怎么挽回婚姻破碎的人

　　zenmewanhuihunyinposuideren，hunyinshenghuo，shilianggerengongtongzhideyizhangrichangshenghuozhiwang。danshi，dangganqingchuxianwenti，shenzhimianlinliekaishi，xuduorendouhuixianrumimangyutongkuzhizhong。wanjiuhunyin，juefeiyishi，tabujinjinxuyaoxingdongshangdeqinfen，gengxuyaoqiangdadexinlizhicheng。zuoweiyimingganqingzixunleiyunyinggongzhonghaozhe，wohenqingchufenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，xinlishangdezhunbeidebiyaoxing。jinri，wojuedegendajiashenrufenxiyixia，wanjiuhunyindaodibixuzuohaoshenmexinlishangdezhunbei。

　　一、确立要求和意义，舍弃不切实际的幻想

　　zaiquedingwanjiuhunyinyiqian，nibixuyaoxianwenyixiazijiyigewenti：“weishenmeyaowanliuzheiduanganqing?”zheizhongqingkuangkanqilaijiandan，quezhenhanguanjian。bushaorenzaicikehuixianruhunluandesixuzhong，beiqingxuzuoyou，mangmudexiangwanhui，quebuqingchuzishenzhenzhengdexuqiuheyiyi。

　　shiyouyuhaiaiduifang?shiyouyuxiguanxinglekuaitarendeshenghuo?shiyinweihaizixuyaoyigewanzhengdejiating?huoshiyinweimeixinganqingyuanzijicengjingdetourufuzhidongliu?zheixieyinsudoukenengchengweiniwanjiuhunyindequdongli，danshizhiyouquelizhenzhengdexuqiu，nicainenggoufenshouwanhuideguochengdangzhongbaochiqingxingdetounao。

　　yucitongshi，nixuyaosheqizheixiebuqieshijidehuanxiang。ganqingchuxianwenti，juebushiyichaoyixideshiqing，wanliuyebukenengyicuerjiu。bubixiangxiangtongguoyicizhenzhidejiaotan，huozhezuoyixiebiaomiandegenggai，jiuhuirangduifangmashanghehaoruchu。liru，nibunengzhiwangzhishisongyishuhua，huanjuhuashuoyiju“duibuqi”，jiuhuirangduifangwangdiaolianggerenzhijianjidianxujiudewentisunhai。

　　woyiqianjingliguoyiweizixunzhe，tahelaogongyouyuzhangqideshenghuosuoshizhengzhi，zaochenghunyinpolie。tazaixunzhaowanliubangzhushi，yixinxiangzhezhixulaogongnenghuijia，zijiyuanyizuorenheshi。dantandaotaduiganqingdeqiwangheyaoqiushi，taquexianrulemangran。tongguoshenrujiaoliu，tacaifanyingguolai，zishenzhenzhengxiangyaodeshizhangfudezunzhongyulijie，jiqiyigenenggougongpinggoutongjiaoliudehunyinguanxi。

　　queliyaoqiuheyiyi，nengrangnizaiwanliudeguochengzhongchuxianmingquedefangxiang，buhuichennizaiqingxuxuanwozhong。erfangqilebuqieshijidehuanxiang，zekeyirangniyigengwushidetaiduqumianduikunnan，weiwanjiuhunyindiandingjichu。

　　二、目的在于必须溶解的、是逐渐实现的，要多一点耐心

　　wanjiuhunyinshiyigemanzhangmanzhangdeguocheng，bukenengyicuerjiu。rutongjianzaoyizuomotiandasha，bixuyizhuanyiwadijidian;wanjiuhunyinyeyaoyibuyibudituidong，badamubiaochaijiechengyigegexiaomubiao，zhujiandadao。

　　zuixian，womenxuyaoweizijishezhiyigehelidewanliushizhangjiagou。buyaojigongjinli，qianwanbuyaoyinweiduanshijiankanbujianxiaoguojiuqingyanfangqi。yibanlaishuo，wanliuyiduanshibaidehunyinkenenghaixuyaohaoduogeyueshenzhigengjiu。zaizheiguochengzhong，womenxuyaojieheshijiqingkuang，chixudiaozhenghaozijidefanganheliucheng。

　　biru，nikeyibawanliuquanguochengfenweiyixiajigejieduan：

　　lengqueqi：zaiganqingchuxianwentihou，shuangfangxuyaoyiduanshijianlailengjingfenxi。zaizheiqijian，buyaojizhelianxita，jiduifangyixiekongjian，rangxinqinghuodehuifu。

　　ziwofanshenghetigaoqi：liyongzheiduanshijian，ziwofansizishenzaihunyinshenghuozhongcunzaidebuzu，bingbuduantishengziji。zhuyaobaokuogaijinzijidegexing、xiguanyangcheng，tigaozijidegoutongxiediaonengli、qingxuyunyingnenglideng。

　　youyiwuyichupengqi：dangwoyoulehendadegaibianhou，keyishizheheduifangjinxingyixieshitanzhechupeng。nengcongyixienuanxindewenhouzhujian，zhubushenru，zhangwobierendexiangfahexingwei。

　　shendujiaoliuyuchuliwentiqi：yidanbicikeyijinxingzhengchangdegoutongjiaoliu，jiunengjinxingshendujiaoliu，shenrutantaohunyinshenghuocunzaidewenti，bingxunqiujiejuefangan。

　　zhongjianxinrenyuaiqingqi：zaijiejuelewentiyihou，bixutongguoyixiliedexingdonglaifujianbicizhijianzhijiandexinrenyuqinggan。zheiyexuxuyaogengduoshizhang、reqingheqinfen。

　　zaimeigejieduan，nidouxuyaoduoyidiannaixin，bieyinyishidecuobaierhuixinsangqi。liru，zaiyouyiwuyichupenghuanjie，zhiyaoduifangfanyinglengmo，nibukeyilimajiusheqi，juedewanliuyaoyaowuqi。fanguolai，nijiuyinggaipouxilingyifanglengmodeyuangu，diaozhenghaozijideduice，zaijiezaili。

　　三、始终不要怀疑自己其价值，但是也不能盲目跟风，要不断增长婚姻和家庭资产

　　fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，zixinxinshishifenzhongyaode。nixuyaoyizhixiangxinzishenyouzhidebeiaiqijiazhi，bieyinganqingchuxianwenti，jiuchedifoudingzishen。

　　zenmewanhuihunyinposuideren，danshi，zixinxinbingbudengyumangmugenfeng。nibukeyiyinweizhiqiandeyoushijiudeyiwangxing，hulvezishencunzaidewenti。zaihunyinshenghuozhong，shuangfangxuyaobuduandijinbuyuchengzhang，cainengbaochihunyinshenghuodewendingxinghexingfukuaile。yiner，zaiwanjiuhunyindeqiantixia，neiniyeyaobuduanditishenghunyinhejiatingzichan,jiarubugaoqingchuneimejiutanxunganqingzixunbangzhu。

　　hunyinshenghuozichanbaokuoyixiecengmian，biru：

　　zishenxingxiang：baochiwendingdewaizaixingxiangnenggoutishengnidexiyinli。shidudezhuangban、yundongjianshen、weichihelideyinshihexiguan，douhuirangnijingshenzhuangtaigengqiang，gengjumeili。

　　neizaixiuyang：buduanjinbu、tigaozijiderenzhishuipingherenwensuyang，keyirangnizaigoutongzhonggengjuhanyi，gengnengxiyinlingyifangzhuyili。yucitongshi，suzaogaoshangdepindehesixiang，hainengweihunyinshenghuozengzhuantianwa。

　　goutongxiediaonengli：dongdegaoxiaodihezuoshijingyingaiqingdeguanjiansuozai。fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，womenxuyaoqingtingduifangxiangfaheganshou，biaodazijideguandianyuqinggan，fangzhizhengchaohemaodun。

　　qingxuyunyingnengli：lejieruhebiaoshiaiyi、zenyangjiejuemaodun、zenyanggoujianlangmandefenweideng，quanshiqingxuyunyingnenglidetixian。genjuxuexiyushijian，ninengranghunyingengweitianmeiyuxingfu。

　　jingjishuiping：suishuojingjifazhanbingbushihunyinshenghuodesuoyou，danpingwendejingjijichunenggouweihunyinshenghuobaojiahuhang。fenshouwanhuihunyindeguochengzhong，niyekeyitongguorenzhengongzuo、tigaozijidezhuanyenenglidengxingshi，zengjiazijidejingjishili。