狭路相逢勇者胜 爱是流动的吗？

 aishangzenyangderen？tanlianairutongyizuoguodumuqiao，xiabianshiyitiaomingjiao“sheiyongxinsheijiushudiao”dejianghe，zuoluoyuqiaoliangbiandeyinanyinvzaixiadaoshangxiangyu，xianghuzhijianjinxingyifanzhoumidishitan，douxiangxianlingyifangyibubata(ta)jixiaqiaoqu。weiciweizhulizijin，tanlianaijiuyongyoushuying。neimeaishangtaderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishiliudongdedewenzhangba。

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shenmejiaojuecetanlianaishuyingdeshouyaotiaojianni?

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yingyong，shidedao tanlianaishuyingdeshouyaotiaojian。yuanjialuzhai，bidingshiduirichangshenghuogengyoudanliangdeyifanghuosheng。

 yuanjialuzhaiyongzhesheng，tingshanglaizheihaoxianggenchuduixiangmeiyouyiqieguanlian，shijishang，guanliankebianda。jiaru“yingyongdenvshi”budahaolejie，zhuanhuancheng“neixinqiangdaderendenvshi”jiuxinglejieduole。

 “neixinqiangdaderen”bingbingbushiyigelilundefanchou。rendexinlizishizhizhongshimianruanerchiqingde，jiarujiang“qiangjing”lejiechenglengmowuqing，richangshenghuobianshiqushijiyiyi。“qiangjing”zhideshirendechengshouli，chengshouligaodenvshigenghuidiaojiezishendexinlizhuangtai，chuxianyiwaizhuangkuang，keyizaizuiduanqineineidiaojiehuidandingcongrongdeqingkuang，tashi“neixinqiangdaderen”zhedeyoudian。

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 jiaruyigenvrenzijuedezishenhenchuse，shiyigeneixinqiangdaderenderen，zailianaizhongquelvlvcuobai，beinanshidichu，meirenxiangyaohetachuduixiang，neiganghaobiaomingletabuzuchuse，nantixuduo 。nanshiburongyiyouyuyigenvrenyouguoduoyoushihuijueta，zongshiyouyuyigenvrenyouguoduowentierbuyuanyihetachuduixiang。yiyangshirenmen，douqidaizishenkeyiriyijingjin，bianchenggengqiangderenmen。jiaruqinglvbizishenchuse，neimabianjiabeinulizhuishangta(ta)，tashichangxiandezuowei。

 aishangtaderen,zailianaizhong，weiqudechenggongeryingyongyixiefangfa，tashiwukefeiyide，danyiqiezuankongziquanshiyoufengxianxingde。zhiyouduirichangshenghuochongmanledanliang，caikeyijinilvzhanlvbai，baizhanbaisheng。yuanjialuzhaiyongzhesheng，zaiyiqiechangdi，yaoshiyoujiaozhan，zheijiushijibendinglv。