ruhelianaini?zhuiruqingwangderenyizhiqipanshishikekedounengkandaoxinyideren,shubuzhiyiguolianzheileitanlianaifangfashienaiderenbukeyibaitouxielaozaiyiqi,rutongneishougechangde“dianhuazairoumei,fachuanzhenzaikuanwei,yebunengyingfubukeyibaojinnidemanzhang”,shide,yiguolianhenjianxin,bixubaituoxuduo nandiancaikeyizuihoulaidaoyiqi。xiabianshiwohuizongdeyiguolianzonghuipengdaodeshidanandian,baituolezheishidaonandian,yiguolianhuanshiyouhengaodequdechenggonggailvde。neimenvshenglianaijiqiaoyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanqidailianaidewenzhangba。
1、没有安全感
qidailianai,kanguo10cishoujile,nihuanshimeiyoufuxin。nizainali、heshei、zaiganma?bujiujujueletarendehaoxin,querenbuzhuxiang,nishenpangdeyingyingyanyan,yiruwoshenpangdehuacaoshumuma?
2、孤独
yigerenbugudu,xiangnianyigerencaigudu。nijuede,lai,baoyibao。yinciwojiangzishenguozaibeiwoli,bishangyanjing,ng,baoyibao。yigerenlizaixingkongxiashi,ninengtaitoukanyueerma?
3、共同话题
jiaruliangrenzaiyiqi,liangrendexiangchuquanhuironghexianghudeshejiaoquan,huatitaolunyongyuandouzaishengji。ruhelianaini?erbuzaiyiqideliangren,duixianghushenpangdeziranhuanjingdoushihuiyinshengshuermanmansangshixingquaihao,jianjiandide,nengshuodehuajinyouliefengde‘gujini’。wohaizaiqinfenzhaohuatiliaotianni,bubifuxinshuo‘e、ng、hao’lehaome?
4、间距产生误解
woxiaorongmanmiandifaxinxirangnijiangbujiudeyouqudeshi,nigeledabantianshuo‘o’,woyebuzhidaoniyizhizaimangdema,suoyiwoshengqile。nifalailebatiaoduanxiaoxi2gedianhuayinweiwomeihui,naonudeaoaoaozhijiao,jishini,shoujishangdiaozhendongledema。shijishangdajiadoulejielingyifangwodecuode,danxintailaila,zongbixufaxiede。
5、间距出现幻觉
qishiwoyixiexiaoxurongba,xiangpianyoushixiumeilequyandaicaijinimen;shijishangniyixiexiaoziao,pingdingledeshierjiurenweizishenyidingdui。weilegenghaodibuyuanqianlideaizheni,wojubujieshoushenpangyiqieshuonibutaihaodeguandian,quandouwanghaodefangweixiang。nishiba?shijishangdajiadoubingbushilingyifangxiangxiangdeneibanhao……
6、无法捕获另一方最真正的信息内容
qishiwomeishengqi,nizhendele;wohaizaixiaoni,nikanbujianba;wohenshangxinni,huaizheshoujishangkujuanleshuiguoyouxingguolai,niyizhizaimangma?
7、善良的谎言
woqiaqiaoheshushidenanhaiziqukandianyingle,xiangxiangxiang,gennishuohenvshengqude。niduziyirenlaidaodajiayuehaoyaoyiqiqudediqu,chiyizaisan,duiwoshuoninadoumeiqu。bukenranglingyifangduosikao,queyouyuyoushihoudecuxindayi,ranglingyifangxiangdedaliang。
8、远水不救近火
wozheilixiadayu,laisongsandeshitongxuemendezhizi;woyongcanmeidaiqianle,laijiuchangdeshihaoyou。yuanlainibuzuoshengshiyouyunibingle,kewozaiyoulv,yebukeyizainipangbianduanyibeishui。
9、信任感
renxinnance,hekuangdajiahaigezhewanshuiqianshan。nishizhongmeifalejiewoweishenmebixunongnongbiaodaaiyi,rutongwoshizhongbuqingchuniweishenmenenggouneibanqingqingdideshuomingqingyi。rengranbuzhidaoshangyikehaiyaneryouxindeni,shifouhuiheshihuransilexinyaosheqini?
10、信心
wokandaoshenpangyiduiyiduide,yiqi……yiqi……meibiezhujiuduizaidixingtuzhixianshangdenishuapiqi,shijishangshiyaotingnidejili,xiangtingyitingnidekuanwei,nideyigedianhuajiunengyaowoshuxin。kehuoxuzhenghaonishoudaopenyouyidilianfenshouqingtudedianhua,neimafeichangrongyijiubazijidaidaolexi,wuyidemaiyuanshiliaobuji。
youshixiazhetengyixia,zhiweilegenghaodizhengshizishendebiyaoxing。neizhiminganjibenshangdegaoloudashazhixuyaoduoyashangyigentoufadejingzhong,huoxujiubengkuile。
zongjie:nvshenglianaijiqiaoyounaxie?suiranyiguoliancunyouzhezheimeduodenandian,keshirengranyouxierenzuihouzoulaidaoyiqi,yinci bubiyizhibeishenpangyidilianfenshoudeshiliweihai。jirantiaoxuanleyiguolianjiuxuyaojizijidetiaoxuanchengdan,haohaodiyunyingdajiadeganqing,yiguolianyiyangnenggouhenpiaoliang!
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