最后一次恋爱:相亲的正确打开方式

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keweiheneimeduomeizitidaoxiangqinyuehuijiuyilianbugaoxingni?

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相亲约会的恰当打开

fengkuangdeai,xiangqinyuehuiqudechenggongdiyibu，congqingxi“dianmian”gangkaishi。

 wojianguoyounvhaihualedamaoyanzhuang，dixiongzhuangluobeijiqiexianshixinxiaotuyouzhishenxing。ok,kendingxiyinnanrenmuguang，jiarutazaizhaohunwaiqingmubiaojiutingheli，danshiduiqunizheijianshiqing，tayidinghuisansierhouxing。zhanhuarecaodehuaban，bingbushitayaoxiangderenshengdaoluairen。

 ciwai，yeqianwanbunengyizheguodufeikuanfeihoudeyifukuzi，rumashujiushinishenxingdeerbeida，yifuxiuxianfengdaban。nidaoshiganjueshufuzhenshiziwo，zidexiangqinyuehui，danqingxiangxinwo，dangbudongnideyaohexiongjiujingyoushenmequbiedeqingkuangxia，dabufenjiuduinishiquxingquaihao。chuciyouhuijiuchengxiannijiehunhoushiniandejiajudaban，zongshirangnanshengxiangkuangjiao。

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