恋爱是为父母而谈吗 被偏爱的都有恃无恐吗

 beiaideren,fushangdebabamamashiwomenzuoyixieshierduifulingyifangbabamama，erqiehuixiangdajiachuandiyixieduiyixingpengyoudehaipa。neimebeiaideyoushiwukongyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbeipianaidedouyoushiwukongdewenzhangba。

hunyinguanxishiduirenjiaoda dexinlizhuangtaishiyong，hunyinguanxidewanbiyeshiduirenjiaoda dexinlizhuangtaisunhai。

 danshi，guangzhoushiweiweianxinliyiyuandezixunguwenyudonghuijuede，jiaruzishendejiatingguanxibijiaojiankang，neimayigerenjiujiaoweirongyirenketichufenshoudekeguanshishi，bingjiaoweikuaidizaicichuangjianxindehunyinguanxi，danjiaruzishendejiatingguanxiyouyixienanti，neimayigerenjiuwufajiejuetichufenshoudekeguanshishi。

 “zuipubiandezhuangkuangbianshi，benlailejieyichangqinggangaigaoyiduanluo，danyiranyongyixiefeilixingxingweidefangfapinlemingjiuchanbuqing，rangzishentongchu，yeranglingyifangshangxin，danbianshibutichufenshou。”yudonghuishuo，“zheileiqingkuang，changchangshiyouyuzheiciqingganjiazazheguoduodeyiwang。”

 tabiaoshushuo，jiankangjiatingzhangdaledexiaohai，tamenchuduixiangshi，shijizijiertan，tichufenshouyedabufenzhuyaoshizishenheqinglvliangrendeshier，zheijiubijiaohaojiejue。keshi，bujiankangjiatingzhangdaledexiaohai，tamenchuduixiangshi，budanshijizijiertan，yeshiweibabamamaertan。zheiyangyilai，tichufenshoujiuyuelaiyuehenbubian。

 liruyigenvhai，tafuqinjinglidisanzhe，mamababafuqinshifennaonu，bingqiezongduiguinvjiangfuqindeshuoxianhua。nvhaierzhangdayihou，feichangrongyibamamababafuqindenaonuxintaiqianyidaozishendeguanlianzhong，yinciwuyuanwugudiduinanpengyoufahuo。dangfenshoudeshihou，beiaideren,suirantayelejieciciqingganzaoyiwukejiuyaole，dantayiranyaojiuchanbuqing，zheijiuhaoxiangtimuqinduifufuqinyiyang，tayaoduifunanpengyou，jiusuannanpengyoubingmeiyoudisanzhe。

 yaojiejuezheileinanti，yudonghuishuo，taxiaixuanyongyiduiyidexinliju，jikangfushiheqiuzhuzhechixuzhuanhuanrenwujiaose，shiyanqiuzhuzherichangshenghuodezheixiezhongyaorenwu，bingrangqiuzhuzhejinxingduiershiganqingdedaobie，yezuihoujinxingduiyunanpengyouqinggandedaobie。

shili：huijuexingshenghuo，yehuijueliyi

 28suideyepianshenxianlehunyinpolie，laogongzhangweiyaohetaliyi，tabutongyi。dantazaoyiyinianduobutongyihelaogongxingshenghuole，yicilaogongqinmijiechutashi，tanaizhiyijiaobatacongchuangbiantilexialai。

 buyuanhelaogongxingshenghuoshizhenshidetihui，buyuanhelaogongliyiyeshizhenshideniantou，yepianmeifajiejuezishenxinlidezuoyouweinanchujing，chucizhiwailaogongyouweixieyaozijin，yincitapobudeyilaikanxinliyisheng。

 jiyepiandiyicizuoxinlifudaoshi，yudonghuihaifajueledaliangdenanti。yepiandasandeqingkuangxia，aishangleyigexiongfanbinghetatongjushenghuo。talejienanpengyousharen，suirannanpengyouduitahenculu，taqueyiranganjue，jinyouzaitashenpang，tacaikeyixunzhaoguishugan。danshitongjushenghuoyinianhou，tananpengyoubeizhuabingbeipansixing。

 zhei2cikanshangquyixieguaiyideganqing，xianeryijiandouheyepiandeershilijingyouguanxi。zaitasansuideqingkuangxia，tadebabamamaliyi，cihouyaowuyinxun，buqingchulaidaonaer。yepiancengyiduwenmuqin，babaqunalile。danyitingjianzheigewenti，muqinbianhuimata、data，hedetacongcihaipazaimuqinyanqiantanfuqin。

 erqie，fuqinliquhou，muqinmeizaihun，lianggerenyizhibulibuqi。muqinshuo，tameiyouzaihunrenshiyouyubuyuanjiyepianzhaoyigehouba。tahaiduiyepianshuo，fuqinwangwangliquzheiyijia，shiyouyutataoyanguinv。dengguinvchushihou，tatexianglaopozaizaoyigedaerzi，danyouyujihuashengyuzhengcexianxingzhengce，zheiziranshibutaikenengde。yinci ，fuqinliquzheiyijiazhong，quzhaoleciwaiyigenvren。

 “muqinyiqiedoushiweilegenghaodiwozhen，wozongganjueqianmuqinxuduo，yinci laoxiangpeichangmuqin，shifentingtadehua。”yepianshuo。queshi，shangnaxiegaoxiaoshimuqinfenpeide。biyehouhou，yeshizaimuqindetiyixia，tagandaoshenzhengongzuo。

 ganglaiguangzhoushidediyinian，yepiandegongzuozhonghenbuwending，tayinianneihuanlebagegongzuozhong，meiyicidoushiyouyucaiyinanshangsihuoyixingpengyouduitaxinhuaibugui。diernian，taxiangguoduanrenmingba，caizaiyijiagangziqiyequyuwending。danchaochutadeyuliao，queshiyouyixingpengyouduitakaiyixietaiguodewanxiaohua，danbingmeiyousheizhenshisaoraota。

 quyuwendinghou，tabamuqinshoudaoguangzhoushiyiqishenghuo。meiduojiu，muqinjiukanhaoletadeyixingpengyouzhangwei，bingbizhetahezhangweiwanhun。zhangweishishanren，bingqiefeichangxihuanyepian，danyepianduitameiyoushenmeganjue，jinjinweilegenghaodirangmuqinkaixin，bingqiejuede“muqinkannanrenhaowuyiwenbiwomuguanghao”，yincizai04nianjiageilezhangwei。

 wanhunmeiduojiu，yepianjiufajue，taqueshimeifajienayuzhangweixingshenghuo，“queshishimeiyouyidianjuede”，erzhangweinaoleyiduanshijianhouyepobudeyijienaletadexieyishu：buxingshenghuo，danxianghuzhaoliao。“tashihuhuan，tajiwoyumamachushizhude，woyumamaqingxitadeyirisancanhepingshijiawuhuo。”yepianshuo。

 beipianaidedouyoushiwukong，bushangsanshisuidezhangweibutaikenengchengshoumeiyouxingdehunyinshenghuo，tashiyiwangzhaoqitanvxing，danyepianyifajuejixiangbianhuinaogefantianfudi。zuizhong，zhangweimingquetichuliyi，danyepianquebutongyi。zhangweichajuezijiquandoubukeyizuo，manmandelebijiaoyanzhongdeyouyuzheng。tajingshiyepianshuo，tashiqukanxinliyisheng，buranhuoxunayitiantahuizijin。

pouxi：zaiqianyishizhongzuishenchulejiehuida

 fushangdebabamamashiwomenzuoyixieshierduifulingyifangbabamama，erqiehuixiangdajiachuandiyixieduiyixingpengyoudehaipa。suirandajiabennengfanyingshanglejie，neiyangzuobudui，danweilegenghaodibiaomingduihezishenyiqishenghuodebabamamadezhongshi，dajiahuibipozishenrenketa(ta)dejianjie，bingbazheileijianjiesongdaozishendelianaizhongqu。yepiandeshilihendianxingxingdizuinengtixianzheiyidian。

 “yepianjiageimuqinzhongyidenanren，shiguinvzaitimuqintanlianai。”yudonghuishuo，“keshitabutaikenengweifanzishendezhenzhengtihui，yinci shishishangmeifazhenshitimuqintanlianai。zheiyidianzailiyishangyezuinengtixianchuqu，tabuyuanhelaogongliyi，shijishangshiduimuqinderenke，ertadexinlingshenchushijishanglejiegaiwanbizheicihunyinshenghuo。”a

erqie，dajiazaiqianyishizhongzuishenchudoulejie，shiqingdaodishiruheyihuishier。

 yinci ，beiaideyoushiwukong,suiranmuqinershinianruyiridiweiguinvchuanditadeyishi，eryepianyezhuyaobiaoxiandehenjianxinzheileiyishi，keshiyidanzaicuimianzhuangtaixia，rangtashiyanbabamamaderenwujiaoseshi，“tamen”huiquanzidongjiangchushiqing。erdangbazangzaizaiqianyishizhongzuishenchudeshiqingshuochulaihou，yizhijiudabufenchenggongleyidaban。