婚姻不合怎么挽回

　　hunyinbuhezenmewanhui，dangmianduifufujuedinglihunqingkuangshi，dangpengyou、jiarenhuojishuzhuanyezixunguwen，womenchangchangxiwangnenggoutongguoshencengcidejiaoxintanxinlaibangzhutamenzhongxinsikaolianggerendeguanxi，tanxundiaojiedegailv。yixiashuyuyifenzhizaituidongshuangfanggoutongyulijiedejiaoxintanxinshouce，xiwangnengweiwanhuihunyintigongyixieyoulicankaoyiju。

　　一、启动阶段

　　mingquemubiao：zuixian，yaoquedingjiaotandemudejiushiweilecujinshuangfangdexianghuxinrenheqingganxiufu，bingfeipingdingduiyucuo。baochizhonglixintai，zhongshibicidetiyanhepanduan。

　　xuanzeshihezijideziranhuanjing：tiaoxuanyigeanjing、simibingqieduishuangfanggandaoshushiquyujinxingjiaotan，quebaomeiyouwaijieganrao，youliyuhudongjiaoliu。

　　shezhibiaozhun：zaijiaotankaishizhiqian，gongtongshangdingyixiejibenguize，rulunzhejianghua、buqieduanlingyifang、weichiwenminglimaodeng，yibaozhangjiaoliudehexieyugaoxiaolv。

　　xinlishangdezhunbei：tishibicitiqianzuohaozhunbei，zheiyinggaishiyichangjianxindanbixudeduitan，yindaotamenduiwaikaifangxinlizhuangtai，ganyubiaoshuzhenzhengxiangfaheganshou。

　　二、交谈全过程

　　聆听和理解

　　shencenglingting：jiyumeiyigerenchongfendeshijianbiaodazijidebumanyi、xinhanheqiwang，yonghuanweisikaoquqingting，fangzhimashangtichujianyihuojiejuefangfa。

　　quedingtihui：genjuzhongshuduifangdeyisihuozheshiyong“woganjueni……”zheizhongjuxinglaiquedingyulijietamendeqingxu，nengrangduifangtihuidaobeitingdaohebeikanjian。

　　回望快乐时光

　　zhengqueyindaobicizhuiyigongtongduguodemeihaoshike，lirudiyicixiangyudechangjing、yiqiyingnanershangdeqinshenjinglideng，weicijiqibicizhijiandezhenglianqingxuhezhenxidexin。

　　深入探讨根本原因

　　jilibicibingyizhizedefangfatantaozaochengfenqidezhuyaoyuanyin，yingyong“i”juzi(biru，“worenwei……”，“womenxuyao……”)laibiaoxiangerentiyanyuxuqiu，jiangdigongjinengli。

　　taolunshibushicunzaiwujiehuogoutongbudaoweiwenti，yijishifouyoutishengdehenyoukeneng。

　　探寻相同点和目标

　　xiezhubicishibiebingzhuzhongtamenrengrangongtongdejiazhiguannian、lixianghuoduijiarendeqidai，zaizheigejichushangtantaoruhegongtongfendouzhanshengkunnan。

　　tantaohenyoukenengjiejuefanganhuorangbufangfa，jililiangrengongtongcanyujuecequanguocheng。

　　开设个人目标

　　hunyinbuhezenmewanhui，yaoshizhijiejiejuesuoyouwentikanqilaiguoyupangda，nenggoujianyicongkaisheyixiexiaoyoujutidemubiaozhujian，rumeizhouyicidejiatinghuodong、tishengrichanggoutongjiaoliufangshideng，zhujianzhongjianxinrenhechuanqizhifuchengxu。

　　三、跟进工作

　　buduanshiyong：jiaotanwanchenghou，jiyuchixubuduandeguanxinzhichi，anshilejiejindu，yindaotamenweichijijizhudongdegenggaiqushi。

　　jishuzhuanyexiezhu：jiarujiegoufuzahuoshuangfangwufazixingchulinanti，tiyixunzhaohunyinzixunshizhuanyexiezhu。

　　linghuoyingdui：yishidaobushisuoyouqinfendounengchenggongwanjiuhunyin，zuizhongyaodeshizhongshibicizuihoudequeding，buguanjieguoruhe，douyinggaiweichiduiyutamendeaiyuzhichi。

　　jilao，meigerendeqingkuangyuxuqiuquanshiyuzhongbutongde，benzhinanzhitigongyizhongjiagoudegousi，caozuoguochengzhongxugenjushijiqingkuangshishidiaozheng。zuizhuyaodeshi，duoyidiannaixin、zhenzhiheqidai，jianxinmeiyiduanguanliandouyoutashiyongjiazhizhuanhuadekenengxing。