如何选择婚姻 被偏爱的都有恃无恐吗

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一、区别热情和感情，处对象用热情，婚姻生活必须感情。

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 youxierenshuo，zhenzhengdeaiqingyoubaocunqide。bu，youbaocunqideshireqing，kaolvzhihoushiwujinkongxu，beiaideren,jinyouganqingnengpumanxin。

 paommdeqingkuangxia，reqingshishidezhuanyonggongju。shubuzhizaoyuwanhuntiaoxuanshi，yidingyaoshulizishendedanao，quchureqingdechengfen。

二、挑选一个自身爱的女性，和男人的生理学本性做斗争男人是一种男性。

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 aibukeyichuliquanbunanti，keshinengjinanrenjiejuekunnandequdongli。meiyouqudongliyunyingdehunyinshenghuo，bubianxuduo 。youyuhunyinshenghuodenantixuduo 。

tiaoxuanjiehunduixiang，youjigefangmianyidingyaoxixinsisuo：

1、bicigoutongfangshixianghukefoujiena。

 tashizuizhongyaodeyidian，bingbushipingchangyoumuyougongtonghuati，zhishiyoumaodunhenantidegoutongjiaoliu。jianyanzhi，jiarunanrenshigejianglideren，nvxingyedeshigemingbaishilideren，jiarunanrenshigexiaiyongwoquanjianghuaderen，nvxingyedeshigekenaiwoquanderen。nvxingjiaruxiaixutao，nanrenjiudetingdeguan。zongeryanzhi，liangrenwubideyouyigequchutongyijianyidechengxuliucheng，qieshuangfangdounengjiena。douyuanyijiena。

shijishangzheiyitiaozhenduizhenshienaidereneryanbingbushinanti，zhenshienaideliangrenshizhongshilizailingyifangguandiandulisikaode。

fufujianyidetongyi，shijiatingxingfudejichu。

2、lianggerenronghechanshengdegongzuoyalishibushikekongxing。

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3、bicishibushilingyifangdezhutui。

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wanhun，yidingquyigerangzishenjuedeqingqingsongsongdenvxing。

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