征婚相亲男女该有心态是怎样的？

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相亲心态一：不要害怕被拒绝

nibenshendejiazhi，yuduifangdepingjiawuguan。

shouxian，zainibeikongjuhejinzhangyanmeizhiqian，xuyaoxianxiangyixiangxiangqindehaochu。

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二、相亲心态一：真爱不是追来的，而是吸引来的

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