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关于爱的故事:像朋友一样待他

 guanyuaidegushi,niyinggaihuiyiyixia,ruguonigangyujiannideairenshi,dajiazhongjiandeguanlianshinaxiede。neishihou,nikendingbuhuichongtaxutao,zheihenyoukenengshiyouyunijiuxiangkandaipenyouyiyangdaita。niwujuwushu,neishihourichangshenghuoyoudaliangdekuailehehuangexiaoyu。ninengyouxianzizaidibiaolunidexinlihua。tayebushinirichangshenghuodesuoyoushijiyiyihezuizhongshiyongjiazhizhisuoshu。neimejinideaiyizhihenanjingyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankangudandeairendewenzhangba。

 yidannigangkaishixutao,nidegerenxingweijiuhezhiqianjiongranbutongle。“bawonideyijuyidongsuoshangxia”yiyinweizheiyiyuangu,haikeyishuogengshiyinweizheiweiyideyuangu,tacongzheidangzhongshouyiliangduo。zheidaobingbushiyouyutacongzheidangzhongxiangyoulekuaile,zhishiyouyunidexutaoxiaochuletadegulv,shitaxiangxinnizaiyita。

关于爱的故事:像朋友一样待他 jibian nishiyigejingliwangshengdesusonglvshi,niluojixingyanshidebianlunjiqiaozugoushitatouyunnaozhang,zheiyewuguantongyang。xutaorengjiunenggoushitaxiangxinninenggenbansuizheta。xutaoburongyishitadanyouyiqieshier,yebuhuishitaquxixinkaolvdaohuoshizuosiyouxiangdajiazhongjiandeguanlian。xutaoburongyijiqitaduinidexingquaihaohuoshishitachupengni。zhenghaoxiangfan,xutaohuishitaduinibijinxinxian。

jibian shichifourenxintaideguanxin,yeyiranshiguanxin。tarangqingchuyiyiniganghaozhiliuzaitaxiwangnizhiliudediqu。

rujin,niyaohetatanyitan,ertaweiyibuyuanzuodebianshitanyitan。jiarunishiya,tajiangqianyizeguaimubiao。

nanrenqianyizeguaimubiaodechenggonganli

·zuixian,gaozhitatantaonantidejihuibushihe。qingjilao,shizhongyebuhuiyoushihedejihuilaitanyitan。

·zhiziweiting,jiugaozhitashitabayiqiedougaocuole,tatebieminganle

 ·lunzheyingyongxialieyuanyinhaiji:xingqiyihexingqisantafanyingguoduo;xingqierhexingqisitaziwochuixu,buheluoji;libaitiantaxinfanyiluan。

·genggaihuatitaolun,biru:“nideshengliqilaidaoba?”

 ·jiaruzheileitaobihuatitaolundefangfabujianxiao,jiuzhudongjingong。zuochuyifuqishixiongxiongdemoyang,keshibuduanqiangdiaotiaodongzhengyideshita。

 ·jiarutayouliutiaoyouliyoujudeyuanyin,ertajinyouyitiaoshuobuqingdaobuming、buzhiyitideyuanyin,yidingbaquanbujiaotandeguanjianfangjintazheiyitiaoshuobuqingdaobuming、buzhiyitideyuanyinshang。

 ·buyunxugenggaizhengzhideguanjian,eryaozheyanyutashuobuqingdaobuming、buzhiyitideyuanyinbingmingquetichuyigeyouyigedenanti,suihouguidingtaxunsuzuochuhuiying。jiarutachouchubuqian,jiuweicilaizhengshitashiqiadangde。jiarutaxianeryijianshiqiadangde,jiutonggongyiqudipengjitayitong,suihouyunyongzheiyidiantuibensuyuan。

 ·yidingyaoliejutazijixiangxiangchuqudequanweizhuanjiamingce(youtacongmeiyudaoguodeyixierengoucheng)。biru,takeyishuo:“lianqiaohetuonidouyuanyiwodeguandian,dajiadoujuedenizheigerenyagenmanbujiangli。”

·dangtachangshicongbuyiyangdeshijiaolaibiaoshutongyijianshiqingshi,tajiuguluguluzhuandixuanzhuanyanqiu。

 ·tedingtazijiweitadejiazhongxinlizhuanjia。lirutakeyishuo:“nijiushizheiyangkandainiziji。niweishenmefeideneiyangkandainiziji?”shuyishutafanfudepinci,suihouyidingyaotishita。

·rutongbojiyiyang,xianchuzuobaiquanzhongji,zuoshouzaishuoyijixiaciquan,suihouchixujingong……

 ·rutongalafate.alibabayiqianshuoguode:“xiangcaidieyiyangsatuo,xiangmifengyiyangzheren。”tanenggouqifubuding、shanshuoqicidilaibikainanti,suihouhuranzhiyitaweishenmebukeyicongcibashou,henhendizhetayixia。

·guanyuaidegushi,jixutiaowu,huanhuandeyidongzishendewubu。

·yeyaojilao,shizhongshitadecuo,youyutaxutaodeshitadeshier,yinci tagengyaojianchibuxie。

 tayaozuodelingyijianshiqingshiwanquanjiangni“guanbi”。tanenggoujiandaonidezuibazaidong,keshiquetingbujiannishuoshenme。tarutongshounazhekongzhiqiyiyang,zaoyijiangnidiaocheng“geyin”le。taqidaidelixianghuaqingkuangjiushini“yuchundiduizhenizijixutao”,zhizhijingpilijieyijing。tajuedejiarutaxixindengxialaidehua,zuizhongniyidinghuishenxinpibei,damodayanglikai。

 duiyunvrenbixuduojiucaihuiyuelaiyuechuitousangqi,bingbukeyiyigaierlun。wosuofangtandenanrenchushidezhijiezhengjushuoming,meiyigenvren——zheilijinxianyumingbaichuanyidapei、sadanxiangshuihetiaodoudenvren,doushiyouzishenrenxinghuadexutaofangfa。xiabianjili,jinyongyibiaomingzaiqizhongdeyixiefangfa:

·malasongbisaixingxutaozhe:zheileinvrenxutaodeshijianjiaoweizhang,tahuibuhuangbumangdibuduanshangliangsangezhongtou。

·zuihoudechongcixingxutaozhe:zheileinvrenxutaodeshijianjiaoweiduan。tadebaofagengweiqianglie,yinerxunsubianhuipibeibukan。

 ·tuidongxingmaiyuanzhe:zheileinvrengangkaishijinjinmaiyuan,jiexiaqujianjianditigaoqushi,suihoumanmanshenggaoweixutao,zuizhongbianchengchouqi。talijingdeshijianyuezhang,qushijiuyueqianghan,zhongzhidegailvyejiuyuexiao。

 ·baoxiaoxingmaiyuanzhe:bansuizhetaiyangshengshanglimingshifen,maiyuanjiukaishile。tayizhengkaiyan,bianhuitingjianzaochendiyishengmaiyuan。yejiushishuo,tayiranhaizaishushui,zheileimaiyuanrutongbaoxiaodegongjiyiyangbatahexing。

 ·gudandeairen,linshuiqianyichunxingxutaozhe:zaitajiuxuyaorushuideqingkuangxia,tahuiqingqingdituitayixia,tishitadiertianwubiyaozuodeshier。

 ·redaiconglinyinluxingxutaozhe:zheileinvrenhuiyunyongchuhuyiliaodezhanlve,zaiyitianzhongdesuiyishikejiangfangsongjingtidetadaigezhengzhe。qianyifenzhongyiqiehaiyiqiezhengchangkaizhan,suihouzaimeiyouyiqiejingshidezhuangkuangxia,tahurantiaochulairedaiconglin,jitamenyijimengji。

 ·zujishouxingxutaozhe:shiqianlijingjingxinanpai,suihoupaochuquyijujiansuandeyuju,bingqietongchangshizaishidudejihuihedizhixiangtajingong,yinci ,zheileixutaojubeihenqiangdepohuaili。

 xuduo qingkuangxia,nanrenburongyihaijidezishencaiguonvrenjiaozhitouzheileishier,danzhenduinvrenlaijiang,jiarufashengletataoyandeshier,tayidinghuimingjiyuxin。

 jinideaiyizhihenanjing,yiner,jiarutaxiangxiangtabiaomingtadeyixiehaobuzaiyilingtabuyukuai,tawubizuixianrangzishenbaochilengjing。suihou,tayingdangshuo:“wonenggennishuojianshima?”tayingdangbataduitadesunhaishizuoshibujingyide,zaizheigechufadianshangxiangtamingshuozishendeguandian,youyuzaixuduo qingkuangxia,tayagenmeiyouxiangdaoshierlaidaoneimebijiaoyanzhongdechengdu。

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