相亲男不想谈的表现，相亲男的要求点醒想谈恋爱的大龄女

 xiangqinnanbuxiangtandebiaoxianyounaxie？xiaodongjianxiaoyu：“yibanlaishuo，womenquefayizhongyouchuantoulideyanjinghezhihui，bunengchuantouyijianshiwudehexin，suoyiwomenhuibeiyixieshiwudewaibiaosuomihuohejiuchan。”

 zaidangdai，henduorendourenbuzhuchuyuqingfudezhuangtai，sihuhenduoshihoudouwufakongzhiziji，yizhiyubeishiwudewaibiaosuomihuo，zuochucuowudepanduan。

 yidangdaixiangqinweili。congyikaishi，mudejiushibangzhukewangjiehunshengzidenannv。danwobuzhidaoshenmeshihoukaishi，tabiandeyuelaiyuebutong，tayuxuduofuzaderenxinghunhezaiyiqi，biruyunqi.panbidengdeng。

 zuiyouqudebufenshixiangqin。nixianglianaima？daizhezheiyangdewenti，yiweinianzhangdeshengnvjichuleyigebiaozhundedaan，zheishifeichangzhenshide。

01.女孩被自己煮成了一个年长的剩女，所以她急忙去相亲

 32suidexiaoman，zaipengyoudeyanli“dalingshengnv”。tacengjingtanguoyicilianai，quebeigaozhifuchuzhenxinshibuheshide，fenshoule。xiaomanshangxindeshihou，tajianchidanshen，danshenjinian。

zaiciqijian，jiazhangmendoucuizheyaojinkuaijiejuezijidezhongshendashi。keshixiaomanquetingbujinqu，manmanyebanianlingaoleqilai。

 xiaomanchengrenmingbainianlingyijingdaole，shishihouganjinzhaogerenle。fumuzhidaohou，kaishibaduixiangjieshaojinver，dannianlingshiyigemenjian。

 dangyixienanrentingshuotamenshiyigenianzhangdeshengnvshi，tamenweixiaozheyaoyaotou。xiaomanhenjusang，zhidaonvrenyijingguoleyidingdenianling，tamenzhujianshiquleyoushi。guanyuwaibiao.shencai.shengyuqi，huisuizhenianlingmanmanyouyixiequedian。

 zuihou，dangzheijiarenkandaozheizhongqingkuangshi，tamenbiewuxuanze，zhinenghuaqianqingmeirenbangmang。zailejieleyixieyibanqingkuanghou，meirenmeiyoushuotaiduo。tayongqianzuoshi，liyongshoutoudeziyuan。tahenkuaiweixiaomananpaileyiciyouyicidexiangqin。

xiaomanbujingantansudutaikuai，zijiyemeiyouzugoudexinlizhunbei，zhinengyingzhetoupikaishizijidexiangqinzhilv。

02.大龄剩女的相亲之旅，其实是一次又一次的失败

 xiaomandabandehenhao，kaishileyicixiangqinzhilv。tajinbuzhugandaojinzhang。yibanlaishuo，meirenzhishianpaiyigeduixiang，ranhoulingdaoyitiaoxian，dajianyizuoqiaoliang。dangtamenkandaotashi，tamenjihuhuilikai，rangnanrenhenvrenyoujihuiduchu。

jinguanxiaomannianlingyoudianda，danhaishizhangdebucuo，henduonanrentingdaohouhaishihuizhudonglaixiangqin，zhishixiangjinkuaigaodingshenghuodashi。

xiaomanyebaozhezheizhongxintai，youdianjinzhangdekaishiyiciyouyicidexiangqin，danshitafaxianzijibunengjieshouyidian。

 xiangchujitianhou，meigexiangqinnandouhuitichuqianshou.louloubaobao.jiehun，shenzhixiangqindangwantichufashengguanxi，haishilisuodangrandetaidu。

 xiaomanxinliyoudianbugaoxing，sihumeigenanrendoutaizhejile，yitiandoubunengjiehunshengzi，qizhongbuqueneibaozhebuliangmudelaixiangqinderen。

 tabuxiangruci“diaojia”，danwohaishirenlexialai。dangwolaole，xiangjimeirenmianzideshihou，hennanyiciyouyicidefazuohejujue。zheirangxiangqindenanrenhenkunhuo。dangtamenmeiyouzuocuorenheshiqingshi，tamenbeijujuele。tamenjuedebeiwannonghouhenshengqi，renyuelaiyueshao。

 xiangqinquanmanmandiliuchuanzhexiaomanshiyigeyaoqiuhengaodelaoshengnv，cengjingyouyigexiangqinnanbeijujue，bianzoubianshuo：“zijiyemeikanqingchuqingkuang，haizhenyiweizijishishenme。”xiaomanbiandehenganga，danyemeiyoufanbo。

zhidaotayudaoyigeshiyechenggongdenanren，tacairenbuzhugandaoxingfen，dantabeiduifanggandongle“teshu”yaoqiunanzhu。

03.相亲男的“特殊”要求，让大龄剩女如梦初醒

 xiaofengshiyigehaigui，zaonianweileshiyedanwulehunyin。xianzaishiyeyoucheng，jiuyaokaolvzhongshendashi。tingdaoxiaomandexiaoxihou，talikechanshenglexingqu。zaimeirendebangzhuxia，tamenhenkuaijiujianmianle。

 xiaomanduizheigeshiyeyouchengderenyoudianjinzhanghexingfen。xiaofengmeiyoubiaoxianchurenhebulimao，ershizhijietichuleyigeteshudeyaoqiu：“liuxiaojie，ruguowomenjiaowang，sangeyueneinengjiehunma？”

 xiaomanlengzhule，zheigenanrenbiyiqiandexiangqinnanlaidegengji，jingranxiangjiehunsangeyue。danshitabuxiangcuoguochengren：“nibujuedetaikuailema？meiyiduanhunyindoubushitongguotanlianaicaijiehundema？”

xiaofengturanbeizheijuhuadoulele，kanlaizheigenvrenyizhijujuebierendeyuanyinjiushizheiyang，xiangtanyichanglianai。

 taxianglexiang，haishihenkeqidishuo：“liuxiaojie，wobuparangnishengqi。niconggongzuozhongchouchushijianquxiangqin。woyejichulebaoguideshijian。meigerendouzaimangzhezhuanqian。wozainalikeyiyoujingliheshijianzhuiruaihe？guanjianshiwobuzhidaowoshifounengchenggong。xiaciwogaizenmeban？shishishang，wobunengdengnidenianlingheshijian，suoyiwoxiangyibudaowei。nijuedekeyima？nikeyijiehun。dangnijiehundeshihou，nikeyimanmandixuehuizhuiruaihe。”

 xiaomanxiangmengyiyangxinglai。suiranxiaofengdehuahennanting，dantashizheimeshuode。meigechengnianrendoubuxiangzaizheigenianlinglangfeitaiduodeshijianhejingliquzhuiruaihe。ruguomeiguanxi，ruguomeiyouchenggong，qitarenzuizhongjiangyiwusuohuo。

 xiangqinnanbuxiangtandebiaoxianyounaxie？kanzheshiyeyouchengdexiaofeng，taturannabudingzhuyi。yaobuyaotiaoguotanlianaidehuanjie，jieshoutajiehunsangeyue？“teshu”yaoqiuni？

04.大龄剩女相亲要经过谈恋爱环节吗

cengjingwangshangyouyigeremenhuati：“xiangqinyaobuyaotanlianaicaijiehun？”

 zheigewentihennanhuida。youxierenjuede，ruguotamenbuzhuiruaihe，tamenzenmezhidaoduifangdexingge？tamenzongshihouhuicongmangjiehun。danyeyourenjuede，xiangxiaofengyiyang，ruguotazaidengdaizhihoumeiyouchenggongdifuchushijianhejinglini？zheizhihuijinyiburangzijichengweiyigenianzhangdenianqingren，ranhouhunyinbiandegengjiakunnan。

 jiuwogereneryan，xiangqinhouzhendexuyaoyiduanshijianlaixianghulejie，zhuiruaiheyeshiyigebucuodexuanze。zhishishijianyinggaijinkenengduan。bijing，meigerendouyouzijidekunnan。

 yexubierenwufalijie，danjiehunshiyibeizideshi。jiarukeyi，haishizhengquyixieshijianqulejie，shiweilezijiyeshiweilebieren。

yinci，lianggerenkeyijinliangshangliangyixia，zheiyeshiyigexiaowenti，buchayinianban。

“zhikaolvjinqiandehunyinshihuangmiude，bukaolvjinqiandehunyinshiyuchunde。”

 zheijuhuazhichulejinqianzaihunyinzhongdezuoyongkenengshibiyaode，danbunengtaizhongyao。buxingdeshi，xuduorenkanbutouzheiyidian，zhiliyuwuzhishenghuo。

 dantongshi，zhuiqiuwangwangshiyigekuailedeguocheng，shenzhichengweiyigebeidongdeyifang。dangyouxuqiushi，youjingjitiaojiandeyifangkaishicaiquzhudong，suopeirenbiandefeichangcuiruo。

shishishang，zheiyangdehunyinxingzhiyouhenduomaodun，zuizhongzouxiangwufakongzhidedibu，shenzhiliangrenfendaoyangbiao。

hunyinbushizheiyangde，zhishirenxingbiandefuza。taranglianggerenzaimangmangrenhaizhongxiangyu，ranhouyiqimianduifengyuhexingfu。

xiangqinnanbuxiangtandebiaoxianyounaxie？hunyin，zongshiweilexingfuerjiehun，erbushiweilewuzhi。