情商低的表现有哪些？直男天生怕麻烦

 biaomeibaomingcanjiawanqianrendehunyan，huijiakudewawadaku。wosulaibuzantongbaomingcanjiaqiannanyoudehunyan，dangyigenanrenbianchengleqiannanyou，jibian tachengweitelangpuzongtongyeyuniwuguan，hekuangshihunyanzheileishi，laidaozhenshishizitaomeiqu。danshitafeidequguodujinzhang，lanyedangbuzhu。neimeqingshangdidebiaoxianyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqingshangdide9zhongbiaoxiandewenzhangba。

 taduiwoshuo：“tajixinniangzimaidezuanshijiezhihedangchusongwodeshixiangtongni，biaomingtahuanshiwangbudiaowoa?”wojidexianxieyikouxuepenchu。tanlianaizheixienianhaishibudongnansheng。tanaershifangbuxiani?shuodaodixianmafan。maiyigexiangtongde，jinjintufangbian。

 chukaiyushengjulaibeinvexingshentisuzhidewenyinanqingnianyiwai，leisiquanbudegangtiezhinanchuliganqingnantidebiaozhunquanshijianlian、bianjie。zailianaizhongnandequanshixiantiao，yinci caihuidaozhihuodeleyebuaixidezhuduowujie，erquanbudenvxingyidantanlianaijiudoushihuibianweihuanxiangjia。liruyiyewenrouyihou，nanshengxiangdeshigankuaixinglaigongzuo，cikenvxinghuixiang：“tashifouhuiyineryibuaixiwo?ruheliangewuxinghaopingdoubuji?”erqiekuaisuxiangxiangyibaigexinhuaibuguidexiaogushi，mengranyuelaiyuebeishangqilai。jiarunanshengzouhuilailouloubaobaoyoujuezhanyichangdehanyi，nvxingyouhuixiang：“shiyaobalaomadangzuoxinggongjuma?tuangoujiashifou?”，

 zaiqingganlinvxingxiangdeguoduo，nanshengxiangdetaishao，yincixianxihefenqijiulaile。nifayitiaoxinxineirong，shuo：“qinaidede，jiarumangjiububihuile。”shijishangxinlideduibaishi：“zaimanghaiyaoqingshangdidebiaoxian，huia!”dannanshengjiandaozhihoujiuqueshibuhuile。jieguonidengleyizhongwubieleyiduzihuo，nanshengquebuqingchunifahuodedianzainaer，tayaoshuo：“bushinirangwobubihuidema?”yinci ，nvxingyongyuandouzaimaiyuannanshengbumingbaizishen，nanshengyongyuandouzaimaiyuannvxingtaibubian。

 gaizenmeban?yingyongzaowuzhuciyunvxingdeyuzhongbutongbaowu——maimeng。nanrenduinvrenmaimengzheileishishishizhongburongyifande，jiaochendiduitashuo“bierenshijishangxianghenijianghuama，youpanixianfan”。duide，rutongjiaoxiaohaizineiban。meiyigeqingshanggaodenvrenquanshiyisuohaodaxue，tamenbudanjiaohuinanrenzenmegenzishenjiaowang，naizhijiaohuitamenruheaiziji。

 ciwai，xuduo nianqingdenvrendouxiaimoliannansheng，yongtamendehuashuo，shixiangyaozhidaolingyifangjiujingyouduoaizishen，jianyanzhibianshichixujinanrenzhizaoyixiemafanshi。wodehaopengyoumomodijiuzheiyangyigezuotianzuodidexiaogongzhubingren，zaimouyidongjideshengengbanye，taduinanrenshuo：

“zhangfu，woxiangchipaomian。”

“我给你煮去。”

“wobuyuanyichiwomennagepinpaide。”

“那么我出来买。”

“zhuwanjiazhongdoushifangbianmianweidao，cibiqushile。”

“neimewopaohaolarangninahuijia。”

“凉了不好吃。”

“那我们出来吃。”

“waibiantailiang，woyoubuxiangchuanneimeduoxialouti。”

“你到底想怎样?”

“想吃面条……”

 weishenmenvrendouhuigankaihaolaogongqunale?doubeizuotianzuodidenvxingzhengsileya。haola，kaijiawanxiaohua。worenwei，haodeaiqingbingbushibolanzhuangkuo，zhishipingpingdandan。shuobailezhenzhengdeaiqingwuxumolian，zhenerwuxujianyan，jibian nihenxiangyaozhidaolingyifangshifouaizheni，yebukeyizongqushitandaodedixian。shijishangmaimenghezuojinyouyibuzhiyao，yongdeqiaruqifenshixingfu，shiyongguoleshigudan。

 zongtilaishuo，gangtiezhinanxianmafanchaochuhaipasiwang，gengbieshuoquganshounideneixinxiangfa，jiaruzaizheiliyidianshangduinanshengqidaiguogao，nizongshibazijibiedaoyingxiang。womingbaixuduo nvhaizaiaiyigerendeshihouhuihuaxuduo sixu，lirumeiyicipengmiandoushihuiyongxindaban，meiyicibochuqudianhuadoubixuguqiyongqi，naizhilianyitiaoliaoliaowujijigezidexinxineirong，quanshixiehaolayoumomodishanchubuduanhenshucicaijinxingde。touruleshifendeai，quezhihuodeleliangsanfen，zaisuonanmianyaomishihejiliao。wojiangchuxuduo nanshengdeshiqingbingbingbushixiangyaonikanchuannansheng，zhishixiwangniyunanshengdiaojie。

 qingshangdide9zhongbiaoxian,yiduankeyichijiudeqingganyaojuyouxuduo biaozhun，bukehuoquedehuaxuewuzhi、xianghudezhenxinshiyi，zuizhongyaodeshidouxiguantongyizhongshenghuoxiguan。yaoxiyinnanrenxinjiuxuyaoshitajiangnidangzuoyizhongxiguanxing，fangqinihuanyigerenzhongxinkaishi，yehenbubian。