恋爱理论，世上只有该结婚的感情，没有该结婚的年龄

 lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？jinguanhenduorennvxingdouhenjia，dansheidoutaoyanrenkezishenhenjia。shuohenjiaduobuhaotinga，fangfokanqilaizishenyouqipoqiedeyaoxiangtuixiaochanpinchulai，suihouhaimeiyourenyao，genzhixiaochanpinyiyang。neimelianaineidianshiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaimoheqidewenzhangba。

 shijishangjishirenkeleyouruhe，xiangchujiayounaxiecuo，xiaofuqixiangzhixiangxienenaiaideshenghuosheibuyuanyouzhe，sheixiangyaoyitiandaowanliaodanya。minyaogequshuo：“xiaoxiaozi，zuomendun，kuzhehanzheyaoxifuer，yaoxifuerganshenme?shangdengjianghua，chuidengweiban，zaochenqilaijishuxiaobian。”——nandebuyejiuzheiyidianqiantu，sheiyebuyaoshuoshei。

 zaifengshaofengheabdehunyanshang，xinniangzidepenghuabeilinzhilinqiangzou，xinlangguanfengshaofengduitagonghe，“xiayigewanhunderenyidingjiushini。”linzhilingaoxingdehuazhiluanzhan，kaixindixianchangqiyuanqidainengzaierlingyiliunianjiaren。

 zaoyi39suideta，yiqiandefangtanzhong，zaoyiduihunyinshenghuozheileihuatitaolunshifenshenzhong，“zhiqianyeyouyixieganqingfangan，lirusanshisuiwoyidingyaojiaren，zhihouyoubianchenglesanshiwusuiwoyidingyaojiaren。rujin，wohaihaipahaiyounaxiesheqiule。”

 shijieshangyixieshiershiyizhishengweimudide，lirutiyubisai。suirandajiayizaishengchengpinbojingshenshixiangshouguocheng，danruguobufenlichulaichengji，paigezuoci，ruomeileshichangjingzhenghezhuiqiu，bisaiyejiushiqutasuoyunhandefengcai。kerenshengdaoluyeyouyixieshiershimeifapaichulaichengjide，liruwanhunhuoshibuxiangjiehun，nayigegengqiangnayigegengbutaihao，huoshizaowanhunhewanwanhun，nayigeshiqudechenggong，nayigesuanzuobuchenggong，quanshitaibenrendetiaoxuan，ermeishenmegudingbudongguifan。

 danshizaishijizhong，neileinvxinglaidaonianjijiuyingdangwanhun，buranjiuhuidiaojiameiyourenyaodeguannianxiangguihunyibanliudang，rangxuduo nvshengzaiqingganzhongchongmanlejiaolvqingxu。tamenyizhizaidanyou，tamenyizhiyaoxiangyicixingdequdechenggong，qidaizishennenggouxunzhaoyigelixianghuadenansheng，lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？suihoutayekeyijienazishen，liehuoxiongxin3，touruzuishaodechengbenerhuodegenggaodejingjixiaoyi。

 wojianguoguoduonvhaierzaigaitanlianaideqingkuangxiabuxiangyouganqing，zhidianjizheheshinengwanhun;huoshichedibuzaiyiqingganshibushihemu，zaiyilingyifangdebiaozhunshibushihezishendapei;yeyoudebeibabamamaposhizheheyigezishenchediwuganjuederenzouruhunyinshenghuo，suihouyouchengbuxiaqu。

 jiujingyingdangzenyangkandaiaiqingyuhunyindeguanlian，wohenzantongtiaoyuexingsiwei、qingshanggaodelinzhilinshuoguodeyijuhua：“shishangzhiyougaiwanhundeqinggan，meiyougaiwanhundenianji。”

shide，nenggouhenjia，danwanhunshishishangzuiweibukeyijiangjiudeshier，zuibuyinggaiyinianjilaiquhuajihunhedanshendejiexian。

 gaitanlianaideqingkuangxiajiuhaohaolianai。tanlianaibujinshiweilegenghaodiwanhun，zhenzhengdeaiqingkaiqiyishanmen，menhoushiyigegengweifengfuduocaihehongweidequanqiu。tanlianaijinjinmeiyigerenshengmingzhongxiangshiwenhegequneibandewupin，yingdangbeixiangyouheganshoudexingfu。

 tashirenshengdaoluhenzhongyaodeyike，sheidoubukeyiwuguduinishuoweiganqingzhanzhuannanmianshiyizhongnaxiedejuede，sheidoubukeyitidainilaipinweizuiqingxiangdeqingxu，youyujinyouganqingcaikeyijiniyouzhemeiguihongsedeshuangyan。ganqing，neishishijieshangdewupin。jibian zuizhongnanguoshouwei，dantongchuyeshiganqingzuimeilidongrendeyibufena。

 meiyigerendouyingdangzhishaozhenzhengdeaiyici。rutongyuershujishangshuo，shaonianertongzaizoudongyiqian，yingdanglijingyigepadehuanjie，zheiduiduanlianshaonianertongjianglaidejianshenyundonglinghuoxinghenyouyichu。cengjingaiguoyici，caihuiduirenshengdaoluyougengkegumingxindelejie，yecaihuirangrenshengdaoluyinererfengfuduocai。quelezheiyikuai，yizhihuizaiduogeshijinhouduijiemouyichengzhangjieduandeqingkuangxiachuxianmangdian。

 youyizhonghunwailiandewentibianshiyouderenmeiyoutanlianaiguojiujielehun，meiyouganshouguojiqingfeiyangdejuede，yidanzaijiehunhouzaoshouleyizhongxinxiandeqingganfangshi，huixiangbawozhuyigendaocaoyiyangjinjinbawozhu。

 renherendouqidaizishendeganqingnengjieguoshi，jinjinshifoukeyishilaidaohunyinshenghuoneiyibubingbingbushiyouyigerendezhuguanxingxinnianweiqianyi，neiyeshibixushimende。

 yiqianbeigangmeichengzuohen“henjia”dedaxiaogupoyangqianhua，jinglijigebuchenggongdeganqing，zheirangtayidushifenxinrusihui，yibuqipanhunyinshenghuo，jiergangkaishixiulianzishengexinghua，“zongzhiyigerenshenghuoyehenxingfu，wonengzishenzhaoguhaoziji，youdulidejingjifazhanligongzuonengli，youshihoudanshenyeshifeichanghaodetiaoxuan。”

 ganqingzhongdecuozhe，queshihuijiaorenhuiyoupibeizhigan。youyigexiangqinyuehuiyizhibuchenggongdepenyoushuo，“yixiangqiyeyaozaiduhuazhuangdaban，miandaiweixiaozuozheyiweinanxingyanqian，wen，laoxianshengninhao，laoxianshengzhuzainaer，laoxianshenggongzuozhongmanghenxian，laoxianshengsuipianshijiandouyoushenmexihao，zhenshijiujiaorenbenkui。”yibianyibian，fanfucongmanhuaixiwangdaoxinhandequanguocheng，jianzhibixuqiangjingdexinlizhuangtaizhichengdian。

 yangqianhuayeshineiyang，zheiyiyizhishiyanshashadedexijupianpinpaixingxiangdenvxing，neixinshijishanggengjiabijiaominganhemiaotiao。taganjuerenshengdaolumoguoyucile，yebuzaiyishifoukeyishipengdaozhenzhengdeaiqing。rangzishenyibufushangdefangfabianshiyibuquqidai。

 danshituran，dingzigaojiuchuxianle。gangkaishisheidoubuganxiangxintamenshiyongxinde，nvdananxiao，bulunshinianjihuanshizhimingduquanshizheiban。dayuetamenzijiyeshineimexiangde，“zhizhongyelijingxuduoquzhe，dajiarangwomendegongzuoyali，yerangwomencengjingyiduhuiganjuebupingheng，huihusiluanxiang。”

 lianaineidianshi,nengjianchibuxiechulai，zhizhizuizhongzouruhunyinshenghuoshengdian，dingzigaoduiyangqianhuadehaozibubishuo，gengguanjiandeshi，yangqianhuabiaoming，“tajilewonengwanhundejuede，zhiqianconglaimeiyouguo!”tayebuzhidaoshizenmehuishi，yuanxianyagenbujiehunderen，huranhenxiangjiehunle，youxierenwen，dingzigaoyounaxiedefengcaigenggaileta，tayoudianeryuntouyunnaodeshuo：“wobuzhidao。wojuedetashishangtianfudeyuanfen，jiranlaila，jiuqiehetianshi。”

 shuodeduixuanzhiyouxuan。zheileibeiyigerenchudong，naizhigenggaiyuanlaideqingyi，xiangyaoyiqiezhongshengyuzhibaitouxielaodetihui，nenggoushuochengmingmingzhongdefenpei，shitianshi，haikeyichengzuoshidajiazongsuanzairenhaimangmangpengdaolezishenyiqianyishideneilingyiban，neileixiangqingwenpengdaosheyueyiyangdezhenhanrenxin。

zixiaxianzisichuzhaoxunnengchouchulaitabaodaoderen，tashiyiduanhunyuandedakai，yeshiyaoxiangzaiyiqiderenyongyuzhongfengdeanyu。

 jiujingyingdangjiageinaxiederen，tashixuduo nvxingdouguanzhudenanti。danzheigewentishijishangmeiyoudaan，huoxuqueshikandaoneirenjiuhuizhidao，ganqingzaizishenshoushangbawo，yuanfenguirulaotianyefangancehua。lianaililun,buguanzenyang，zongyaojianchixinnian，bubicouhejiangjiu，qinfenquai，yongxinqushenghuo——hunyuanshishangtiananpaidelu，nijinjinchengdanzouyiwang。