要不要和现任说前任

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一、要不要跟现任说前任的注意事项

1、谈论过去的恋情可以让你的现任更加了解你是怎样的人。

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2、坦诚的对话可以确定信任，鼓励开放的沟通。

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3、和恋人交谈当然不是无话不谈、而要掌握谈话的度。

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二、要不要和现任说前任看看前任对你的表现

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