijuyouzheiyiduanqinggan，danzhenzhengjuyouzheiyiduanqingganderenyidinghuibuyouzizhudixiuenai。yinweiaitaiduole，yibuxiaoxinbianhuiyichulai。

 shishishangenaidaodixiubuxiu，dequemeiyouneimezhongyaode。danxindebianshiniyoushitiyiju，nanpengyouquejianjuebutongyi，shenzhimashangzhamao，neimaniyejiubixuxiaoxinle。

nixuyaoxiangyixiangworenweixiudebeihoudaodishisha?

 tangruotabuxiu，nihenyoukenengjiushitadeyuliutai。zaiziranjie，gousaniaoquanshihuihuagequanlaixuanshizhuquan。xiongxingdongwuyidantiaoxuanleqinshuquanshihuixiangbiedexiongxingdongwushengcheng，tashiwode。biru，xiongxingaidahexiaoyanshu，huiyizhishouzaiqinshushenbian，bunengtalikaibenshendeshixianfanwei。jiaruoyouqitaxiongxingkaojin，tabianbaozou。

ershengmingdejinhualejiqiannian，congbenzhilaijiang，duiqinshudelingtuzhuquanshengcheng，fangfoconglaimeiyoubiangengguo。

 zhihucengyouyigediaocha，jutizhongzheizhongconglaibuxiuenai、bupozhaopiandeqinglv，bingbingbushirudajiaxiangxiangdeneiyangjuanqimei，buxieyiguxiukaixinkuaile。shikebianxinghaishilingyouyinqing?yuanyinzhibuguoshijigecengmian：yi、youxinwuli;er、wobingbukenzhidiaozainizheiyikeshushang;san、woduizheiyiduanganqingqueshaozixin。zhinanaizhenyaojuedenihao，yibanbuyizhaoyuanguzangzheyezhe。

怎样秀恩爱?

 zenyangxiuenaishiyimenxuewen。enaixiudebudui，queshirulaoshuguojielaoshuguojie。《huaerjieribao》cengxiangjieguoshejiaomeitishidabeidichudexingwei，zaizheiqizhongyouyitiaojiushi“wuqiongxiuenai”。daodishenmejiaowuqiongxiuenai?

 zhuliumeitichangbaodaoyixieqinglvzaidatingguangzhongxiaqiangbaorewen，qingmiyiluan，shenzhiannaibuzhu，zaochengyixiebudangdexingwei，zhichapapa。zheibushixiuenai，tashigongranshualaipi。naliedengkuzaodangenai，zheileixingweitaisansu。

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 suoyishuo，yaoxiangbaenaixiudehao，neikeshiwubigaoqingshang、gaoshenmeiguannianxinlizhuangtaide。nizhangworuhegaodashangdixiuenaima?

 xianrujinguowaidoubuliuxingshaisuiyue，jinjinshaijiyinyichuanle。enbuenai，neimajiushaifuqidetongnianzhaopianhezinvzhaopian。yimoyiyang，yimuleran，nongnongdezhenzhengdeaiqing。

 dierzhongjiaowoyinxiangtebieshizainanyiwanghuaidexiuenaishilaodajiadebaiyuheijiehunzhao。suiranmeiyoumaoshoumaojiao，qinqinwowo，danshilianggerenzhuangzhongdizuoxialaineibian，fushioushigudian，nantuobangqiumao，nvpixinnianglifu。duanzhuangerqishihuihong，rangrengantanhunhoushenghuodegaoshang。

 xiangzhixiangxideqingganzenyangxiudoubuyibeipaichide。haosiqianyizhen92suidenanjingdaxuekexueyuanyuanshifengruiqianzhelaopochenlianfangdeshou，chuxianzaixianfengshudianzhuhe“zuanshihun”，neicaisuanzuoxiangxiaobeichengxianleshenmejiaozuoxiuenaidezuigaojingjie。liangweilaorenhaihuxiangchuangzuoleyishou《zuanshisong》：“liushiqiuchunenaidu，lingwaizhizijiannandu。xianrujinbaifatongxielao，yuanjunanhaoyongxiangru。”

 disanzhongjiushijijingdixiuenaile。zheizaizheiqizhongdedaibiaozherenwujiaosebianshiwangshidetianpojunxiaojie。wangshizuoweibujiqishurengonggongjingjingdegaoshou，kuaileyouranzidebeitianxiaojiehuanzuo“shadaidai”，huanhuanxixiweilirenzuohongshaorou。qianbujiu，wangshidedao yingguoniujindaxuedemouyixueshixueweizhengshu，tianxiaojiefabiaoyitiaoweixinfapengyouquan：“iproudofyou.”deng，houmiancaisuanzuozhenzhengxiuenaini!“ayowei，woxinlijiuzaixiangzheijiarudaerziduomedehao。”nixiangyixiang，guanxideduoxingyingbuli，cainenggouneimashuo。

 jinguan“xiuenai，sidekuai”haoxiangbianweidahuoerjuedelisuodangrandeshiqing。danniqingxima?congtongjixueshanglaifenxi，xiuenaiderenhebuxiuenaideren，zaimingquetichutichufenshougailvshangjibenshiyiyangde。ercongxinlixuejiaodulaikan，dangdahuoerkandaoyixierenxiuenaizhihou，yongyuanzaiyiqideyibanbuyibeinishifouhaijide，daoshizheizhongmingquetichutichufenshoudefanerbeilaolaodijizhule。

 shenmecaisuanai?shuodaodi，xiuenaiyaoxiangbulingrendichu，weiyidefangshijiushirangzheiyiduanguanxigengyouyingyangyuansu。jianyanzhide“dichubierenxiuenai”，shishishangshidichuzheizhongqianpianyilvdishaibenshenshenghuofangshi、shenghuoqijuguanjianhuanjiedekongtandang。tangruonizhaoxundeneigerennengrangnibianweigenghaodeziji，neimezhenzhengguanxinnideren，yidingbuyixiannifan，fandaosuishihuanyingyuwanmeideaiqingkeyitianzhangdijiu。