相亲记如何把握关键点

 nianmolaidao，xuduodalingshengnvshengnanmendegangkaishixinjiruhexiangjiazhong“jiaodai”le，meiyounanpengyoumeiyounanpengyougengweimeiyoujiehunduixiang，xiangqinzhinanjiazhonglaorenhaowuyiwenhuifenpeixiangqinyuehuide。neizaidiyicidenvhaixiangqinzhongzenyangrangzishendedaoxingfudekaichangni，xiangqinjiruhebawoguanjiandian，caikeyibuxuganqingqiaoqiaodezouyuanni?

一、挑选适合歌曲的饭店

 diyiciyouhui，yizhiyoudianerjiaolvbuande，yinci yaoxuanzeqingjingyidingdefandian，youwennuandegequneimejiugengqiangle!shiyanshuoming，shuhuandeyinlegengfeichangrongyishinvshiduinanshizaochenghaogandu，erjueshiyinlehuozhechedijingjideziranhuanjing。

二、灵活运用身体语言

 gongzuojingyanshuoming，“shentiyuyan”jingchangnenggou xianglingyifangchuansongdaliangdexinxineirongbingbiaoshuchugengjiafengfuduocaideganqing。xiangqinzhinanjiaruniyuyanbiaodanenglibutaihao，jiuxuyaoyingyongzishendeshentiyuyan，jujisuan，zaidiyiciyuehuishi，ninjiaojilingyifangdediyiweihaiyou55%zaiyubiaomianhe“shentiyuyan”，you38%zaiyujianghuadejiqiao，erjinyou7%zaiyuninjianghuadeneirong。

三、善发信息

faxinxishidangdairenguanjiandelianxidianhuazhiyi，yixiezhuangkuangxiayingyongduanxiaoxi，biduolishao，yaojinliangjianshao。

 (1)、youchanshengfenqishi。qinglvhuofufuchanshengfenqihuoshifenqishi，duanxiaoxigoutongjiaoliufandaofeichangrongyichanshengwuhui，naizhihuishiguanlianjinyibuebian。zheishishidefangfashidangzhonggoutongjiaoliu。

 (2)、diyiciyouhuigangwanbi。zaihenanshikaizhanlekaixindediyiciyouhuihou，nihenyoukenengtexiangyutalianluo，danqingbuyaolikejitamenfaxinxi。gangfenlihoujiufaxinxi，henyoukenengbianruonanshiduinidexingquaihaoduhexiwanggan。

 (3)、hezuijiudeqingkuangxia。heduoledeqingkuangxiahenyoukenengshiqulixing。jiarubuyuanshitajiandaonijiejiebabademoyang，qingzaihezuijiuhouguanbishoujishang，bubitongdianhua，gengbubiyishichongdongfaxinxi。

 (4)、nanshiganjuegangahou。jiarutaganleyixieganjuemeimianzideshi，biruchengrencuowulu、gongzifadeshao、xiangqinjigongzuofangmianpengdaokunnandeng，qingbuyaolikefaxinxikuanweita。zheihuishitaganjuenijizhuletaruanruodeyimian。cishishishouhouzaitazhoubianhuoshihuanyigehuatitaolun。