不顾一切的爱有哪些？恋爱越久男人越不想娶你？

 bunengshuodeaiyoushenmeni？xiandaishehui，zhongguolihunlvjisheng，dajiaduihunyinyibuxinrengan。zhiqianganjuehunyinjiunengchijiu，nengranglingyifangyizhipeizaizishenshenpang，danshirujingezhonggeyangyinyoubianji，wulunnanrenhuozhenvxingdoushihuidibuzhuyinyouwaiyu。lianaiyuezhangnanrenyuebuyuanqunidebageyuangu。neimebuguyiqiedeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbukesiyideaidewenzhangba。

1、性已考虑

 rujindenianqingren，yidanxuanbutanlianaile，jichudoushihuiyouhunyinguanxi。youdenanhaihenvhai，qingganhaimeiyoujishi，xingzaoyijishile，lejiemeijirijiufashengguanxipapadezhuangkuangxuduo 。yeyoushilijitongjushenghuole，neiyangdeqiantixia，xingdechongdongzaoyikaolv，sheihaihuijixuneimazhejideyaoxiangjiehuna?zaijiashangrujindejiehunyaoyoufangfeichefuyou，jiaruyouyigecengmianmeizhunbeihao，jiehundoubianchengnandeshierle。

2，害怕婚姻

 lianaijiulenanrenhaibuyuanyiquni，bingbushiyouyutabugouaini，kenengshitaduihunyinyoukongjuxinli，meiyouzouruhunyindeguanniantiqianzhunbei。xiandaishehui，zhongguolihunlvjisheng，dajiaduihunyinyibuxinrengan。zhiqianganjuehunyinjiunengchijiu，nengranglingyifangyizhipeizaizishenshenpang，danshirujingezhonggeyangyinyoubianji，bunengshuodeaiyoushenmeni？wulunnanrenhuozhenvxingdoushihuidibuzhuyinyouwaiyu。youshinanrenjianshenpangpenyoujiehunleyouli，jiugangkaishihaipahunyinle。

3、沒有搞好观念提前准备

 niyiweinihuranyishuoyaojiehunnanrenbianhuihenjidong。nineimeshiliaoweijideyishuo，nanmianxiangjinanrenlailagehuranyiweigong。lianaigenhunyinshibuyiyangde，nanrenyaojiehun，nixuyaojitamenchongzudeguanniantiqianzhunbei，bukeyidianjizhejitamenyiwaijingxi。yaoburannanrenfeichangrongyibeinihetuide。

 zainitiqianzhunbeigentamingquetichuyaojiehunyiqian，hebujitamenduoyidianshijianzuoguanniantiqianzhunbei，biruchangchangzaitashenpangtanjibierendeyixiejiehunhoudexingfukuailezheixie，jitamenanshizheyixia，shundaiqqfujinderentashibushiyoujiehundetiqianzhunbei。

4、担心服务承诺

 niyiweinanrenjiuchongzuyingyong，shijishangnanrenyeshiruanruode。xuduo nanrendanxinfuwuchengnuo，shidanxinyaojizijidefuwuchengnuochengdanzeren。erbuyuanchengdanzerendetixibaodabufenhexiongxingheermengyiyang，genshengzainanshiyichuanjiyindangzhong，qubieshiyixienanrenjiaoduo，yixienanrenjiaoshaobale。

 jiehundaibiaozhefuwuchengnuo，daibiaozhenixuyaoduizheigerenhao，yaohaohaodidaita，hetayibeizizaiyiqi。zheiyifuwuchengnuotaizhangjiu，rutongyigenshufu，batakunzhule，nanrenbuyuanzheimekuaidashangzishendeyibeizi。

5、怕改变现状生活方式

 dajiayebutaixiangyaogenggaiyixiguanxingdeshenghuofangshi，ruonimeigaoqingchu，kanyixiashenpangmeitianbaoyuanzishengongzuozhongdanyiranweizhuangongdepengyouba。youyuhenduonianlaizaoyixiguan，huranbianhuandehuabixuyidingdeshijianlaizaicirongru，erhenduorenshibuyuanneiyangsuiyigaibianxianzhuangdeshenghuofangshide。

 jiehun，yiweizhezheiliangrenyaoyiqishenghuo，gengyoukenengshiyijiarenzaiyiqishenghuo。poxizhijian、sishenghuodengnantijiezhongerzhi。nixuyaoqurongrulingyifangdebuliangxiguan，lianaizhongdelingyifanghaoxiangyiqiedoushixingfude，danshijiehunhouquebuyidingle。jiarunanrenzaoyijueceleyaogaibianxianzhuangdeshenghuofangshi，neimatajiugaohaoleyaojiehundetiqianzhunbeile。

6、不愿舍弃这座山林

 xuduonanrenhenlanqing，tajuedeyaoshizishenmeijiehun，tajiukeyibuduandihuannvyou，tayeshiyouxuduo denvyou，youhenduodexinghuoban。danshiyidanjiehunle，laopoquezhiyouyouyige，butaikenengbuduandihuan。shitasheqizheizuoshanlinerjindaohunyindemuzang，xuduo nanrendoubugaoxing。jinguanbingbuyidingnanrendouxiaisanqisiqie，danjiehunxiangdangyusheqijuedingquanqueshibuzhengdeshishi。

 huanzuojiushini，chengtiaojiejingdianpinpaiqijiandianlinyun，nixiangyaoyibeizizhijindaozaiqizhongyijianma?yinci nanrenningyuanfuniyigerenyebubifuleyizhengpianshanlin。

7，压力大

 lianaishilianggerendeshi，ninengmeitianchumenchidacan，niyenenggoumeitianwanshangchumenfengkuang，ninengzuochaoqianxiaofei……jiehun，shi2gejiazhongdeshi。lianaideqingkuangxiabuyaokanjiashi，buyaokanchuxu，zhizhongjuede，juedezhengquelejiuzaiyiqile。danshijiehunbuyiyang，nihenyoukenengdaliangdizhuzhongbiciqingkuangxiamenbudanghubudui，qingkuangxiashihezuonidelaopo。

 lianaishiniwuxuyaliguoduo，danshijiehunhoubuyiyang，jiehunhounijiuxuyaodanfuqiquanbujiazhongdeyiwule。rujinbalinghoujuedaduoshushidushengzi，dajialiangfufugengyaodanfuqifuyangsiweilaorendezhongdan，zheidanshiyifuzhongzhongdana，yalidale。

8，不够爱你

 bukesiyideai,zhishangdoubushininanyoubuyuanyiqunideyuanyin，neimazhiyouyige，jiushitayagenjiubuaini。dajiadeshimingganjijuxiajiang，guoqudecongyierzhongrujinjiuhaoxiangyigexiaoliao，sheineimeshuojiuyiweizhezhetuqi。

 jiaruyigenanrenchongzuaizheni，neimatajueduibuhuiduobi，tahuibinigengjiaolvbuan，qidaijiangnijinqulajinhunyindeshengdian，jiangnibianweizishenweiyide。jiarutachongzuaizheni，tahuidanfuqiquanbudeyiwu，haohaodiainiyibeizi。

 qingyaoduobizheiyihuatitaolun，rujinxuduo nanrenduiqingganquanshihuaizhewanxiadexintai，yagenmeiyoujiehundehanyi。jiarunifajuenidenanrenbianshineimeyizhonghunshimowangdehua，quannihenzaotichufenshoulingzezishendexingfukuaile。jinguanneiyangdexuanzehentongchu，buguyiqiedeai,danshixiangbixiaohaozishendeqingchunnianshaogengjiakekao。