恋爱理论，姑娘凭什么要陪男人吃苦

 lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？lejieyigejiaoshuimitaodenvhai，kanqilaitianrandai，xingqingdanchunxingcongming，banshiyongxinqinfen，shigeshizudemeilideguniang。neimelianaineidianshiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaimoheqidewenzhangba。

 shuimitaoliangnianqiandudaxueshitanleyichanglianai(jinguanshuimitaozishendoushuobuchulaiaitanaxie，kenianqingnvhaideganqingbenbianshimangmugenfengde)，nanpengyoujiashihenbutaihao，danxueshengshidaisheikeyigulvdaoshijinantini，bingqieshuimitaoshikendingdeaiqingzhishang，taneishihoutianqueshirenwei，yaoshiliangrenenai，jiukeyihaoyongdouhenbuhaipale。

 biyehouhoushuimitaogennanpengyouyiqiqulebeijingshi，liangrenzuleyigetongziloudedanrenjian，dongjilengdeshuijiebing，xiatianredesiluzideneilei，kaishileshuimitaorenweidelanman、wennuan、tianmeidetongjushenghuoshenghuo。

 shuimitaofumuduizheiyiduanganqingshifendizhi，yifangmianshishuimitaojiayunanpengyoujiachaoyue2gesheng，jianjuhenyuan，fumubushedeshuimitao，lingyifangmianshinanpengyoujiahenqiong，qienanpengyoudegexinghuabuzuchenwenwanshan，fumubuganxiangxintaweilainengjishuimitaoxingfukuailedeshenghuo。

 danshishuimitaobeizishendeganqingmengmengbiletou，yixinganjuejirandonglexinjiuxuyaoqinfenyiqizouxialai，bukeyisuibiansheqi。takanbuqizheixiezhishiyouyujianju、youyuqiongjiuxuanzelikaideren，gengbuyuanyizishendeganqingbeishijijibai。jinguantayebuyuanbeinifumudeyixiang，keshitajianxin，fumudanyoudezhibuguobianshijingjifazhanhetadexingfukuaile，tayaoqinfengongzuozhengqian，xingfukuailejifumukan。

 shuimitaoshifumudedunv，jiazhongjingjifazhanbiaozhunyesuandeshangxiaokangshenghuo，lianaimoheqiyoushenmeni？zixiaoshouguanlejiaochong，keshiweilegenghaodiweihuzheiyifenganqing，taqueshiganlexuduo qinfen。youyugangdaxuebiye，meiyoushenmegongzuojingyanhedudaozhichu，tagennanpengyoumeigerendexinshuidanshisanqianzuoyou，weilegenghaodijieshenghuaxiao，taduanjuelezishenzuixihuanchidelingshihetianpin，goumaiyifuyeyibumaizhimingpinpai，queyifukuzichuandeqingkuangxiajiulazhenanpengyouqubeijingdongwuyuanhaiwaigou，benlaitaoqianhuaqianruliushuizhihouyeyuelaiyueshengchijianyong，ershiduoniandoumeixuehaojiangjiajingqimiaodebianchengjiangjiadashen。

 neishidetaqueshinenggouweiganqingbuguyiqie，jishijianxin，danyinweiaizhebianganjuezhile，jinjinyoushihoufumutongdianhuabitatichufenshou，tajiuhuiganjueyalifeichangda，gennanpengyouqingtu，yebingbingbushiyaojinanpengyougongzuoyali，jinjinqidainanpengyounengdongtakuanweita，gentashuoyiju：“biehaipa，youwoni，nibushiyigeren。”danshinanpengyoushizhongdoujitayigebuxieyigu、qiaobuqidemuguang，shuoyiju：“dajiaqinrenzhenshiji，bubianshixianwoqiongma!”

 shide，nanpengyoubumingbai，tazhiganjueshuimitaobabamamadedizhishishiji，shibaijinzhuyi，tafanganshuimitaobabamama，yeconglaimeiyouqinfenyiwangtaotamendehuanxi，youyutayoutadezihao，shuimitaobabamamadedizhibianshiduitadefouren，jiranfourenta，neimataweiheyaobieququyueni。danshitaquemeiyouxiangguo，tadebudangzuobashuimitaoyigerenjiazhengzhongjian，shuangxianggongzuoyalijiyachengxingzheta。

 shuimitaogennanpengyouquanshihenyibandedaxuebenkebiye，zairencaibeichudebeijingshiqueshitaipuputongtongle，danshuimitaocongweizhongduanxuexipeixun，meiqianbaopeixunjigou，jiuwangshangzhaoshilijiaochengtongguozixuechaojijineng，meiridouhuiqukanshu、tianbudongneng，jinguanrengranmeiyouzaixinshuishangyouduodatigao，danzuishaotazaiyongxinshenghuo，weilemingtianpinbozhe，taqidainanpengyouyekeyinuliqinfen，yinci，jiujilitaxiabanlegenzishenyiqixuexi，bujixiwangyutayibudengtian，danyidiandianleiji，jianglaijiuhuilingrenganjueyouqidai。kenanpengyounianqingqisheng，meiyouyishidaoshijideburongleguan，tachenniyuwangyou，jibenshangchukaigongzuozhongyiwai，quanbushijiandouhuayouxizhongshang。

 nanrenshibinvxinggengchishude，meiyicishuimitaoganyu，tajiuqifendegentashuo：“ninengbunengwulunwo，gennichuduixiangwoliandayouxidesuiyidoumeilema!”

 shide，tazhiganjueshuimitaozaicaozongtaderensheng，queburongyiqianjiushuimitaoxinlidenanao，taqidaisatuodezuohaoziji，quemeiyouxiangqizishenhaijianfuzheshuimitaodejianglai，queshi，meirenyouzhipeiquanyitanlianaideweiminggengxingaizaolingyigeren，keshiyebubiwangjile，congmingquelianaiguanxiqiniduilingyigerenbianshixingshizhuijiude，zhikaolvdaozishen，congbudonggujilingyifangtihuiderenshipeibushangtanlianaide。

 shuimitaoyunanpengyouneiyangshenghuo2nian，taduizheiyifenganqingdejiqingjiuzaizheili2nianzhongbeiyidiandianhaofei，tadeyiwufangudedanliangyeyidiandiandejianruo，nanpengyouhaoxiangshizhongdouburongyiwanshan，tamenzhongjiandejianjuyuezouyueyuan，liangrenchangchangweilegenghaodishenghuosuosuizhengzhi。

 meiyiciyunanpengyouchanshengfenqishuimitaodoumingxiandejuededaoyizhongwuzhugan，duizheiyifenganqing，yeyoutamendejianglaideshushouwuce。taganjuezishenyulaiyumeiyouliqidikangzheishijile，buzhiyouyushijidejianxin，gengyouyutaganjuezishenshizaigujunzuozhan。

liangrenzaiyiqi，zuizhongyaodeshifengyutongzhou，yigewangzuobianyigewangyoubianzongshiyuelaiyueyuan。

 shuimitaobuzailejiederenyanqianhenbuzizai，ernanpengyouyidaolejiedepenyouyanqianjiushayoujieshi，wangjizijidenvyou，yinci ，meiyicishuimitaopeinanpengyoubaomingcanjiajuhuihuodong，kanjiantayuyiqunrenbeijiuyanhuan，zongganjuezishenshigexiaomianren，juedeshenshendidegudan。

 zhihou，yiciyunanpengyoubaomingcanjiatadeqiyejuhuihuodong，pengyoumendaoluanrangshuimitaochangshouge，danshuimitaozhenshitaihaixiule，wanzhuandehuijue，saolepengyoumendexing。nanpengyouxianchangjiuchenxialelian，duishuimitaoailibuli。

 juhuihuodongjieshuhuijialushang，nanpengyoufabingle，duishuimitaohoudao：“niyejiubukeyiduiwodepengyoumenjiqingdianma，pingchangbingbushitingaishuoaichangdema，yidaowopengyouyanqianjiuweiweisuosuode，neiyangyaowohendiurenniqingchuma?”

 tameiyouchongfenkaolvzishennvyouzishendexingqing，zhiqidainvyoukeyileguandaqi，shitaganjuezaipangrennengyouqingmian，ertaquanbudehaixiuhaoxiangdoubianchengyouyierwei，shitaganjuegangaerqifen。

zhenzhengdeaiqingyihaopin，dangyigerenxinzhongdeaibeihaofeijindeqingkuangxia，zaiqingdudeyigendaocaoyezugoujiangzheiyiduanqingganjikua。

shuimitaomeiyouzhengbian，tayanfanzhengzhi，jinjinjiangguoju：“worenweidajiaqueshibushihele，shifouyingdangtichufenshou?”

 shuimitaozongsuanjianxinzheiyifenqingganbuzhizishenzaijianchibuxiele，nanpengyougangkaishirenweitawanxiao，shuotahaiziqi，jurannatichufenshouweixie，zhihoulejieshuimitaoyongxinyihou，bianyouzhiqianqiuyuanliang，danshi，nvxingjinguanyourouguaduandanzhiduizishenhaishenaizhederen，shubuzhishuimitaozaitaneibiandexinzaoyiqushile，nashizhiqianjiunengwanliude。

 shuimitaoliquchuzufangdeqingkuangxia，baliangrendequanbucunkuandoujiaojilenanpengyou，ta“jingshenchuhu”，jueceyiqiezhongxinkaishi。xiaohuobanmenlejietafenshouzhihou，jingxianglaiwentayuangu，tazhishuochengliangrenbushihe，bianmeiyouzaiduobiaoshu。

 shubuzhi，nanpengyouquegenpenyoushuo，shishuimitaofumuxiantaqiong，bishuimitaogentafenshou，shishuimitaobuyuanyipeitayiqichikunailaoyinci fangqile，taganjuetamendeganqinghuanshishujile“qiancai”erzi。

 queshi，qiancaishitichufenshoudegenbenyuanyin，jiarunanpengyoufuyou，huoxufumuburongyimingxiandizhi，shuimitaoburongyineimajianxin，yebuhuiduinanpengyouyouneimeduoganyu，liangrenzaiyiqidejianglaiyebuhuineimalingrenshiluo。

 keshichukaigenbenyuanyin，lianaineidianshi,tichufenshoudeyagenyaosushisha?jiarunanpengyounengmingbaishuimitaodewukenaihe，nenglejieshuimitaobabamamadedizhi，renzhenqutaotadebabamamahuanxi，renzhengongzuo、qinfen，duoyixietiexin，rangshuimitaojuededaotamenyiqidejianglaiyouqidai，jieguohaihuijixushineiyangma?

 huoxuxiangyazhitalideganqing，youxueyuefenghuajiukeyile，danbiyezhihouliangrendaliangyingduide，shishenghuoheyiwu。zhenshijibaizheiyifenganqingdebingbushiqiancai，shinanpengyoudebunulihebugouai，xiaoqianzheiyifenganqingdebuzhishishenghuo，yeyouliangrenbuyiyangdezhuiqiuwanmeiyuxingqing。

 lianaililun,shizhongbubixiaokanyigenvhaiweileaiyiwufangudedanliang，guanjiansuozainiwubishiyigeduideqishangzheiyifenganqingderen。