恋爱和婚姻的区别是什么呢？所有的男人都花心

 lianaihunyinjiatingyoushenme？nanrenxihuantoukanmeinvshiyiqiezhengchangde，danyigejingdikanjiudezhuyile。neimelianaihehunyindequbieyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaihunyindewenzhangba。

xuduo nanshengdoulanqing，zuixianzhudezhuyaobiaoxianshi，jianlemeilidenvren，shuangyanjiuzhizhidikanjianren

 duinanshengeryan，jibian shenpangshouzheyiweinianqingpiaoliangdexiaojiaoqi，youshihuanshibuyouzizhufeijinxinsichupengbiedenvshi，nanshengdezheileinannengkeguidemingxianxingxingfen，bujinweinvxingderongmaosuoxiyinzhu。

 xuduo qingkuangxia，duinanshengeryanzuizhongyaodetongchangshishenmigan，nanshengtongchangbeizheileiduishenmigandeqipansuoposhi，youshihoujinguanxinjiejiaodenvshiyaoyuanburuzishendelaopo，danzhishiyouyutayoubumingxing，yinci judadixiyinzhuletamendezhuanzhuli。jinguanzuihoubuyidingfazhanqushidaoroutiguanxi，keshiweiciweixiangxiangdezhuti，zuoyixiechixinwangxiang，zheizhenduizaixianshishenghuozhongdehaolaogongeryanyeshijingchangchuxiandeshi。

 nanshengyouyizhongguangfanxinlizhuangtai，xifuyizhitarendehao。zaixianshishenghuozhong，dabufennanshengdoushiyouxiangjindeganshou。guigenjiedi，guanjianyuxialiehaoduogeyaosuxiangguan。

(1)距离产生美

 jiehunyihou，fufubiciwuhuabushuo，shijianyijiu，xianghujiandeshenmigansuizhemanmanxiaotui。lianaihunyinjiatingyoushenme？fanguolai，kanbiedeyixingpengyou，jiuyuzishenjiehunqiankanxifuyiyang，chongmanlehaoqixin、shenmigan。

(2)赏析视角差别

 zhangfuziwoxinshangdexifuheshangxibiedeyixingpengyou，erzhesuocaiyongdeshijiaoshichedibuyiyangde。qianmianyizhongshilizaizhangfudeshijiao，zongqidaizishendexifuqiaruqifen，erkanbiedeyixingpengyou，zexiangduilaishuoduolexiebaorong，yanliyejiuduolexieyoushi，shaolehenduoquexian。

(3)xinlizhuangtaibuyiyang

 hunneichuguiyixingjiaowangjiaowangshi，tongchanghuiqipanlingyifangdexinrengan、haogandushenzhizhiai，yincixianghufengcheng，bingyouxinyangaizishenbugoudeyimian，jinkenengzhanxianzishenchusedeyimian。erjiehunhouhunyinshenghuo，xianghububiyangai，tongchangbianhuizhikandaolingyifangdequexian，erhushiqiyoushi。

(4)同性相斥

hunneichuguiyubiedeyixingpengyouxiangchupeng，zuijichudeshinanhaihenvhaijiandehuxiangxiyinzhu，tashiyizhongbennengfanying。

 suirannanshengtianxinglanqing，danyaoshicaozongdehao，yebushineimafeichangrongyiwaiyude。youqishizaixialiehaoduogenanshengfeichangrongyiwaiyudejinyaoguantou，yaoshibawole，jiukeyigaohaofangfancuoshi。

(1)nvrenshenghaiziqianhouzuoyou

 youyuzheiyijieduanfurentongchangzigubuxia，yinci yixiewanxingweimindezhangfubianfeichangrongyizhuyaobiaoxianchujiaozaobuan，congerqiaoqiaodexiangbiedeyixingpengyouzhaoxunkuanwei。yinci，huaiyunqidenvrenyaoqinfenyizhiqingxubodong，jinkenengweichibenshendeyouhuoli，tebieshizaiyaoyingyonghaozhunmamayuzhunbabazheileirenwujiaoselaitigaobicideqinggan。

(2)两地分居之后

 ruguoshiyingongzuozhong、hujidengyuanguwukenaiheliangdifenjulianggedifangdehua，weichijinmidelianluoshibukehuoquede。dangdaidelianxifangshigezhonggeyang，xinjian、dianziyouxiang、dianhuadengdounenggouzonghexingyingyong，jinkenengzhiqiqinggandemaifu。ziran，chuantongjierihuoyixiekaixinderizi(rushengchen、jiehunzhounian)shinenganpaishijianhuanju。duiyuyouyufenqimaodunerrenweiyinsudeliangdifenju，zeyunyongjiejuekunnandexintailizhikandai，bukeyiweidiouqi，youyuouqizhiyourangnanshengdichu，rangtamenxunzhaoqinggandehunhouchugui。bingqiezheileiliangdifenjuzhiyoushiyoushihouerwei，youyuyidanliangdifenjubianchengxiguanxing，neimatichufenshoujiufeichangrongyibianchengshijile。

(3)gongzuozhongchanshengbianhuashi，ruzhangfushiye、gongzuozhongcuobaideng

 renshibixugongzuozhongzhaoxunlishenchushidezhichengdianyuhuanlede，yidanzaoyuxiagang、xiaochendejingyu，mianbulebianhuiqingxudangdang，mangranruoshi。jiaruzheishihouwufadedaonvxingqiangdadeguanaiyushiyong，jiufeichangrongyishihunyinpolie，weihaijiazhong，yinernvxingganwanbukeyishuhu。

(4)yingxianglifashenggaibianshi，ruzhangfushengleguan，faguocai

 shuobailebaonuansiyinyu，tashixianeryijiande。zhangfudefazhan，nvxingchukaikaixinyiwai，benshenyehuichuxianwuligan，yineryaoqinfenbagongzuoyalibianchengqudongli，chixuxunzhaofazhan。ganwanbukeyichifuguiqirongdelaodiaozi，youyuzheizhiyoulingnibulaoerhuo，buqiushangjin。yidanzhangfuganjuenibunengtongbushi，jiuhenyoukenenghuiwaiyu，daoshinikuyebuqizuoyong。

(5)jiazhongchanshengbuxingshi

 youneimeyigeshili，yiduifuqiyuanbenenaiyoujia，xiangbudaosansuideguinvhuranyinbingyaowang。jidadeaitongxia，laopoyitiandaowanbaoyuanzhangfumeiyouzhaoguhaoguinv，zheishizhangfubukancuican，zhinengduobi，chumenyinjiu、duqian，yebugui，zhidaoyongyouhunwailian，qijiaerqu。yinci ，dangxiangjinzhuangkuangchanshengshi，chize、baoyuan、yuanhen，quanshiwujiyushide，jinyoupingjing、jijizhudong、xianghushengbaidexinlizhuangtaicaikeyiyingduibeiju。zheiyidianzhenduijiaoweiqingxubuwendingdelaopo，tebieshizaitebiezhuyi。

(6)yupopoyoufenqi，lingzhangfushouzuwucuoshi

 poxizhijianbuhejingchanghuiqinjihunyinshenghuo。zheizhenduizhangfushiyigepofanzadenanti。dangtameifajiejuedeqingkuangxia，bianhuiziganduoluo，duziyirentaochu。

 ciwai，zhenduinanshengdelanqing，nvxingbubitaibulizhi，yifangkuozhangjushi。naonuyishinvxingshiqulizhi，congnanshengdebabamamaneiliyizhinaodaotadeqiye，naodetadepenyou、pengyou、lingdao、shuxiawurenbuxiao，kenengzaineiyangdejiquanbuningzhong，nenggoujuedeyizhongkuaile。danzhihou，yehenyoukenengjiangyiwusuoyou，jilao，yanzhiyoulibuqujueyushengda。

 bubijiejibaofu。shuobaileni“hua”yinweiwo“hua”。niyouyigelianren，wozhaoyidapintou。jilao，yongsunhaizishenquchufatarenshizuiyumeide。

 bubituoleixiaohai。yidingyaozaiyixiaohai，buyaozaixiaohaiyanqianbannongshifeididouchunanshengdebingbushi，rangxiaohaiqujinifentan，neiyang，jihuiweihailexiaohaidekeye、gongzuozhongjiqifazhanqiantu，youhuirangxiaohaijiaonendexinyinchengshoubuzhuerbiantilinshang。jieguozaocheng nisangshidebudanshinanxing，yeyounidehaizi。jilao，bubi“chengmenshihuo，yangjichiyu”。

 bubiwuyuanwugucaiyi。youdenvxingjinglilehuaxinnanrendemengpianhou，yuelaiyueminganduoyi，bianchengzhangfudeshenying。jilao，lianzishendoumeile，youzennengyouzheyigexiangxidenansheng?

 bubizhida“huyao”。youxierenjiuzheiyang，conglaibujuedewaiyushizijijiananshengdebingbushi，laoshuotalaoshibajiao。zhiyuanwaibiande“huyao”，daguozheiyi“huyao”yougannage“meinvshe”，jieguohuanshikanbudaotamenjiananshengdehunhuijia。

 lianaihehunyindequbieshishenmeni？zuoweiyigenvren，jinyouzhangwohaonanrenfeichangrongyiwaiyudejinyaoguantou，lixingdijiejuenanshengdelanqingnanti，caikeyiweihumeimanxingfudejiazhong。