相亲十年次次失败，男生相亲不成功的原因

 nanshengxiangqinbuchenggongdeyuanyinyounaxie？nanrenzuicaolvdexingweidagaijiushicubaodibazijiwufabaituodanshendeyuanyinguijiuyupinqiong，qishizaizheigeshijieshang，yinweipinqiongerbunengjiehundenanrenbudao3%。

yigenanrenzhangshijianbunengtuodan，wangwangshigezhongyuanyinzaochengde。

pengyouxiaoyaojinnian33sui，youfangyouche，wuqiwuzi。

cong23suidao33sui，tayizhizaixiangqindelushangbenpao，danmeiyouchenggong。

“xiangqintainanle，woyijingxiangqin10nianle，danhaishizhaobudaolaopo。”taxiangwobaoyuan。

 tadetiaojianbingbucha，daxuebiye，zaixiaoxianchengyoufangzi，erqieyouyiliangshijiwandedaibuche，suirangongzuobushihenhao，danshiyangjiahukoujiugoule。

 wulunruhe，tadetiaojianbuyinggaishidanshen，danshangdisihujiletayigedaxiaohua，tashiduomekewangyouzijidejiating，daomuqianweizhi，zheigeyuanwangrengranshiyigeyaoyuandemengxiang。

“nizhidaoniweishenmezaizheilidanshenma？”wocengjingzheiyangwenta。

 erqietadehuidayehenqingchu：“wozuiben，buzhidaozenmehenvhaizigoutong，mingmingxinlihenzheji，quezongshibuzhidaozenmezhudong。”

zhidaoneiyikecaifaxiantazhisuoyidanshen，bushiyinweijingjitiaojian，ershiyinweitadexingge。

 zhiyuxiangqin，yicishibaijiushiyunqi，sancishibaijiushimeiyouyuanfen，danshiruguolianxushibaijishicishenzhijibaici，jiuyaocongzijishenshangzhaochuyuanyin。

buxingdeshi，xianshishenghuozhonghenduonanrendoubuyuanyicongzijishenshangzhaoyuanyin。

大多数男人单身不是因为“穷”

 jiaruyigenanrenqiongdaojizhi，yueshourubudao4000，erqieyouyigepoweituoleidechushenjiating，taqueshihennanjiehun，danzheiyangderen。

suiranjuedaduoshurenbingbufuyu，danyebuhuiwufayangjia。

 shenghuozhong90%derendoushiputongren，80%yishangderenkeyijinruhunyindiantang，zheishuomingjingjitiaojianchabingbushibaituobulezhangdandezhenzhengyuanyin

 bijingmeigerendoushiputongren，putongnvrenzaixuanzelingyibandeshihouyebuhuitaitiaoti，tamendaduohuiyiqigongzuozhengqianyangjia，zheishishenghuodechangtai。

 jishimeiyoufangzimeiyouche，youxienanrenzai20duosuideshihouyehuiburuhunyindiantang，fuqitongxintongde，30suideshihouyekeyiyoufangyouche。

youcikejian，pinqiongbingbushidanshendao30duosuidezhuyaoyuanyin。

什么是男男性单身的主要原因是什么

wanwujieyouyin，jiexialaiweidajiafenxiyixiadalingdanshennanrenbunengjiehundezhenzhengyuanyin。

第一是性格缺陷

xinggejuedingmingyun，xinggeyouquexianderenbujinhennanchengjia，erqiehennanchuangye。

yigenanrenzaiyouyixiajizhongxinggequexiandeqingkuangxiahennantuodan。

1.shejiaokongjuzheng(quanzitaixiao)

 nanshengxiangqinbuchenggongdeyuanyinyounaxie？zaidangdaishehuizhong，youshejiaokongjuzhengdenianqingrenbingbushaojian。tamenxiguanxingdibazijiguanzaiyigexiaxiaodekongjianli。ruguotamenbunengyurendajiaodao，tamenjiubunengyurendajiaodao。zheizhongshenghuozhuangtaizhihuishitamenlirenqunyuelaiyueyuan。

 shejiaokongjuzhengdejutibiaoxian：buxihuanyingfurenqingshigu，daizaidahuanjingzhonghuigandaobushufu，zhiyoubazijiguanzaixiaxiaodesirenkongjianlicaihuigandaoqingsong。

suizheshijiandetuiyi，tamenyuelaiyuebuxihuanyurendajiaodao。

congzhangyuanlaikan，quanziyuelaiyuexiao，renshiderenyuelaiyueshao，tuodanziranhuibiandeyuelaiyuenan。

jishiyourenbangmangjieshao，yinweishejiaokongjuzheng，tamenyehennandedaoyigexingfudejieju。

2.zisixingrenge(buzhidaoruheweitarenzhexiang)

meiyourenhuixihuanzisixingrengederen，yinweihezheizhongrenxiangchu，dajiaxinlidouhenbushufu。

zisixingrengedejutibiaoxian：zisi，weizijizhexiang，congbuzaihubierendeganshou。

zheiyangdenanrenhennanjiaodaonvpengyou，yinweinvrenzuihaipadejiushiyudaoyigezisi、butitiedenanren。

3.zibeihenuoruo(buganzhudong)

zaochengzibeideyuanyinyouhenduo，danqibiaoxianfangshijihushiyiyangde：quefazixin，xindikanbuqiziji。

jishinikanbuqiziji，youzennengrangbierenkanbuqini，yinweinidezibei，jishinixihuanyigenvhaiyebuganzhudongzhuiqiu。

dier，beiwangluo“dujitang”suohai

 duimeigerenlaishuo，hulianwangyongyuanshiyibashuangrenjian，takeyijimeigerendailaihenduohaochu，danshiwangshangdedujitangyejihenduonianqingrendailailehendadehuaichu。

youxienanrenyexihuanhedujitang，youqishixiamianliangju。

1.nanrenyousishiyiduohua，yuelaoyuezhiqian

suoweinanrensishiyizhihua，shizhizhangxiangshuaiqi、shencaitingba、shiyeyouchengdenanren。

suizhenianlingdezengzhang，nanrenyuelaoyueyoujiazhi，yezhineixiezaicaifushangyouzhidefeiyuedenanren。

zheizhongleixingdenanrenkanquanguoyebudao5%，danshihenduoputongnanrenzongshibuxihuanbazheijuhuafangzaizijishenshang。

2.nanrenbupanianling，zhiyaoyouqianjiuxing。

congbiaomianshangkan，zheijuhuameiyoushenmewenti，danshiyaozuodaozheiyidianbishangtiantanghainan。

daduoshurendoushiputongren，zhiyouyijuhua“zhiyaoyouqianjiuxing”90%denanrendounanzhule。

第三，“恐女症”

何为“恐女症”？

suoweinvxingkongjuzheng，shizhihaipayunvxingjiechu，gengbugantanlianaijiehundejutibiaoxian。

“kongnvzheng”dexingchengyuanyin

1.wangluo“dujitang”desiyimanyan

yiyigelizilaifoudingsuoyounvxingdoushiwangluodujitangdezhuyaobiaoxian。

shijieziranduoyang，youhaorenjiuyouhuairen，bufenxingbie。

danshiwangluofengxiangzhuanmenzhizaomaodun，zhigongjiyigexingbie，daozhihenduonanrenhaipanvren。

2.nanxingquefadulisikaohedulisikaodenengli

zuoweiyigedulideren，tabuhuixiangxinhulianwangshangdepianmianzhichi。tahuiyongtadexinhedanaolaifenxizheijianshi

erneixiehuanyounvxingkongjuzhengdenanxingtongchangquefadulisikaodenengli。

老年单身男性如何解决婚姻问题

nianlingjiaodadedanshennanrenyaoxiangtuodanjiudezuodaoyixialiangdian。

第一，检查单身原因

renwuwanren，shenghuozaizheigeshijieshangdemeigerendouyouquedian。

jiranniyijingdanshendao30duosui，jiubuyaojixutaobi，shenrushenshiziji，kankannidanshendeyuanyinshishenme。

yidingyaozixifenxi，buyaohulvemeiyigexijie。

dier，zhaochuwenti，dapomeiyige

zhaodaoyuanyinhoucainengyouzhenduixingdegaibian，wentiyekeyijiejue。

一.关于人格缺陷

1.shejiaokongjuzhengdejiejuefangan

 zouchuzijixiaxiaodekongjian，yikaishikenenghuijuedehenbushufu，danshishijianzhanglenijiuhuishiheshenghuodehuanjing，bijingrenshiqunjudongwu。

nikeyicongxiaodaoda，xianjiaoyixiebijiaohaodepengyou，ranhoumanmandihetamendepengyoujiechu，shijianzhanglenidequanzijiuhuibianda。

duocanjiahuodong，manmanxunlianyurenjiechuhejiaoliu。

2.zisirengejiejuefangan

zisibushitianshengde，suoyihoutianyekeyigaibian。

duozhanzaiduifangdelichangsikao，duoweibierenzhexiang，bazheibianchengyizhongxiguan，jiuerjiuzhi，nijiuhuidedaoyigequanxindeziwo。

3.如何克服自卑？

xianzhaochuzibeideyuanyin，shiyinweichushenjiatinghaishishenghuozhongyudaodeyixiejingli？

yuanlifunenglianghuanjing，kankanzijideyoushi，manmandinihuibiandeyuelaiyuezixin。

er.guanyu“wangluodujitang”

buyaotingxinwangluodujitang，duokankanxianshishehui，henduorenzaishenghuozhongshiyitao，zaiwangluozhongshilingyitao。

yongzijidedanaolaifenxizheijianshidehelixing，buyaotingdaofengjiushiyu。

三.关于“恐女症”

duoxiangxiangzijidemuqin、nainaishenzhijiejiehejiejie，yijijialisuoyoudenvxingqinshu。

tamenyeshinvren，danbuxiangwangshangshuodeneiyang。

renyurenbutong，zheiyidianzhifenxinggehexingge，bufenxingbie。

nanshengxiangqinbuchenggongdeyuanyinyounaxie？buyaoduinvrenyoupianjian，shizheduojiaojigeyixingpengyou，manmandenijiuhuigaibian。