挽回咨询：怎么挽回老公拯救婚姻

　　zenmewanhuilaogongzhengjiuhunyin，changchangyoushiyehuizaoshouxueshengdexunqiubangzhu，yingduiposuidehunyin，zenyangxunsudiwanliu，huoxunibixumingbaiyidian，wanliuposuidehunyin，yidingyaoyongqiadangdefangshihefangfacainengrangzijiwanliu，yaoshimeiyouzhaodaozhengquedejutifangfa，budanshixiaofa，fanerhuijiakuainimenzhijiandeganqingwajie。xuehuizhengquedewanjiuhunyin，yongzheiyangdesangefangshijiuxingle。

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　　第一个方式：确立难题与责任所属

　　yigemianlinposuidehunyin，shouxianxunzhaoguanjiancunzaidewenti，caisuanshiwanliudegenbensuozai。ruguowomenbulejienanti，womendoushimeifazhengquewanliude。

　　yiqiewanliuzuixianshizhizhaonanti，yidanzhaodaowenti，womenjiuhuifaxian，wanliubiandegengjiarongyiduole。

　　lirucengjingyouyigexueshengtadehunyinyudaokunnanshiyinweitataiyaoqiangle，laogongganshoubudaoziyidezunyanshiyongjiazhi，zheicaidaozhizhihoutahunhouchugui。

　　keshiwogenjuhexueyuangoutongjiaoliubangtarenshidaozijidecunzaidewenti，wanliuyehuibianderongyiduole。shijishang，dangqizixuehuizunzhonglaogongdeqingkuangxia，laogonghaihuinianjilaopodegenggai，yehuizuochujishidihuiguo，ranhoudianjizhongxinhuidaojiazhong。

　　xingfudehunyinshihuxiangjiushudeyigeguocheng，jiaruyingduihunyinshenghuodenanti，dajiaweinengjishiyongxinganshoucunzaidewenti，dajiahaishiwufaqiadangchuliwenti。

　　jinyoukanjianlebenzhinanti，cainengzhenzhengdezhaodaoheshidejiejuewentidefangshiyufangfa。zaimianduiyichangposuidehunyin，xuyaozuodediyigeliuchengtongchangshishouxianyaoxuehuizhengli，kanyixianimenzhijiandeganqingjiujingchuxianleshenmewenti。

　　erlejiewenti，yidingyaorenzhenpouxiziwoyuairen。dabufennanrenzaihunhoufeichangrongyisongxiezishen，wanglehunyinshenghuodegongkeshisha，youyusongxie，zaochengnantiyulaiyuduo。

　　yincizhongxinhuidaohunyinshenghuodekaiduan，yongxinzhengquezhenglibicizhijiandewentijiushidajiachulihunyinposuidediyidabaowu，ruguonilejiedaolecunzaidewenti，nicaihuidongdequzhengquewanliu。

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　　第二个方式，学会放下抨击，懂得与爱人联接

　　shiduoshaohunyinshenghuodeliekaitongchanglaiyuanyubicizhijianbudongqulianjie。yigeposuidehunyin，tongchangshibicizhijiandeneixinsangshixiangliandequanguocheng。

　　womenyiweilianrenjiushineigezuidongzijideren，danshishijishang，youshihouniyinggaizhidao，nidelingyibanbingfeishenglaijiumingbaini。

　　nixuyaodeshizhangwoyidingdefangshiyuairenlianjie，zheicaishiwomenwanliudeyagenhezhongyao。bingmeiyouxiangliandewanliu，zhongjiubicizhijianzhinengyuelaiyueyuan。

　　zhiyouchongzudelianjie，cainenggourangliangrenneixinyulaiyujin。yinciruguonifaxianhunyinshenghuojijiangmaixiangliekaideqingxingxia，nixuyaolejiezishen，shibushiyuairenyouchongzudelianjie，zheicaishizhenzhengnimenlianggerenhunyinwanhuidedierdayagen。

　　zenmewanhuilaogongzhengjiuhunyin，womengairuhexianglianjie，zuihaodebanfajiushixuehuifangxiaduilianrendepipan，fanershirenzhendiquganshouairendejingshenshijie。

　　shijishang，yingxiangniyuairenlianjiedezhuyaoyuanyinjiushiwomenduilianrenchongmanzhegezhonggeyangpengji，zheileipengjirutongyiduzhuanqiangyiyangzulandajiaduilianrendelijie。

　　wocengzaizhidaohaoduorenkaizhanwanliudeqingkuangxia，fajueyigeshishiheshiqing，niduilianrenyueduopengji，huoxuniliwanliudemudijiuyuelaiyueyuan，weiyounixuehuifangxiaxinlidepipan，fanershiyongxintinglingyifangshijie，lianjiecaihuifasheng。

　　qutiyanlingyifangzaihunyinshenghuozhongsuoxinlideweiquxingshanghai，qutiyanduifangzaihunyinlideshijixuqiu，caijiushinimenjianlilianxidezhuyaofangfahecuoshi。

　　shijishang，haoyidiandewanliubingbushibiaomiannengrangduifanghuijia，haoyidiandewanliushigoujianbicizhijianyingduihunyinshenghuodezixinjiqiniyaoweihunyinshenghuosuozuodegongzuoziwogaibian。

　　ruguonimingbaijianlilianxidebiyaoxing，nihuoxujiuhuimingbai，bubipengji，fanershiwanquantihuidaolingyifangdeneixinshijie，cainengzhenzhengdegaoxiaolvwanliu。