放下爱情的神话 爱是流动的吗？

 aishangzenyangderen？duinilaijiang，zheishijieshangzhiyouyigerenshijizhide，bingqiejinduinilaijiangshijizhide。neimeaishangtaderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishiliudongdedewenzhangba。

huanjuhuashuo，yiqieyigeren，doushiyouqijizhidemubiao，bingqiezhiyouyige。

——柏拉图

 nianqingdeshihou，tamenzhuzaiyixiepojiudediqu，jinyougonggongweishengjian，haozang，ertayoujiepizheng。yinci，tayaoniaoniaoshi，henshucitahuikaileyilianglanche，songtadaoduoshaogongliwaidewuxingjijiudianquniaoniao。

zheishiwotingjiandezuilanmandeaiqingxiaogushizhiyi。

 suizhezherucilanmande，shitamenduixianghudezaiyi。taganjue，tashishijiezuibaoguide，tabiquanbunvxingdoumei，aishiliudongde，suirantawaimaoshijishanghenyiban。taganjue，zishenzhizaihutayiren，youtayirenjiukeyile。

shubuzhi，neiyangdeaiqingxiaogushiyehuiwanbi。

danshi，jiusuangaoyiduanluo，tahuanshiganjue，tazaitaxinlishidutede，ertaduitadezhangwo，tazaitaxinliyerengshidutede。

neiyangdeganqing，tingshanglaizhenhaoxiangshenhuachuanshuo。buwanmeideshi，tagaoyiduanluo。

它为什么会完毕?

shiderenshengjingjie，hezuishaoderenshengjingjie，jingchangkanqilaishiyiyangde。

ganqingzhongshiderenshengjingjie，shiheyi，erzuishaoderenshengjingjie，aishangzenyangderen？shihaoxiangheyi。

zheiyiganqing，shijishangrengchuzaizuishaodehuanjie——haoxiangheyi。

 zhenshideheyi，jiushiniwanquanlejielezishen，yewanquanlejielelingyifang。nixiangaoqingchu，niliangshi2gebuyiyangderen，dandajiazaizhangqidejiaowangzhongsiyanglexianghu，huranyouneibandeyishunjianchuxian——dajiayudaolexianghudexin。neiyangdeshikeyizaichansheng，zuizhongdajialianggerendejingshenshizhixiangrongzaiyiqi，liangrenyouruyigeren。shubuzhi，dajialianggerendejingshenshizhizijuexingrengrancunyou。

 haoxiangheyi，jiushinijiburenshiziji，doubuzhangwolingyifang，nihuozaichuxianhuanjueli，nixiangxianglingyifangshiyigeshenmeyangderen，nijiangzheixiangxiangtaozailingyifangdeshenshang，lingyifanghaoxianghaijienale，yinci，nijuede，dajialiangrenshiheyide。

zheileiheyi，shijishangshizhizainidexiangxiangli，niyagenmeijiandaolingyifangdezhenzhengcunyou，niyemeijiandaozishendezhenzhengcunyou。

 lirutaduitayizailiao，“nishiwoxinzhongdemeilanni”。meilannishixiaoshuomingzhu《luanshijiaren》zhongdejiaose，wenrouxianhuiyebuquewanqiang。dantaganjuezishenbingbushi，yinciyizaigaosuta，“wobushinidemeilanni”。ertazaicijianchibuxieshuo，“nijiushiwodemeilanni，woruciaini，wokeyiweinizuoyiqie”。

 “wokeyiweinizuoyiqie”，taqueshiyeshineiyangzuode。zheiyiganqingwangwangwanbi，shiyintajuedetayiduxiangliquta，yincitabengkuile。jiranaibuhuiyoule，“wokeyiweinizuoyiqie”zheiyidianjiukeyimanxialaile。

 wojuedehenduorenhuiguanxinzai“wokeyiweinizuoyiqie”shang，keshiwodecezhongdianzeshi，tayizaijianchibuxieshuo“nishiwoxinzhongdemeilanni”，suirantayizailiaobingbushi，tahuanshizheibanjianchibuxie。

 zheileijianchibuxie，jiushitajiangzishendanaozhongdewanmeinvxingdehuanxiang，touyingdaotadeshenshang，suihouyi“wokeyiweinizuoyiqie”defangfaquaita，keshi，tadaodishiyigenaxiedenvxing，tabingbuzhenshizhangwo。

 naizhi，taweijuzhangwo，youyuyidanlejiele，jiufajuetaqueshibingbushimeilanni，yincihuanxianghuimie，xuwupiaomiaodeheyiganyecuihuile。

 yongjingshenfenxidezhuanyemingcieryan，zheileixinlizhuangtaikechengzuo“shichabie”，jiwokanbujianwoyunizhongjianyoushenmebutong，yekanbujianwoyunidexiangxiangyoushenmebutong。“shichabie”shiyizhongxinlifangyu，fangyulideshiyiqianganshouguodebijiaoyanzhongdeyouerruyuanjiaolv，jibeimuqinpaoxiadekongbugongzuojingyan。

 yongshiqinghuayiyixiedeyuyaneryan，congcizhihoudeweimeiaiqing，shizaizhaoxunyizhongzhengshi：wohaizainixinlishiduyiwuerde，ruciyilai，jiuzhengshilewohaizaizheiyiquanshijieshiduyiwuerde。

 yibanshijiyiyideweimeiaiqingdemeilidongrenzhichu，yexujiuzaizheizhongganjueli——niduiwodesinian，nenggouzhengshiwocunzaishiyoushiyongjiazhide。

 zaixiaoshuoji《shengmingzhongbunengchengshouzhiqing》zhong，aishangtaderen,nvzhurenwengtelishaweijumuqinjitadexunjie：biejiangnidecunyouneimadanghuishi，suirannishimeinv，danniyutarenmeiyoushenmeliangzhong，quanbuderoutiquanshiyiyangde，bingqieshikezengde。