不顾一切的爱有哪些？怎么把恋爱变成婚姻?

 bunengshuodeaiyoushenmeni？weihexuduo yierzaizaiersan”buyuanjiehun”denvxingfandaojiadegengchenggong?neimebuguyiqiedeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbukesiyideaidewenzhangba。

 benrentiyi，nvxingzailianaihuanjie，yidingyaoxuehaobaozhengxialie”shibu”。sushuo，shangganzhedebingbushijiaoyi。niyuelizhikandaiyiduanqinggan，tajiuyueduinixincunzunjing，niyejiuyuehaiyoujihuizaixinlizhuangtaishangzhanyouyoushi，jinershitalaolaoshishijiufan，wanquanlunluonidequnxiazhichen。

 “diyibu”，dangtaxiangnishiaizhihou，buyaozaitayanqianzhuyaobiaoxianchuhuanhuqueyuedemoyang，yebubilikejiangtadaorulangmanqiuhundelugui。jiusuannineixinzaiaita，zuibianhaiyaoshiduweichimiantian。ninengtongyichangshigentaxiangchuyiduanshijian，niyenenggouduitashuoniyexiaita，danshishibushiaitahaihaipamingque。nidelizhihemiantian，huijiqitagenggaodeshiqi，yidingyaojiangni”zhengde”huilai。

 “dierbu”，buyaozaibicimingquelianaiguanlianzhihoujiujiqiebatayinanyoudezhenshishenfenxiangxijieshaorangnishenpangdepenyou，queshixianggongzhuyuzhongdehua，yeshitaxianjiangnixiangxijieshaochulai。womenzaidiyizhangbushishuoguoqulema，nanrenaiyigenvrendeguanjianbiaoshizhiyibianshipobujidaidijitayige”chenghao”，suihouxiangshenpangshangxiadeguanjianrenwujieshaoyifan。yinci nixuyaoshitaxianxiangxijieshaoni，kanzheigenanrenshibushiaizheniaidehuoda、chicheng。jiarutaaizheniaideguiguisuisui、bunengshuodeaiyoushenmeni？youyouyuyu，nihuanshijinzaobubibatatuochuqudiulianla。

 “disanbu”，buyaozaixiangchubujiujiuyitiandaowanyongduanxiaoxi、dianhuaweijianta，gengbubilaoshibutingdiwendao：“nijintianyouganshenmele?”“nizainaer?”“nixiabanlezuoshenmelaidao?”“niweishenmehuiduanxiaoxiyizhineimeman?”“jinriwojinidaguohenduodianhuanizenmelaoshibujie?”“nijintianjiansheile?”……jiaruzailianaihuanjienanrenjiuzaoyibeinidangzuo^renlaipancha，baoqian，tashiburongyiduiqiulaoyiyangdehunyinyouyidianerchongjingde。

 “disibu”，jiarutajinriyinweigezhonggeyangyuangumeiyourangnilijitongdianhua，bubiyuzhanyuyongdibiwen。jiarutachixusantianmeilaidianhua，niyebubijijigentalianluo。yihou，tazaishuoyueni，nijiuxuyaobujiedianhuahuoshibulibucai。ninengduitashuo，nirujinzhengmang，guoyihuierdahuilai。suihounisuiranqumangnizijideshier，bubishitazaizuihouyifenzhonghuozheyiqietawoxiangjiannideqingkuangxiazhaodaoni。dangnanrenbudaodianhua，nvxinghuisuiyicaice。yiyang，jiarunimeijitamentongdianhua，tayehuiduohuayidianersixulaichuaimoni。zheileiduomaomaodeshoujiyouxihuidiaozutadeshiyu，shitaduinixingquaihaobaozeng，zaizhaobuzhenideneiyiduanshijian，tahuijiaozaobuan，naizhilianzuirezhongyudeshoutoushanggongzuozhongdouzuobuxialai!

 “diwubu”，zaitayunimeiyouxuanbutidaojianglaidezhunbeishi，bubijijidaitaqujiannideqinren。zhongjiutashiyaoqunijinmenderen，huanshishitaxianpeinijiantadefumubijiaohao。zaitadouhaimeimingquetichupeinishuangfangfumujianmianyiqian，bubiyizhitantingtadejiazhongqingkuanghejingjifazhanshouyi。kanyixiadierjiedeneirong，nanrenzuipapengdaoyigexintoudiannianqian、shuangyanwang”qian”kandenvxing。jiarushitafajuejinizheiyizhuguanyinsu，tananyiqunijinmenle。

 “diliubu”，bubiweilegenghaoditaohaotajiuyizhiguangjieshanyuan、qianyibaishun。yaoyaoganshuobu。jiarutajuedenishiyikuaixiangpini，renpingruhebainongdounenggou，tabianhuiganjuenishige”bianyidehuoyuan”，chuishoukede。neiyang，niyizhizaimingquetichujiehunguidingdeqingkuangxiajiumeiyougentayijiadezichanle。

 “diqibu”，buyaozaixiangchubujiujiujieguotasongchuqudezhenguilipin，youqishigaojifuzhuang、zhubaoshoushi、zuanshijiezhinaxiede。shijishangnanrenzaisongniwupinshiyeshizaishitanni，nishixiaitazheigeren，huanshigengzhuzhongtasongchuqudelipin;nizhenaitazheiyiyouxiurencaigentaxiangchu，huanshitanmuxurong，xiangzhaogezhangqifanpiao。jiarunimeiyicidouxinranjieshou，nanrenbianhuixinlichuhan，tahuiganjuenishigewuzhiyuwanggaoyuyiqiedenvxing，tanaizhihuidanyoujiehunhouninengsuoquguodu。yinci ，dangtadiyicisongzhenguilipinshi，nishuoqiganxie，suihoutianmanqingyidizaitaerpangdishengxiyu：“qinaidede，xiayicibiezaihuazheimeduoqianlehaome，wonengxintongde。“zheishi，nideyifanrouqingmiyihuishitaxinhualufang，jiakuaitarangnizuanjiedeguocheng。yeyaozhufuyiju：jiarudajiaxiangchubuzhangqi，nibuyaojijidiqujinanrenmaizheimainei。huanshinagehanyi，nanrenxiai”jiyu”，xiai”bulie”，jiaruniyijidurenyidingyaozuoqianghanzhuangsongtawupin，tabianhuiyougongzuoyaliyijibian nishihaoxin，yedabushangyugudeshijixiaoguo。jiubuyaozaizheixiefangmianlaoshenla。

 “dibabu”，bubiyizhigentatijiehun，huozhebutingdizhixuewenqi：“womendeguanxidaonaxieshuipingle?”“shifougaikaolvdaojiehundeshile?”ruguonijuedetaduinimeixiangzhiqianneibanjiqingle，bubiyoukuyounao，zhishiyaoshiduanzhuzantingjian，jiaoweiyizhouyineituranbujietadianhua，meiquzhaota，yejiushishuonijinqibijiaomangmeikonggentayouhui。tajiaruzaihuni，huihenjiaolvbuandilaiyuenide。

 “dijiubu”，zhenduitade”qiannanyou”，bukesiyideai,bubibutingdizhuigenjiudi。jiranzaoyishiqiannanyoule，neimejiubiaomingtadeneixinyouyigechuangkou。wulunfenshoudeyuanyinshisha，tichufenshouyizhilingrennanguode。dabufennvxingdouduizishennanrendeqiannanyouchongmanlehaoqixin，xiaiwenzheiwennei，naizhihuijijihetazuobijiao。jiarunanrenshuoneigerenhao，nvxingbirancuyidafa;jiarunanrenshuoneigerenbutaihao，nvxingyouhuibiwenneihuainvrendedongxiang。yibanlaishuo，nanrenzhenduizhiqiandeshiyizhizhuanglongzuoyade，tabuxiangshuo，haowuyiwenyoubuxiangshuodeyuangu。ruguonvrenyizhibiwengebuduan，tajiuxuyaofanle。nijianxin，wulunruhe，tatiaoxuanleni，nishi”zhengzaijinxingshi”，hekuyaoqugen”guoqushi”zhenggaoaini。jiaruqiannanyouzaigennanpengyouyoulianluo，huoshiyaohehaonaxiede，neibiaomingnidenanpengyouhenyoufengcai，rangbiedenvxingburenxinfangkaishou。nixuyaozuodebingbushigennanpengyoufahuo，zhishixiangbanfahaohaodixiyinta。

 “dishibu”，jiarudajiazaoyijianguobicideqinrenle，buguyiqiedeai,bubijitamendeqinrentiaoti。nixuyaolejie，qinrenbianshiqinren，shitazuiqinjinderen，babamamayeba，xiongmeiyeba，quanshitadexinganbaobei，shizuishangpinde，tarenmeiyouzizhipintoulunzu。jiarunizhunbeijiajita，bianshizhunbeijiageizheiyidajiazu，jiageizheiyidajiazuquanbudeyoushiyulieshi。nilejietameiyouliangnian，queyaoduitajishiniandejiarenhengtiaobizishutiaoyan，tahuijininhaomiansema?