情感交流之你不是情商低你就是自私

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buhuiliaotianbingbudengyukouzhixinkuai

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zhihouwobuzaihezheiyitongxuemenchupengle。

 yixieqingshangdiderenzongaiyikouzhixinkuai，youyishuoyishulizishen，buyiweiyi，fanrenweiao，ganjueqingshanggaoderenquanshixinjinv。shijishangguigenjiedibianshizisizili，yiziwoweizhongxin，buguanbugutarendeqingxuniantou，zhituzhebazijideniantouyigunaodisuoyoutuchu，yebuzaihushifouhuishangdaotaren。buyuanyiyouyutarenerbiezhuyituweikuaidebulizhi，buyuanyiyouyutarenershizheyongwanzhuandefangfajianghua。

buhuiliaotianbingbudengyuyougexing、aihenfenming

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buhuiliaotianshijishangbianshiyiziwoweizhongxin、zisizili

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qingganduanxin,jiangguoneimeduobuhuiliaotiandeshili，zailiaoshuoqingshanggaoderenzaishenghuoqijuzhongshizenmezuodeba。