相亲完当晚不联系就是没看上吗，剩男都有这3大共性

 zaixianshishenghuozhong，xuduonianjijiaodadedanshennanxingduishengnvgengweitiaoti，youqishizaixiangqinshi。zaitamenxinzhong，tamensihuxingchengleyizhongqianyishi，renweishengnvyouwenti，bunengrongrenshengnvdetiaojian。xiangqinwandangwanbulianxijiushimeikanshangma？

 zhiyaoshengnvtiyidianzeoutiaojian，jiuhuishoudaotamendechaofeng，tamenrenwei：“laoshengnvhaiyouzigexuanma？yourenyaohao。”zheikenengshitamendegongtongxiangfa。

 danshizheizhongxiangfabutaigongping，ruguobaozheduidanshennvxingrucipianjiandeguandian，zhihuirangdanshennvxinggandaobushufuhefangan，gengbuhuikanbuqitamen。

yinci，shengnandezeouxintaishixuyaobaizhengde，ruguobunengbaizhengzheizhongduinvxingdepianjian，zhendehennanshunliqudaolaopo。

 yinwei，meiyouyigenvrenyuanyijiajizheiyangyigezaisixiangshangkanbuqinvrendenanren。dangniwenyigenvrendeshihou，weishenmebuwenwenzijiyouduoren？

 jiuxiangjintianyiyang，yiweiqiantongshizaitadepengyouquanzhongfenxiangletaguoqusanniandexiangqinjingli。tazaisannianneijinxinglejin100cixiangqin，bingkandaolegezhonggeyangdelaoshengnan，danfaxiantamenzhongyouyixiehenchangjian“gongxing”，nvrenzhendebuxihuan。

举几个例子来说明。

 xianshuoshuoqiantongshideqingkuang。tajinnian35sui，985benke，zhichangnvqiangren。dangshitashigongsideyewuzongjian，lingdaotuanduidenenglishiquanjituanzuihaode。

 zheiweiqiantongshizhisuoyizoushangxiangqinzhilu，shiyinweitaheqiannanyouzaiyiqiwunianle，quebeinanyoubeipanle。tabunengrongrentadenanpengyouyuqitayixingyoubuzhengchangdeguanxi。

fenshouhou，tacongweitanguolianai，quanshenxintourugongzuo，jiuzheiyanglikaile。

 yaobushifumucuihun，taningyuanzheiyangdanshen，tashuo，zhendebeiaiqingshanghaile，nanrenzaiganqingshangyoushizhendebufuzeren，tabuganzaitanlianai。

cong2017niandikaishi，yizhidaoxianzai，tadouzaijialianpaixiangqin，jinianshijian，xiangqinyibaici，quemeiyouyicichenggong。

biruyouyici，qiantongshiheyigenanrenxiangqin。xiangqinwandangwanbulianxijiushimeikanshangma？

 nandebitaxiaoliangsui，gangliaolejiju，tajiuyongqingsongdeyuqishuo：“zhiyaoninengsheng，wobujieyinibiwodaliangsui，duiba，nishenghaizimeiwentiba？”

yiqiandetongshitingle，zhendehenganga，zheigenanrenyidianyebuzunzhongta，zhendebanvrendangzuoshengyugongjuma？

yinci，qiantongshilijidaxiaoleyutajixuxiangqindeniantou，tajuedezheizhongnanrensixiangtaifuqian，zhendekanbushangta。

zaitakanlai，zheixieshengnanbuzhidaonalilaideyouyuegan，gangantamenzhixiangqugelaoposhenghaizi？

banvrendangzuoshengyugongju，zheizhenshiduihunyindebuzunzhong，yeshiduinvrendebuzunzhong。

haiyouyici，qiantongshiheyinanxiangqin，nandetiaojianhenhao，shiyedanweiyoubianzhi，nianlinghetaxiangdang。

jieguo，xiangqinjieshuhou，nanzituranwenta：“niyounanpengyouma？wobujieshounvrenyouguoganqingjingli。”

yiqiandetongshibenlaijiushiyigezhengzhidenvren，tanbaidishuo，youyigewuniandenanpengyou，henzaojiufenle。

raner，lingqiantongshimeixiangdaodeshi，zheimingnanziyilianyanedikanzhetashuo：“suanleba，nizheiyangdenvrenwobuganyao。”

 zheiweiqiantongshishuo，zheijiuxiangyigencizhajintadexinli。tazhendehenshengqi。yidanzhuiruaihe，tabushiyigehaonvrenma？zheizhongshengnanshenzhibuxihuanta。sheizhidaotashifouyouguoqingganjingli？

 erqie，jishizaixiangqindechanghe，yebuyinggaizheiyangwurunvren。shenmejiaobuganyao？zheixienanrennalaidezixin，nixiangqu，wokenenghaibuxiangjia。

qunianyouyici，qiantongshiheyinanxiangqin，duifangdou38suile，danhaishijuedeqiantongshinianlingdale，zhenshiwuyu。

 zheiweiqiantongshishuo，dangshitajuedezheigenanrenhenqizijishizhongnianrendexinglie，danhaishixiangquyigenianqingpiaoliangdenvhai，zhenshiyixiangtiankai。

 erqie，zheigenanrenhenxiaoqi。dangtachuqumaiyipingshuishi，tazhimailezijide。suirantabuke，danzheizuyizhengmingzheigenanrenbujinmeiyoushili，erqieshiyigelinsedelaoren。

yiqiandetongshijuede，tazhendetaiqipale，tayibanianling，querenweitashi30duosuideshengnvbuhao。

shishishang，yiqiandetongshiyijiandaotajiumeiyoukanshangta，zhishitahenyoulimao，meiyouzhijiejitaliumianzi。

jinnianyouyici，qiantongshiheyinanxiangqin，liangrenliaodexiangdangtouyuan，danhoulaiyitidaojiehunyaoqiu，neinanrenshunjianbianlelian。

 zheiweiqiantongshishuo，tadangshifeichangtanchengdigaosuta，jiehunyaoyoufang，ji18wancaili，bingchengnuoyouyibandecailihuisuijiaerqu。

jieguo，nanrenyitingjiubugaoxingle，haishuotamenneilijiehunbujicaili，haijitajulishuomoumouqinqijiehunyifenqiandoubuji。

 woyiqiandetongshirenweizheigenanrenzhishixiangbaibaiqugexifu？niweishenmeshuozheimeduoliyou？niweishenmebubainaqiyigeqizi，zheiyangnijiukeyihuiqushenghaizi，xiyifu，zuofan，zhengqianyangjia。zheizhenshiyigeqimiaodexiangfa。

yinci，qiantongshiyelandezaihetashuohua，zheizhongxiangbaiqulaopodenanren，buzhidejia。

leisidexiangqinhaiyouhenduo，jiubuyiyixiele，qiantongshiqianhoujiaqilai，xiangqinjibaici，jihudoushizheiyangdeshengnan。

tashuo，zhendeshangbuqi，zheixieshengnanduiwu，xiangtiaoyilianggegaozhiliangde，zhendebijidanlitiaogutouhainan。

yinci，qiantongshizongjieleshengnandanshendesangeyuanyin，huozheshuotamenshenshangchangjiandesangeyuanyin“gongxing”，nvrenzhendebuxihuan。

01.把女性当“生育工具”

duiyuxuduonianzhangdeshengnanlaishuo，zheishiyigepubiandegongxing，tamenrenweiquqijiushishenghaizi，zhaogutamen。

 zaitamenkanlai，zuizhenshidexiangfabushizhaodaoyigezaihunyinzhongduguoyishengdeqingren，ershizhaodaoyigekeyizhaogutamenerbushitamendemuqin“mianfeibaomu”。

 yinci，dangzheixieshengnanxiangqinshi，zuichangjiandeyishishiyaoqiunvxingnenggoushengyu、guanlijiating、chulihunyinshenghuozhongdejiatingsuoshi，bingzhaogutamenderichangshenghuo。

qiantongshishuozheixieshengnandoushi“juying”shima？zhendehennanxiangxiangzheiyangdenanrennengqudaolaopo，sixiangchenjiu，taibuzunzhongnvren。

zheiyangdeshengnan，yibanbuxihuanshengnv，zuizhijiedeyidian，jiushirenweishengnvbunengshengyu。

 yexu，zheijiushiweishenmetamendouxiangzhaoyigenianqinglaopodeyuanyin，keshi，tamenzheiyangdeshengnan，nagexiaonvhaihuikanshangtamenni？

 buyaohaohaofanshengziji，buyaobanvrendangchengnvren“mianfeibaomu”he“shengyugongju”buhaodexintai，pashiyaoyongyuandanshen，meiyounvrennengkandeshangtamen。

02.不喜欢女人的情感体验

haiyouxiangdangduodelaoshengnan，tamendoutebiebuxihuannvrenguoqudeganqingjingli，danshitamenbierbutanzijideganqingjingli。

 huozheshuo，zaizheixienanrenyanli，wulunduoshaoci，tamendoukeyisuiyidiyouqinggantiyan，danshitamenbunengrongrennvrenyouqinggantiyan。

zheizhongbupingdengdeguandian，yizhicunzai，yechengweitamenduilaonianshengnvdepianjian。

 yiqiandetongshishuo，xiangqinshi，henduoshengnandoushizheiyangde，tamenyaoqiuzhaoyigemeiyouganqingjinglideren，quecongbutijizijideguoqu。

tamenrenweizijiyouqinggantiyanshizhengchangde，danshiduinvxingyaoqiuyange，zheijihubuhuibeixiangqindenvxingsuojieshou。

 ruguoyigenanrenmeiyoulianai，yaoqiutadehunyinbanlvzheiyangzuoshikeyilijiede。danshishishi，xuduoshengnanbingfeiruci。tamenyouhenduoqingganjingli，dantamenyeyaoqiunvxingmeiyouaiqingjingli。weishenme？

 zheizhendeshuomingleshengnandeyibanxinli。tamenduinvrentaikekele，tamenbunengrongrennvrendefanbo。tamenkanqilaihengao，wozongshiduide。zhendemeiyounvrenxihuan。

03.把女人描述为拜金女，物质女人

 yiqiandetongshixiangqinjibaici，zuiqingchudeshi，zhiyaonvrentiyidiantiaojian，zheixieshengnanmashangjiuhuishuotamenshibaijinnv，wuzhinv。

zheixieshengnandourenwei，nvrenbuyaofang，buyaoche，buyaocaili，buhuayifenqianjiukeyijiajitamen，zheishiduide。

tamengenbenbuxiangfuchu，xinlidouxiangbaiqugexifu，zuihaohaishibatamendaotiehao。

 guigenjiedi，zheiyangdenanrenbujinmeiyoujingjijichu，erqiezaihendachengdushangsixiangjiduan，bunengqulaopo，zhihaojienvrenbaijin，wuzhiweijiekou。

chengran，bixujinzhigerenduiyaoqiutianjiacailidebuheliyaoqiu，danxuyaozaihelidejichushangzhengqueduidaihunyinyaoqiu。

zhenxiangbaijianyigelaopo，rangnvrenshenmedoubuxiangjiajini，nengshixianduoshao？

butongyinvfangjiehuntichuwuliyaoqiu，danyebujianyinanfangyimaobuba，tianxiameiyoubaichiwucan，zheijiushixianshi。

haowuliyoudishuo，nvrenshibaijinnv，wuzhinv，zhinengzhengmingnimeiyounengli，zhendemeiyounvrenyuanyijia。

 congkeguandejiaodulaikan，worenweiyiqiandetongshizongjiedebuheli，xiangqinbenshenjiushixianghuxuanzedeguocheng，nizaitiaoxuannvrendetongshi，nvrenyeyidingshizaitiaoxuanni。

biciheshi，zirandoushixingfude，ruguotiaojianbupipei，kendingshibukenengjiehunde。

 shishishang，shangshusangepubiancunzaiyulaonianshengyuzhong“gongxing”wenwenziji，nagenanrenzaijiehunzhiqian，conglaimeiyouzheiyangdexiangfa？

zaixiangdangduodeshengnanzhong，yaoqiunvxingnianqingnengshengyu，jihupaizaidiyiwei。

 ciwai，nanrenkendinghuijieyinvrenguoqudeganqingjingli，buguantamenyoumeiyou，danduizijidenvrenlaishuo，jibenshangbunengjieshoutamendeguoqu。

 zaijingjitiaojianbuhaodeshengnanzhong，tamendaduoxihuanshuonvrenshibaijinnv，wuzhinvren，zuizhenshideyuanyin，haishiyinweitamentaiqiongle。

bingbushishuosheiduisheicuo，zheisangeyuanyinliechulai，yexuyeshiduishengnandeyixiesikao。

 yucitongshi，yetixinggebienvxing，buyaotichubuhelideyaoqiu，hunyinjiangjiugongtongfuchu，yiweisuoqushibukenenghuodezhenzhengdexingfude。

xiangqinwandangwanbulianxijiushimeikanshangma？zongzhi，duiyushengnanlaishuo，youzhidefansidedifang，xiwangnengyinyiweijie。